I was born in the countryside, and my family has poor economic conditions. My father died eight years ago, and my mother was the only one in the family for my sister and me to study. It is too difficult for my mother to work alone. After that, I decided to drop out of school and work in the county to support our family. After all, my mother has been tired for so many years, and I can't bear to let her suffer any longer. I am working hard outside. I hope my sister will study hard and find a good job.

Later, my sister did not live up to my expectations and was admitted to a better university. I will work harder to earn tuition for her. In order to earn more, I work two jobs a day and sleep almost a few hours every day, but I met my girlfriend at work. She is very kind to me. She knows I'm from the countryside, but she doesn't dislike me. She tells me many happy things every day to adjust my stress and have her company.

In my third year with my girlfriend, we also reached the age of talking about marriage, so I wanted my parents to make decisions for us. At first, her family said they wouldn't embarrass me, because my family's conditions were not so good, so I just gave 65,438+10,000 as a bride price. Hearing this, I think it makes sense. After all, they have raised their daughter for more than 20 years, and the money is nothing at all. I discussed it with my mother when I got back.

I am very happy. I'm getting married. It's really incredible to think of it. But two days later, my girlfriend's family said that the bride price was unlucky, and ten sounded like a dead homonym, saying that I should either add a little less * * *120,000. I don't think we should agree to120,000 as a bride price just because a bride price is unlucky.

I think I've been married to such a woman all my life. I must make her happiest and make this wedding lively. So I held a wedding in the most upscale hotel in the county. My girlfriend and I are carefully planned. All my relatives were invited on the wedding day. My wedding day was the happiest day for me for so many years, but just before the wedding, my girlfriend took me aside and said to me, "Husband, my family just told me that1.20 thousand Yuan You gave me too little bride price, saying that it was not cost-effective for me to marry you, and that I didn't get married until you bought a house and a car. Otherwise, my parents won't let me marry you. My mother also said that a rich boy wants to marry me and needs a lot of money. "

Hearing this, I suddenly collapsed. Is this a temporary rest? I found my mother-in-law in a rage and wanted to find out. Before I said a few words, my mother-in-law roared, "You are from the countryside. Who do you think you are? You don't have a car or a house and you want to get married? What a world this is. Want to marry my daughter without money. You can dream about it. You don't have a house or a car, and I don't care if you add 65438+ Wan Cai Li. "

At this time, my girlfriend came over and said, I am willing to spend money on my sister's study. Will she be my wife soon? I don't want to spend this money? Is she worth 65438+ ten thousand in my heart? Only then did I know that my wife was on her mother's side. At this time, my mother had no choice but to cry silently. I looked very distressed, and all my relatives at home knew about it. I was really embarrassed at that time.

I think my girlfriend and her family like rich people so much that I don't want to get married, so I canceled the wedding and took my mother and my sister back to my hometown. My girlfriend became an ex-girlfriend. This incident has become a laughing stock in the eyes of many people. I'm really sad. My wedding was ruined before it started. I really dare not fall in love. What should I do?