Whether to go or not depends on the specific situation. Although you have only known each other for 1 day, whether you work together or not, will there be more exchanges and interactions in the future? If you deal with more people in your future work, in order to further develop your relations, others will also say what you want, so it is necessary to go.

If there are many people in a company, there is little contact at ordinary times and there is no special relationship, you can not go. Or you don't plan to stay in a company for a long time. Don't worry about it and don't go. People leave tea cool, and the relationship between Latin and Latin will follow.

I often help my colleagues arrange weddings and funerals at work. Personal opinion, if it is not a very distant relationship or other prejudice, it is best to wrap a gift to congratulate it. If you are too busy to go in person, you'd better send a gift.

The first reason is that reciprocity is an ethos. People communicate with each other, but they actually support each other. In fact, it is far from making money at a loss. You paid three or four hundred dollars this time. In fact, the wedding banquet cost 200 yuan, which means you got 200 yuan, not much. In addition, of course, you can invite him in the future. If he is reasonable, the gift will not be less than the number you gave him.

The second reason is that if you don't go and follow, the consequences will be very unfavorable to yourself.

Give two examples of my personal experience.

The first one, the former small leader of the unit and three daughters, was invited three times. Later, he retired, and others invited him, but most of them didn't go. On several occasions, he sent his daughter 100 yuan. He is a famous miser. Although he retired, his daughter and son-in-law still work in the unit. To this end, his daughter and son-in-law suffered from colleagues' cold eyes at work, but they themselves didn't understand why everyone did this to them.

Second, a colleague of the unit, a colleague posted, or didn't go, and got a small gift (maximum 100 yuan). Later, when his son got married, he also calculated like others and arranged 25 tables. As a result, only a few dozen people managed to sit at less than ten tables that day, but the food in the restaurant had been paid in advance. This wedding banquet embarrassed a man, losing face and losing tens of thousands of dollars economically. In recent years, he has lost all his money with interest.