Engagement and date selection are all things that need to be done before doing anything. There are many things to buy during engagement and date selection. The man should buy two sets of clothes for the woman and one set for her parents from the inside out. Need to buy three gold, that is, gold rings, necklaces, bracelets. Then there is the gift money. It is said that Pan Ji's side is more complicated, and there is a procedure for engagement.

Generally speaking, after engagement, the banquet is organized. This is a very complicated process, which needs careful discussion between the two companies. Because the variables are very large, it is not easy to elaborate. Generally, you need to prepare alcohol and tobacco, book hotels, wedding companies, lists and so on.

The rules of the wedding day vary from place to place. Pan Ji is more complicated. You need to send chicken, fish, meat, bread and so on. Tianjiaan doesn't have these things.