I also got married in October. There are generally no specific figures for bride price and dowry, depending on the ability of both parties. You can't go beyond your ability. Sell the house and land to make a living after marriage.

Generally speaking, household appliances and rings are bought with the bride price money given by the man. If it is not enough, the woman has to bear some, but it is generally enough. I can't give it to you 10W. Buy a 20W wedding ring.

On the wedding day, the expenses of the motorcade are paid by the man. Furniture is usually bought with the decoration of the man.

The wedding reception depends on how many tables the man is willing to bear for the woman and how many tables the rest of the woman will bear.

What bedding is left? You can buy it yourself. I don't think it is necessary to divide the money so finely.