If husband and wife want to spend the night together, they must report to the Ministry of Internal Affairs for the record. For example, on a certain day of a certain year, a princess called someone to wait on her bed. Besides, the princess is under the strict control of Mammy. Many princesses have to bribe mammy to see their husbands. This is also one of the reasons why many princesses died young.
This situation continued until the Daoguang period.
There is such a record in the Grand View of unofficial history in Qing Dynasty: "The princess was abused by the nanny. When the princess got married, she got a mansion. She didn't live with her aunt. My aunt pays her respects to her daughter-in-law. Xu lives in a mansion outside the government, and the princess is not allowed to have a pillow mat unless she declares it. Every time she announced that the princess and Xu would spend countless expenses to be together. If the power lies with the nanny, then people are called housewives. If the princess doesn't bribe the nanny, she will be summoned, and the nanny will hinder her in many ways and even shamelessly accuse her. Women are soft, timid and out of their control. Even if I see my mother in the palace, I dare not complain. I was separated by the situation and couldn't make any comments, that is, I didn't listen. Therefore, among the princesses of A Qing generation, there are those who have no children, and some of them come out of the side rooms. If the princess dies first, she will leave the house one by one, and all the houses, utensils, clothes and ornaments of the house will be put into the palace. In addition to the house, those who enter the nanny's waist are not tested. Generally, ten princesses died of lovesickness. The princess of the Qing Dynasty, like the folk, had many children and many wives. For 200 years, she only called big princess and his wife. At the beginning of big princess's marriage, she was called by the nanny, and she didn't see Xu for many years. She was angry and held back her words. One day when he entered the palace, he knelt in front of Xuanzong and begged, "Who will my father and daughter marry?" The woman said, the nanny doesn't make the minister and wife see it. As the saying goes, the nanny can't take care of your husband and wife, you can be independent. The princess was ordered to go back to the house and reprimanded the nanny, named Fuzhen, and the couple were very loyal. They have eight children, which is second to none since the Qing Dynasty. It can be seen that the distance between the princess and her husband is unknown to the emperor. For 200 years, the princess has never been so bold. Therefore, she often endures and hurts herself to death. The housekeeper abused the princess, especially the prostitute. However, if the palace is not granted the right to take care of her, she cannot do evil. The word "care" is not only awesome, but also ridiculous. I am even equal to big princess and the heroine. In other words, both follow the Ming system.
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