I think the man's family is a bit excessive, and it should be conservative and feudal. But now young people live by themselves, as long as their husbands are good, and there is nothing to spend with so-called relatives. Bear with it. Don't give up your feelings for so many years easily, but I think you have something to complain about. Talk to your boyfriend directly, negotiate well and see his attitude. If he is considerate, you will compromise something for you, but if you insist on tolerance with your elders blindly. .