No, find a matchmaker or something. He prepares everything. Newcomers don't have to worry. There are no special customs. Just buy some pots and mirrors. Ask your future mother-in-law, she will tell you. Then at the wedding, I changed my name to Mom and Dad, toasted, lit a cigarette and brought flowers to my mother-in-law. There is a master of ceremonies at the wedding. Don't worry too much. Have a nice coat! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !