On March 20th, it was revealed on the Internet that Dou Wei had been married for three times and married a female fan who worshipped herself. The other person's name is Chen Ran, born in 1980s. As early as three years ago, she was handed over to Dou Wei and gave birth to a daughter. Although it is nothing new for Chinese rock stars to marry their younger admirers, such as Zheng Jun and Wang Feng, Dou Wei's three marriage experiences are comparable to Zhang Wuji's in the rock circle.
△ Dou Wei used Chen Ran in 2009. Let's take a look at how this revelation started with "I have a friend": In 2006, Dou Wei went to the gate of the Beijing News, burned his car and entered the police station. Chen Ran pulled a banner in front of the police station to support Dou Wei, so "they fell in love at first sight".
At that time, Dou Wei was at a low point in his life and wanted to go to the newspaper to find a theory, but the newspaper ignored him. I tried to burn Zhuo Wei's car, but I accidentally burned someone else's car. At that time, the description of Dou Wei in the Hong Kong media was quite vivid, "Calm down and wait for the police". But the "love at first sight" mentioned in this report seems to be debatable, because judging from the former lovers and ex-wives of Dou Wei and Chen Ran, it doesn't seem to belong to Dou Wei.
Rulu, Faye Wong, plateau, an ex-girlfriend and two ex-wives, are all of the same type in appearance, temperament and figure: tall, slim, comely and aura, and their personality is also the most popular "big salsa honey" in Summer Xu among the six gentlemen. Dou Wei burned a car in 2006. Chen Ran's appearance was photographed by the media as early as 2009. At that time, they went shopping in cheap clothing stores together, no different from ordinary couples.
On another occasion, Chen Ran sat in Dou Weili. It is almost unimaginable that this middle-aged man who gained a little weight by riding a bicycle turned out to be a rock star reported by the Hong Kong media at the end of last century.
Chen Ran also starred in the 2009 documentary Goodbye to Utopia with Dou Wei. In this documentary, 20 years have passed since Dou Wei, the golden age of Chinese rock and roll. 20 16 years, there have been media reports that Dou Wei had another woman that year.
Plateau also confirmed that "he remarried". It is said that Dou Lao Wei knows that Dou Wei has been fixed for a long time, but how did Chen Ran win the "Dou Xianer" in the hearts of fans? There is another version of this story.
In this version, Chen Ran did not impress Dou Wei with "love at first sight", but evolved from a stalker to a snail girl. Finally, with persistent perseverance and good cooking skills, the snail girl successfully married a scholar.
No matter which version of the story is closer to the truth, because Dou Wei will probably never be told. But if the story of Snail Girl is more convincing, in a sense, Dou Wei turned the story written by Mr. Jin Yong into life, which can be called the rock version of "Zhang Wuji". The first marriage (1996- 1999) married Faye Wong (like Zhao Min), a talented, charming, full of personality and rich music diva. They are a match made in heaven. △ Dou Wei and Faye Wong.
The second marriage (2002-2004) married a maverick and thoughtful soul mate, an independent photographer plateau (like Zhou Zhiruo), which gave him enough tenderness and comfort in his lonely and cold first marriage.
△ From the eyes of the plateau, it was true love at that time. The third marriage (now), according to legend, he finally married Xiao Zhao-style Chen Ran, and personally served him with no regrets, although he was no longer a male god 30 years ago, and he was over half a hundred and half bald. But under the aura of male gods, the oldest Zhang Wuji always wears a filter in Xiao Zhao's eyes.
If you look back at the reports of Dou Wei's two divorces, you will find that Dou Wei's view on choosing a spouse in Everything is no different from Su Daqiang's love for nannies.
When Su Daqiang wrote poems, everyone thought it was nonsense. Only the little babysitter pitied him and read his four limerick poems, which were long and heavy, just like Li Bai. Being appreciated, understood, respected and treated equally hit the softest part of Su Daqiang's selfish and cowardly heart in the past 60 years. Dou Wei, married to Faye Wong 1996.
Although Fengzi is married, it is rumored that Dou Wei and Faye Wong got cold feet when they proposed, and they were stood up by the Faye Wong studio staff. But after Leah Dou was born, the couple wrote about their children together, which really made the onlookers feel that this relationship can be compared with Jin Jian.
I still remember at the concert, she sang and he played drums. They are considered to be the first immortal lovers in the history of music. But on 1999, Dou Wei and Gao Yuan held a press conference, announcing that he was having an affair and wanted to divorce Faye Wong. He said, "She has always been on it, and I hope to fight for equality." He complained that Faye Wong "always plays cards and sings karaoke, and never finds anyone. We can't live.
Love a person, always want to talk to her all day long, Dou Wei complained, it sounds like you are interested in Faye Wong. But in fact, after 1999 returned to Beijing, Plateau revealed to reporters that she and Dou Wei had been dating for more than five years, which means that Faye Wong has always been a "threesome" in her marriage.
When Dou Wei announced his divorce from Faye Wong, he told reporters that "marrying Faye Wong is a conspiracy", and he said this again after divorcing Plateau. If the marriage between Faye Wong and Dou Wei is evenly matched, the twisted melon will not be sweet after all. Then, the marriage between Plateau and Dou Wei is a chicken feather that SOULMATE can't match in real life.
In fact, the plateau appeared very early. 1994, plateau and Dou Wei met while shooting the cover of the album "Dark Dreams". Later, she said that she fell in love with Dou Wei at that time. Dou Wei, on the other hand, vacillated between the plateau and Faye Wong for five years. I left many photos while shooting for Dou Wei on the plateau.
"See if I like this person or not, just look at the photos," Plateau said, so when they were in love, Dou Wei left a love image in every frame of her eyes. Of course, the lens of the plateau recorded the moment when Faye Wong and Dou Wei were together. This classic photo of Faye Wong and Dou Wei was also taken on the plateau.
When Dou Wei and Faye Wong divorced, they made up their minds to make huge economic cuts without hesitation, in order to realize the desire of a quick victory. But after the divorce, Faye Wong sat in Houhai for three years: "It is said that it takes three years to get married and change words, so I sat in Houhai for three years inexplicably. Get up every day and go to Houhai. I think it is a punishment for me. "
After all, marriage is to struggle with daily necessities and chicken feathers. The unsolved problems in Dou Wei and Faye Wong have yet to be solved. Plateau and Dou Wei, from 1994 to 1999, had an underground romance for five years, and from 1999 to 2002, they had an open romance for another three years. However, after Fengzi got married in 2002, the marriage ended after only two years.
People must live, and love will be attached to people. After marriage, almost all of them are struggling with all kinds of embarrassment brought by life. After Dou Wei got pregnant and gave birth in plateau, her income dropped sharply because of divorce. When all the ups and downs are squeezed into a pale reality by life, love can't generate electricity and can't save each other's burnout. △ When Dou Wei was a child, she and her second daughter Dou Jiayu. After Dou Wei and Gao Yuan divorced in 2004, they were also firm.
In 2006, Dou Wei even publicly accused Gao Yuan of taking the children away without telling himself. The marriage with the plateau was once again Dou Wei "this marriage is a conspiracy." He even said that the plateau was to get back at his ex-boyfriend Ding for being with him. △ Dou Wei. Both marriages were conspiracies? Dou Wei, who writes about advanced animals, seems to be too pessimistic about human nature!
Now, it seems that the first "conspiracy" mentioned by Dou Wei was that Faye Wong tried to bring in the Hong Kong recording industry, while the second "conspiracy" was that the plateau brought the recording industry of Taiwan Province Province into the era of "collecting" the three outstanding artists of Magic Rock. He even suspected that the record companies in Taiwan Province Province were "secret institutions".
Indecision in feelings, such as Zhang Wuji, is insecure, just like Zhang Wuji and Dou Wei. Their childhood experiences not only depend on the worship, appreciation and companionship of their partners, but also need a pure and undisturbed creative space.
Love is sincere at first, but later it makes him feel unhappy. In an exclusive interview with Dou Wei in Xu Gehui, I mentioned my view on happiness: "When happiness appears, I will doubt whether it is happiness, but in my opinion, these happiness will cause misfortune in the future."
I remember that year, Adam Cheng got married twice and had several children, all daughters. She was ridiculed by the Hong Kong media that "Qiu Guan gave birth to a daughter because she owed too much debt".
Dou Wei has been married three times and all three children are daughters, but I don't know who he owes in this life. Or who owes it? It doesn't matter now. △ Dou Wei's two daughters Leah Dou and Dou Jiayu.
Except Dou Wei himself, all the women around him seem to get along well. After the divorce, Faye Wong and Dou Wei said nothing, accusing Dou Wei of being bad. She keeps in touch with Dou Wei's sister Dou Ying and Dou Wei's mother, and Leah Dou keeps in touch with her father and grandmother.
Plateau and Rulu have always been friends. Rulu wrote in her autobiography that when she was having an affair with Dou Wei, she also asked her opinion. "She asked me if I still love Dou Wei. Can I make up with him? I said I had a boyfriend, and she said,' I'm in love with Dou Wei. I told her,' He won't give you happiness.' △ Left: Plateau, right: Rulu. 20 17 years, all troubles are gradually solved. Plateau was interviewed by the media and asked if Dou Wei would pick up her daughter from school. She didn't answer, she just cried.
Dou Wei's talent and charm are beyond doubt. Everyone loved Dou Wei when he was young. Rulu, Faye Wong, Gao Yuan and Chen Ran were all attracted by Dou Wei's talent, and everyone enjoyed their life in Dou Wei.
Dou Wei, who just turned 50 this year, also spent half her life in worship and love. Although it is dusty and frosty here, his partner still loves and worships him like Xiao Zhao.
They are also geniuses. Dou Wei and others are much luckier than those who are hard to survive, such as Van Gogh, Kafka and Borges.
At the end of the new edition, Zhang Wuji not only embraced Zhao Min on the left, but also Zhou Zhiruo on the right, and even planned to go to Persia to find Xiao Zhao. In real life, Dou Wei, Zhao Min and Zhou Zhiruo are too strong to kill each other. Fortunately, Xiao Zhao is willing to be a girlfriend for life.
I remember Li Bihua, the author of Farewell My Concubine, said: "A happy life means living a superior life, paying moderate labor and enjoying inferior lust."
Dou Wei is like this! Although in the mouth of fans, he has always been called "Dou Xianer". However, his own life has been settled: riding a lamb, taking the subway, eating flies in restaurants and holding hands with his lover in the street.
Not poor, willful, not embarrassed, but comfortable. When young literary and art workers are still quoting Duras' famous words to hypnotize themselves, "Love is for me, not for my skin, not for a meal, but for an immortal desire, a heroic dream in a tired life."
The "Dou Xianer" in their eyes has been understood. The last two sentences of the lyrics of "Advanced Animals" sing "Where is happiness? Where is happiness? " Do you understand the answer given by Dou Wei?