According to the traditional custom in China, on the wedding day, that is to say, if there is a wedding car to get married, the woman should be away from the man. Of course, she had to live separately the night before. The woman should live in the so-called "family". You can book a room for her in the hotel. At that time, drive the motorcade to the hotel to meet her. This is how newcomers deal with this problem at present. Of course, the man should have a farewell party and the woman should also have a farewell party. In this case, it is necessary to reserve several rooms in the hotel for her maiden relatives, at least for the guests of the bride's family. This is indispensable in etiquette. Are you married? All guests at home. Everything should be considered thoroughly, otherwise even if people don't say anything, they will feel that the wedding is somewhat inappropriate.
As for what guests to invite, it should be up to you two to decide. If you both work in other places and the wedding is to be held in other places, you need some guests who are not your relatives to join in the fun.
It shouldn't matter. It's mainly up to you two Asking for your wife's advice will also enhance your feelings. Anyway, the wedding is very troublesome, it's no big deal. I hope everyone can ask more from "people who have been there". I wish you a happy wedding.
Step 2: The wedding receptionist accepts the order.
For the record, I worked in a wedding photo studio. I typed this passage myself. Do not extract. Whether it is a photo studio or a wedding-related industry, it is universal.
Someone in the shop helps you study. I have done it before, and I have study notes. It's hard to describe now.
First of all, the general store requires employees to stay, which is to welcome guests. Ask for a smile, a soft tone. I don't need to say welcome etiquette. When guests enter the store, they should first be guided to sit down in the order receiving area and pull out chairs for the guests. Self-introduction: Hello, I am your service shop. My name is * * *. Make eye contact and ask for a smile on your face.
Other shops pour tea for guests and help this shop get supplies, such as photo albums and price lists.
First of all, don't ask the guests directly how much you want to take a wedding photo. That's rude.
You can introduce the characteristics of your store first, whether it is a theme wedding dress, a sea view theme, a VIP photo album or a European photo frame.
When the guest expresses great interest, try to understand the guest's consumption demand and consumption ability. Ordinary guests say they want to see two or three thousand, so you take out a set meal of three or three hundred and ask if it is suitable. If the guests don't object, they can introduce the contents of the set meal with basic consent. At the same time, take a small order and write the contents of the set meal as you speak, not in small print. Basically, after you finish writing, the whole paper is full, so you can't help but be tempted. There are so many services, remember to write a few sets of styles, hehe.
If the guests don't want to, then follow the routine from 3300 to low. At the same time, make eye contact with the guests in time and pay attention to the water in the guest's teacup. Some people's personalities can be seen from the conversation whether they are impatient or not, and who is in charge between husband and wife. It's much easier to find a point to intervene.
Sometimes, if the woman takes the initiative, she will basically get her approval. (Remember not only to introduce your products, but also to introduce yourself and sell yourself.) The basic list will do.
If the order is successful, make an appointment to take photos, pay attention to matters, sign a photo contract, pay in advance, leave a business card, and declare again: Hello, please remember me, I am your exclusive service store * *, please contact me in time if you have any questions in the future, and I will try my best to give you the best service.
When the guest leaves the store, he can send a short message to the guest's mobile phone, usually a message of blessing, and finally the signature is * * Store * *.
Of course, the list that cannot be received should be tracked in time. For those who are willing to leave contact information, you can contact them appropriately. Don't refuse reluctantly. Some people don't like to be disturbed
Don't show excessive behavior to marketers in the same industry.
I once met a marketer. She said our service was good, and she was a little embarrassed. There are also some wedding photos taken by the staff of other photo studios before.
Smile service is very important.
3. How to pick up the bride when you get married
There is a wedding now, and everyone is very interested in Chinese weddings. If you choose to hold a Chinese wedding, how can you pick up the bride? How to pick up the bride when you get married? Let's take a look at the bride selection process that newcomers must know, so that you can easily grasp the little details that the bride is most concerned about.
Wedding reception process 1, lovable: When the groom meets the woman, he should hold a bouquet of flowers in the room for the bride to get married. At this time, the bride's girlfriend should deliberately stop the groom, but the condition is that the groom agrees, usually with a red envelope gift. The process of getting married and picking up the bride II. Farewell: how to pick up the bride when you get married? The bride should say goodbye to her parents while the groom just bows.
The process of picking up the bride after marriage 3. Going out: The bride should be escorted on the limousine by a female elder holding a bamboo plaque or a red umbrella, because the bride can't see the sun overhead, and the other party hopes to live a happy life like this female elder, that is, to spread the branches and leaves. Sprinkle red beans, mung beans and rice on the top of the umbrella to ward off evil spirits.
(Note: Prepare a bamboo plaque and paste a happy word on it) Wedding reception process 4. Car: How do you receive the bride when you get married? Bamboo plaques can be placed on the back cover of luxury cars. Wedding banquet process 5. Fan worship: Before the bride gets on the limousine, an auspicious little boy holds a fan (put it on a tea tray) for the bride, and the bride returns a red envelope to thank her.
(Note: Prepare a fan and bring two small red envelopes) Wedding reception process 6. Never say goodbye: never say goodbye to a woman's family when everyone leaves her home. The process of getting married and picking up the bride 7. Throwing a fan: how to pick up the bride when you get married? After the car starts, the bride will throw the fan out of the window to show that she will not bring her bad temper to her husband's house. The little boy will pick up a fan and give it to her family. They will give her a red envelope to thank her.
The process of getting married and picking up the bride 8. Burning cannon: how to pick up the bride when you get married? The limousine left the woman's house to set off firecrackers.
4. How to choose a sedan chair when getting married?
Marriage is one of the most important things in one's life. After marriage, the children of the two families will re-form the family, have children, and support the negation of both sides. Marriage also means from boy to man, from girl to woman. I believe everyone is busy on their wedding day. In order to familiarize the newlyweds who are about to enter the marriage hall with the process of picking up relatives on the wedding day, here is an introduction.
Pick-up process on wedding day
Pick-up process on wedding day
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Get up early to prepare. The wedding day is very busy, so the bride and groom have to get up early to prepare for the next day.
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Send out red envelopes. Don't forget to give red envelopes to relatives and friends who come to the groom's house in the morning, and give red envelopes, candy and cigarettes to drivers and photographers of the motorcade.
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The groom should contact the motorcade and relevant personnel to be present. In the morning, the groom took a bunch of flowers and set off with his best man, friends and the camera crew of the wedding company. When the motorcade arrived, he got on the bus and set off firecrackers within the specified time.
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Arrive at the bride's house. The groom knocked at the door with the best man, relatives and friends. Generally, the groom will knock on two doors. At the first door, relatives and friends of the bride's family will try their best to stop him. Of course, the groom can't be stingy with his red envelopes, candy and cigarettes. Say more nice things and give more red envelopes. I believe it will be faster to get close to the first door. The second door is more difficult, but by the same token, don't be stingy with your red envelope.
Pick-up process on wedding day
Pick-up process on wedding day
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After entering the bride's room, present a bunch of flowers. The groom presented a bouquet of flowers to the bride, and the photographer and cameraman began their busy work.
Pick-up process on wedding day
Pick-up process on wedding day
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Looking for shoes. After entering the bride's room, you can't leave immediately. You need to find the bride's wedding shoes. Generally, two pairs of wedding shoes will be hidden in an inconspicuous place in the room by relatives and friends. The groom wants to find it quickly, but don't be stingy with the red envelope.
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After finding the shoes, the bride's relatives carried the bride downstairs, and the bride and groom got on the wedding car and went to the wedding room. At the same time, the groom should inform his parents in advance to wait in the new house.
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The groom offered tea to the bride's parents. The bride's parents give the groom red envelopes.
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The motorcade arrived at the new house and set off firecrackers. When the groom carries the bride upstairs, he may encounter various obstacles or give red envelopes on the way. Drinking sweet soup means having children early. The bride makes tea for the groom's parents, and the groom's parents give the bride red envelopes.
Pick-up process on wedding day
Pick-up process on wedding day
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Everyone goes to the restaurant for dinner at noon. After everyone has finished eating, the newlyweds go to the hotel, the bride goes to the dressing room to make up, and relatives and friends can freely move or help in the hotel to prepare for the wedding in the evening.
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Matters needing attention
As long as you make preparations for the wedding day in advance and know well, the wedding will be carried out in an orderly way.