The time to "eat" is the eve of the wedding, and there are three or four pairs of singers in the descendants to "eat". After dark, they came into the house with presents and songs. There are several female singers waiting at home.
Into the room, according to the table. First, the tea tray was served with liqueur. Later generations ate the sweet wine and sang the "song of apology", so they put the gifts on the tea tray and sang at the same time to show that the ceremony was light and the righteousness was heavy. Gifts include decorative silver bracelet syringes, buttons, rings and so on. And different gift money. The representative of the woman who came to receive the bride price sang a thank-you song and presented the tea tray to the Lord.
Then eat camellia oleifera and sing "Thank Tea Song". Tea is a banquet. At this time, the married girl came out to accompany her, but it didn't take long. After midnight, she returned to her room, leaving her companions to sing with the younger generation.
The banquet hall is the climax of this song. I began to sing some customs and habits of asking questions to each other, and then sang "sad songs", recalling the scenes of the dead playing in the mountains and regretting their youth. This kind of songs account for a large proportion, and they have been sung for a long time. The songs have reached the point of emotion, and not only the singer cried, but also the audience choked. Often at this time, the bride can't help crying in the room, crying out the bitterness of her experience; The younger siblings who cry are young, so it is difficult to help them take care of them. Crying and sharing with your peers will make it difficult to get together often in the future. Such a weeping wedding often brings tears to the eyes of the people present.
After midnight, the bride will go out, and with the weeping wedding song, the "wishing song" and "farewell song" in the hall come one after another, full of emotions and feelings, saying goodbye.
If several groups of young people come to "eat", the scene will be even more exciting. Apart from gifts, each group of students is more than just songs. If the "companions" also participate, the competition songs will be more enthusiastic. At this time, young people who eat "Ba" have to deal with those extremely spicy girls' songs and "satirical songs" with their relatives. They really need some skills, and their singing ability can be fully exerted on such occasions. Those who can't sing well are famous throughout the country. If you lose this song, go back and study hard and play next time. Therefore, "After Life" is a song meeting to bid farewell to peers, and it is also a "battlefield" for singing. This custom prevailed until the eve of liberation.