The cost of marrying a rural daughter-in-law
The cost of the new three-story building on his homestead is about 350 thousand, and the man will bear it all. The bride price is about 80 thousand, of which the bride price wine is about 1 10 thousand, and the rest 70 thousand women return it in the form of dowry. The bride price is about 6.5438 million yuan, and every penny should be brought back to the man's house when the woman gets married.
1. Couples who are married in the form of blind date in rural areas now, if the man's house does not have a new three-story building, no woman is willing to marry. This is the first choice for rural women to get married at present, and rural men who can't meet the conditions just helplessly hold bachelors.
2. Bride price is a traditional model in rural areas, and it is also a direct subsidy for the man as the dowry of the woman. When a rich family marries a daughter, the dowry will be much more than the bride price given by the man. If there is no money at home, at least a dowry of not less than the bride price will be given. In fact, when the man helps himself get married, he gives money to the woman's house to buy dowry equipment, which will be sent to the man's house when he gets married.
3. The wedding gift100000 or so, mainly to verify that the man has no family around and eats the poor family who has never been to the next meal. So he must take out real money to prove that the woman will not worry about her livelihood after she marries her own family. The money is mainly for her family to see. When she gets married, the money will be brought back to the man's house with the dowry red envelope.
Summary: The above expenses are unilaterally paid by the husband's family, and most rich women are looking for suitable objects. The money is only reflected in the generous dowry, that's all. (Of course, there are also some girls who go out to work and bring the N million yuan they have saved for N years to the man's house. Some of these girls, and most of them are women who have never saved money, only have individuals when they get married. A wedding banquet is similar to a gift, and a few people will have a slight surplus.
To sum up, to marry a country girl in the countryside, you have to marry an ordinary village girl, at least 500 thousand. If you don't have that much, you have to borrow money to complete these steps (building a house+bride price+wedding gift), otherwise you can't marry a daughter-in-law in the countryside. Many rural families get married by borrowing money. After marriage, the couple and the man's parents will pay back the money in several years.
Marry a wife in a fourth-tier city in the mainland
As long as you have a down payment house in this city, urban marriage is almost always a cooperative combination model. Generally, the man pays the down payment, the woman pays the decoration and home appliances, and then the bride price is dispensable. The wedding banquet is shared by both parties, and there is no need for wedding gifts when getting married. The average house price in fourth-tier cities is about 5,000 yuan. According to the calculation of 100 square meter, a suite costs only 500,000 yuan, and three talents pay down 1.5 million yuan. Wedding banquet and gift money are almost equal, and a few people have a slight surplus. Ordinary people in cities usually take wedding photos at around 5,000 yuan, so most of the 30,000 yuan spent on marriage is shared by both parties.
To sum up, a city man can marry an ordinary wife in a third-and fourth-tier city as long as he has 200,000 yuan (down payment 1.5 million, wedding expenses of 50,000 yuan, and wedding expenses are almost the same as gift money). In the future, the repayment of loans will be shared by both parties, which is the mode and mode of marriage for men and women in most third-and fourth-tier cities.
Inland underdeveloped provincial capital cities.
The cost of marrying a wife is only a little higher than the house price. Other wedding expenses are similar to wedding expenses. The price of decorating household appliances can only be cheaper, but never more expensive. So men in big cities are only more expensive to get married than people in remote areas, that's all. Calculated by the average house price of provincial capitals in underdeveloped areas in the mainland, it is also 360,000 square meters, with a down payment of 30%. Other wedding expenses are the same as those of the third-and fourth-tier models. Almost 400,000 yuan can easily marry an ordinary wife in a provincial capital city in the Mainland.
And I like men in the first-tier cities of Beijing, Guangzhou and Shenzhen.
The cost of marrying a wife is only higher than the house price, and other prices are almost the same without calculation. At present, the average price of commercial housing in first-tier cities is about 30,000 yuan, and the down payment is 30% according to 100 square meter, which means you need to pay 900,000 yuan. Other wedding expenses are the same as above, that is to say, in China's first tier cities, if you are less than 950,000, you can marry an ordinary girl to go home and complete the lifelong marriage.
In China, no matter in which city or region, except the poor housing price, other living costs are equally high, because most people live at home, not climbing the rich, but more expensive, so naturally it is impossible to compare with the most expensive. The prices of rice, oil, electricity, coal, gas, water, meat, eggs and other ordinary necessities are similar. I have been to all the first-tier cities in China, and I have been to more than half of China. I feel that the cost of living is the same in China except for the difference in housing prices (the difference in housing prices will affect the cost of accommodation, and generally the cost of accommodation in cities with expensive housing prices will be high, and the cost of accommodation in cities with low housing prices will be cheap). Here, whether you are in the first-line north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, or in a remote county, there is almost no difference between the prices of food and clothing stores. Relatively speaking, except for the housing price difference, most other commodities in big cities are cheaper than those in remote areas. When it is worse than the price, please remember that the quantity of homogeneity is better than the price, and the same price is better than the quality. What we are talking about here is not the most expensive and highest consumption, but only the living cost of ordinary people. In big cities, except for housing, other expenses such as living, food, clothing, housing, and epidemiology are not only cheaper than those in third-and fourth-tier cities, but also more convenient. )
Actually, I want to say something from the heart. Rural girls are demanding. Really, those low requirements are that they get pregnant when they work outside when they are girls, or some children are born and have to combine. Many of them are not accepted and recognized by the woman's parents. Later, it was because there was no way to make do with the reality of having a child, because there was no way for the child to be pregnant or born. Some of them are girls who have grown up and made a fool of themselves, and they can't do without handsome boyfriends. Young people don't know what material things are, so they have to combine with Gao Shuai's considerate boyfriend.
Relatively speaking, the daughters of ordinary people in third-and fourth-tier cities have the lowest requirements. However, except nominally above average or below average, these are all concentration camps for leftover women in the future. These two groups are almost all high-minded and low-minded, but they claim that they will only marry material men and women who have a house and a car, or they will only find a gentle and considerate brother who has a good relationship with Gao Shuai. People like this are not really stopped by men who account for at least two of Gao Shuai's richest people. These two parts of women are naturally the protagonists who are eventually eliminated by society and become veritable leftover women in the future.
Afraid of some unreasonable people coming out to refute, I'll give you Baidu Encyclopedia first:
A netizen said: for an ordinary man with a house in the countryside, it is almost enough to find a wife as long as 50 thousand bride price. What I want to ask is, how much does it cost for an ordinary man with a house in the city to find a wife? I'm telling you, it's just under 30 thousand No matter whether urban men marry rural women or urban women, they will not give bride price. He will buy that woman a piece of jewelry at most. If you have money, you can buy expensive ones, and if you don't have money, you can buy around 10 thousand. Other expenses are used as wedding photos, and the wedding company is invited to take photos at the wedding, and finally 30,000. The wedding banquet and the gift money are almost equal.
A netizen said: it was cheap to build a house in the countryside a few years ago, as long as it was 107.8 million. Then can you tell me how high the city housing prices were in previous years? I tell you, a few years ago, the housing prices in cities were less than half or only one third of what they are now. Is it interesting to say past prices? The key is how much the present value needs.
In addition, I will give you a genealogy: Liaoyuan, China has a vast territory, and the expenditure on marriage and love in rural areas varies from place to place, but even though China has a large territory, the expenditure on marriage and love in rural areas in China can be roughly divided into the following three levels.
1. Due to the serious son preference in these areas, the cost of marriage is the lowest. It's really a loss to marry a daughter from Guizhou, Guangxi, Guangdong and Hainan. Most of the bride price is only about 8800 yuan. Without wedding gifts, many girls don't ask their husbands to build new buildings when they get married. Brick houses made ten years ago can also be married. Women in these places can be regarded as the cheapest places to marry in China, which is cheaper than that in vietnamese brides. Men looking for wives in these areas are almost all purely profitable. So those poor, ugly, short and poor leftover men, do they focus on finding girls from these four regions to marry? I believe most people can afford it.
2. Coastal areas such as Jiangsu, Zhejiang, Shanghai, Fujian, etc. Like to talk about ostentation and extravagance, because they are economically developed. General bride price188,000 or so. In addition, most areas also need to give a bride price when greeting their families (this money is not for the woman's family, just to let them see that their family is not poor or ugly, but if there is no proof, you can't marry this girl, and the woman's parents will try their best to prevent you from getting on the bus with the bride, and the marriage will not be concluded. In fact, to put it bluntly, the woman's parents just want the man to prove that after marrying her, the woman is not without food and living security. Many men borrowed this money to save the scene and paid it back immediately after marriage. )
3. In addition to the above areas, in other areas of our country, almost all the bride price is between 66,000 yuan and 88,000 yuan. In addition, engagement is not marriage. Relatives and neighbors should be told the same surname to witness their happy events, so they should be invited to eat and drink. But at this time, because it is not a big wedding, the couple will not leave according to the ceremony. That is to say, there are about 20 tables of rice on both sides of the countryside, and each table costs about 500 yuan to cook, and 10,000 yuan is finished. (If after the engagement, the man thinks that the woman can't do it, and she wants to break off the marriage, the woman's family will not refund the food and drink money. However, if the woman thinks that the man has a bad temper and wants to break off the marriage, she must bear the 10,000 yuan for food and drink and return it to the man after the discount. )
Whether in urban or rural areas, the cost of wedding banquet is similar to that of gift money, and a few people have a slight surplus. We don't count this cost, let alone discuss it. What I'm listing here is a man who wants to get married but doesn't have a house. Which is cheaper to marry a country wife or a city wife? I'm not saying that it's cheaper to marry a man who has a house in the countryside than a man who has a house in the city. That is the reality. Therefore, I would like to ask all netizens to understand and have a general understanding after reading my genealogy.
Therefore, village girls (all girls with rural hukou are actually village girls, and village girls not only refer to those girls who can't go out to farm at home, but also those who can't stay in the city and transfer to the talent market after going to college are real village girls). Factory girls are not cheap, and they are not less demanding than urban leftover women.
Finally, it is concluded that a man with a house in the city can marry an ordinary wife as long as 30,000, a man without a house in the third-and fourth-tier cities 1.8 million, a man in the inland provincial capital city of 400,000 and a man in the first-tier city of 950,000.
A man with a house in rural areas needs at least 50,000 yuan to marry an ordinary wife, and a man without a house in rural areas needs at least 400,000 yuan (in addition, a rural man has to borrow a welcome gift of about 65,438+10,000 yuan to marry a wife). Although the money does not belong to the wedding expenses, this extra courtesy is intangible and requires more efforts than urban men. And most rural men have borrowed this money to save the scene, but it is also difficult to borrow it.
With a house, it means that people have earned money from the house before, and if they don't, they have to make a new one. No woman wants to marry a brick house built in the 1980s and 1990s, so those who built a house in recent years prove that their family used to live in a relatively affluent life. A man without a building wants to find a wife now, so he has to do it. If he doesn't build a new building, he won't find a wife. However, if your family is mountainous, rural, ugly and eccentric, even if you have a house, it is difficult to find a few girls who are willing to marry. Therefore, people in mountainous areas or eccentric areas usually sell their trees on the mountain, add some hard-earned money they have earned in recent years, move their families to the county or central town, buy a commercial house, or buy a foundation in the countryside to make a new building, and get married. At present, it costs about 350,000 yuan to build a three-story building on the homestead of one's own family in rural areas, with each floor of 1.20 square meters. Simply install doors, windows, floors, brick walls and paint them.
Up to now, except for Guangdong, Guangxi, Guizhou and Hainan, I have never heard of not wanting wedding gifts. Most of these areas are between 654.38+10,000, and the lucky number in many areas is about 80,000. Because money is not for the woman's family, many married women don't have this idea, thinking that at that time, their husbands only gave bride price, not bride price. In fact, this money is used as a pawn, that is, the man proves that the woman will not starve to death when she marries her family, indicating that her family is rich. In fact, most men's families in rural areas borrowed this money to save the scene, that is, they returned it directly to others after the wedding, so many women included did not know that the man wanted this money.
Now it is an information society, an open era of rapid development, and an era of material worship that pursues interests and relies on urban survival. Therefore, most women only marry urban men (urban men not only refer to urban hukou, but also rural men who pay down payment by themselves or their parents in cities are also the targets pursued by many women). It is not just the idea of urban women to set the standard for finding a husband to marry only urban men. In fact, the goal of rural girls is to marry only men who can get a foothold in the city (countless rural women who graduated from universities can't get a foothold in the city where they study in the end, and many accounts have moved back or temporarily fallen into the talent market in the city where they study). In fact, they are all village girls, but most of them don't want to marry men with rural hukou, and the last thing they think of is to marry phoenix men who can buy a house in the city.
And willing to marry a rural man, only the following women:
1. Graduated from primary school (no one who graduated from high school wants to marry a rural man, let alone a woman who graduated from college).
2. The appearance is average (the appearance here generally includes the appearance lower than or equal to that of Xifeng. But ordinary girls think they are beautiful, and those girls who look like passers-by are quite confident that they can find a man who can stand firm in the city.
Under the age of 3.23 (marriage is generally early in rural areas. If a rural girl over the age of 23 is unmarried, regardless of her education, appearance and ability, she is definitely unwilling to marry a rural man. All she wants is a marriageable man who has a house, a car and a stable income in the city.
4. Mentally retarded women with brain problems who can't go out to work (those women who can go out to work and earn 23+ are still single, and the requirements are not low. The rural women mentioned here only mean that the registered permanent residence is rural. No matter what educational background, young women nowadays rarely stay at home for a long time and do soil repair pragmatically, and most of them go out to work to earn money. And those rural women with mental retardation who can't communicate with the outside world normally will choose to marry rural men. )
The rural man mentioned above is the kind of man who lives in the countryside and is unlikely to settle in the city all his life. They are talking about men who are ordinary workers and work on assembly lines, earning two or three thousand yuan a month. Unless there is an accident, they will never be able to afford a house in the city.
As for the examples we have seen, many rural women marry rural men, almost all of whom are potential shareholders with potential stamina. Most of them own small businesses, or run enterprises, or become successful rural phoenix men as small bosses. Because of their different potentials, some of these men have successfully settled down in the city to buy a house, and some have vowed to settle down in the city to buy a house, so don't tell me that a certain woman asked a rural man for a low marriage, otherwise it will appear that you really are.
In addition, I feel that many netizens always say that they are rural. In fact, they still don't understand many things in the countryside. Some netizens are also arbitrary and always like to draw conclusions, but they are not focused, giving people a bad feeling of dishonesty and unpracticism. I just like telling the truth. Facing the current reality of people's livelihood, it may be too straightforward, almost the core truth, so some netizens may think that I am talking nonsense. In fact, if you don't believe me, you can ask your rural relatives casually to find out whether what I said is true or not.
Let me tell you a reality. In the city, if the woman is not particularly outstanding and beautiful, there are usually few men who marry her. In most cities, men and women get married in a cooperative way. The man pays the down payment, and the woman decorates the house to buy home appliances. Of course, there are also particularly beautiful and beautiful men who are willing to leave home and drive their cars to hide their beauty. This is not the scope of marriage for ordinary young men and women we are discussing.
That is to say, if an ordinary girl has nothing in the city and can't afford the money for decoration and electrical appliances, it is not easy to find a man who can pay the down payment in the city, including those working girls who marry urban men, and finally marry urban men or urban men, they need to bear the expenses for decoration and electrical appliances themselves. As a result, saying that a woman wants to marry a city dweller is a kind of division of labor and cooperation, and both men and women are almost suitable combinations.
In rural areas, many women don't have to pay a penny for their house as long as they get married, but the married husband-in-law has to pay nearly 500 thousand for it (if it weren't for marriage, the house would be unnecessary if it wasn't for conditions, but because they don't build a house and can't find a wife, is it necessary to be kidnapped? )
Ordinary people in the city marry women, so their status after marriage is very high, almost equal to that of men. The rural people married women, but only made little contribution and pay. (PS: I'll tell you another fact. Married in the countryside, the wedding expenses of the woman's family are also paid by the man's family! Naturally, this kind of marriage can't be equal. Those rich girls in rural areas also pay for marriage, and the equality between men and women after marriage is almost mutually beneficial. Because most rural women in China are married to their husbands, their status is low, which is also the reason why most rural men in China are male chauvinism.