June-1February Etiquette arranges parents of both parties to meet to discuss the bride price and the amount of gift money, sets the wedding date, formulates the wedding expenditure budget, decides which party is responsible for the ceremonial wedding, decides the wedding form (grand or simple) and ceremony venue, and decides the wedding form (Chinese or western), date and place to book the wedding reception. In order to avoid dressing up in the corner to decide the color of the wedding dress, floral decoration and wedding venue, make skin care and bodybuilding plans. Others can consider finding a new home for 4-5 months, borrowing a church, asking a priest/priest to officiate at the wedding, discussing the wedding procedures with the priest/priest, and consulting the restrictions of the church, such as venue layout and photography arrangements.

Draw up a guest list with both fiance and parents, and estimate the number of guests who may attend the wedding banquet. Choose the wedding invitation, and then finalize and design it. You can draw a map of the wedding venue on the wedding invitation for the convenience of relatives and friends. Remember to proofread the text before printing.

Dress decides whether to tailor or rent a wedding dress. Collect information about the wedding dress shop, so as to choose a suitable wedding dress shop, rent a dress, order or rent an evening dress, choose jewelry, headwear and accessories that match the wedding dress, order a suit and dress with her fiance, order a dress for both parents, choose a dress for bridesmaids and groomsmen, and take other wedding photos. Plan how to decorate the new home, list the household items of the new home, and choose department stores to register wedding gifts. Choose your favorite items, make a list of gifts, and send them to your relatives and friends together with invitations to tell them about your honeymoon trip; Make a budget; Decide your destination and itinerary; Collect information about your destination, such as climate, language, currency, etc. ; Check the validity of your passport; Apply for a pre-marital medical examination visa; Arrange premarital counseling for 2-3 months; For example, going to the marriage registry in person. The registry staff should be informed of the name and address of the church and the names of witnesses, so that the registry staff can send the marriage certificate to the church later, so as to select the items that have been written and given as gifts, prepare for the dowry wedding, discuss the rehearsal procedure with the priest/priest, select music, hymns and speeches, make an appointment with the photographer, and explain in detail the shooting and video recording procedures on the wedding day. Including picking up the bride, returning to the door, planning the layout of the wedding venue in the marriage registration office, church and hotel, selecting staff, purchasing necessary items, preparing the banquet of the sister group, determining the banquet menu, writing invitations, ordering foreign wine, ordering flowers, notifying the flower shop of the wedding color, and ordering the overall beauty plan of the wedding cake dress, including the bride bouquet, flowers in the audience and floats. The skin care and hairdressing plan begins-the makeup and hairstyle on the wedding day are selected-the makeup artist and hairdresser are appointed-the skin care is thoroughly carried out-appropriate physical exercise is carried out, other furniture and new household items are purchased, the honeymoon itinerary is determined, and travel items are purchased with gifts a month ago. Send dowry to the wedding, finalize the list of guests and staff, compile church etiquette, determine the rehearsal time and place, make the wedding schedule and the seating table of the wedding banquet, send all invitations to the wedding banquet, try on the wedding dress, evening dress, skirt hanging and dress with cake cards, and make changes when necessary. Buy accessories for engagement shoes and evening shoes. Including headdress, veil and accessories, underwear, shoes, gloves and other gifts for bridesmaids, groomsmen, brothers and sisters, including the information, address and time of the giver. And reply to the thank-you card to register with the travel agency or order air tickets, and confirm that the wedding book was sent to the priest/priest two weeks ago. Banquet staff, confirm the dishes and size of the wedding banquet, buy a guest list, dress up as dragons and phoenixes, try on makeup, try on hair, try on wedding dresses, take other location wedding photos, pack up household items, and arrange to move into a new house a week ago. The wedding will be held in the church and needs to be arranged. And notify the relevant personnel to be present and check all wedding and wedding supplies to avoid missing anything. Invite a good friend to hold a sisterhood luncheon for the bride with personal belongings and give gifts on the wedding day. Take the groom to have an all-male class party, but don't do it the night before the wedding to avoid being too tired on the wedding day. Etiquette reminds the "lucky girl" to schedule a roast pig wedding in her hometown the next day, and explains the procedures on the wedding day to her parents and staff, and explains everyone's responsibilities, such as decorating the church/auditorium, removing hair, trimming eyebrows and nails, and other expenses (church, hotel, restaurant, opening the door, tips). Remember that some restaurants only accept cash or promissory notes to prepare irons, ironing boards, mirrors and needlework for emergencies, and bring them to the wedding scene to remind guests and staff to collect travel equipment by phone. The day before the ticket is taken, the etiquette is that the "good woman" or the elder will issue the wedding procedures and seating arrangements for the couple's wedding, pack up the wedding and wedding banquet items, and prepare to take them to the wedding banquet for the rehearsal dinner, so as to remind makeup artists, hairdressers and photographers to attend the skin care and maintenance on time.

2. How to decide the wedding menu and recommend it?

1, main course selection

On the menu of the wedding banquet, order one or two dishes to keep up appearances first. This dish must be advanced, upgrade the whole table, and then order an attractive dish, such as celery and lily, which means it will last for a hundred years. Green vegetables are the cheapest seasonal dishes, sweet soup and corn soup are better, golden yellow, good-looking on the table and rich in color; Salted soup with wild mushroom soup, these two soups are in line with the green theme, and the important thing is that they are cheap and do not lose grade.

Step 2 choose hot dishes

Hot dishes are the highlight of the wedding menu, and chicken, duck, fish and seafood are indispensable. But when ordering hot dishes, don't order dishes with too low grade, because after all, it's just a banquet, and the grade of the whole table should be considered. Pay attention to see which dishes can be discounted. In fact, many wedding banquet restaurants have discounts. Pay attention to the collocation of tableware, and the tableware must be beautiful.

3, wedding menu collocation principle

Vegetarian collocation: There should be 6-8 hard dishes in the general menu, that is, chicken, duck, fish and seafood. In order to get bored, we should also stir-fry some vegetarian dishes.

Practice collocation: stir-fry, stir-fry, stew, so many dishes, don't just choose stir-fry or stir-fry, which is not only bad for your health, but also has a single taste!

Taste matching: fresh, spicy, sweet and sour, these tastes can be matched at the same time, and the arriving guests have different tastes, which should be light and heavy.

4. Fruit selection

At the banquet, in addition to vegetables, fruit will definitely be served after dinner. When choosing fruits, you should choose fruits with auspicious meanings. For example, pomegranates and grapes represent many children, peaches and strawberries.

Life is sweet, kumquat represents wealth, and apple represents health. In short, try to choose these beautiful fruits.

3. How to book a wedding hotel?

1. Understand the prices and features of major hotels.

Now, search your favorite hotel online, their food prices, menus, environment, if there are any features. If the wedding reception is held in an ordinary hotel, it is meaningless. Choose one more, then make a field trip and choose the most satisfactory one for the wedding reception.

2. Can the deposit be refunded?

After you book the hotel, you will pay some deposit. But there are exceptions to everything. If the hotel temporarily changes to a banquet, whether these deposits can be refunded or half will be discussed.

3. Do you want to take the red carpet?

Some friends didn't invite a wedding company to their wedding reception. Everyone's requirements are different, but the hotel should lay a red carpet to represent the celebration. This should also be agreed in advance. If you don't say it first, you will be charged extra.

4. Does the hotel have a master of ceremonies?

In addition, don't ask the friends of the wedding company, but also ask whether the hotel has a master of ceremonies. There must be a master of ceremonies at the banquet. Some high-end hotels have emcees. If not, you'd better contact a master of ceremonies in advance to avoid looking for someone temporarily.

5. Wedding wine standard

The price of wedding wine provided by the hotel will be relatively high, so it needs to be purchased in advance. At this time, you should communicate clearly with the hotel in advance. Choose different grades of wine according to wedding needs. Choose some high-end healthy wine, such as Xiaohua wine, which is affordable and of good quality and can be used as a brand.

6. Does the hotel provide free audio?

Many wedding companies don't have stereos, but hotels still provide them. For example, some specially selected songs and equipment tuning are provided free of charge. If you need Andhadhun to tune the sound effect midway, whether it is free or not, all these should be discussed. In short, everything that needs to be paid should be explained in advance, and it is too late to mention it before the wedding reception begins.