Today, this uncivilized behavior still exists in many places. I don't think it's right that so many people outside the family want to take advantage! In fact, this bad habit still exists in many places. Some places can be a little more subtle, that is, after the dishes are served, they will put them in their own bags and even leave them to others without considering their feelings! There are too many such cases, but there are still people with such low quality, and there is nothing we can do!

There is a custom in Anyang City, Henan Province that couples get married without banquets. They will entertain guests with a big pot, and a big pot with a diameter of one meter can provide meals for about 300 guests at one time. This behavior is really lively. Braised vegetables in cauldron mainly include pork, meatballs, Chinese cabbage, tofu, potatoes, garlic moss and so on, all of which are very common ingredients, but if you want to make delicious food, it is one piece. The chefs who cook big pots are recognized as the best in the village. They have been cooking cauldrons for at least 30 years. The local people have long been used to this kind of hot pot stew. If a family doesn't prepare big pot dishes when they get married, they will feel that they are not well received at home and will definitely not have enough to eat. If the person who comes to congratulate can't eat, he will really be complained.

Some people may think that grabbing food at the wedding is not so unbearable. I think such people are used to taking advantage. If they don't take advantage, they will start to talk sour! The video of grabbing a big pot of stewed vegetables in one minute caused a hot discussion among netizens. Everyone made a one-sided criticism of this. I think this should be understood more. Marriage is a lively thing. I think this kind of behavior is somewhat contrary to the modesty of modern people, but it is not without its merits. In my area, there is also the custom of grabbing candy and coins from the beams. After seeing the house, the host family chose to set off firecrackers and sprinkle coins and candy on the roof, which reminded us of the custom of eating for decades. Everyone thinks it's good. Of course, there is a certain difference between grabbing vegetables and grabbing sugar, but this custom needs to be understood a little. With the change of an era, it is impossible to abandon all customs at once.

Should I say it or not? Those who have pots and barrels are really a bit too much. Generally, this kind of wedding reception, the host will prepare a lot of bowls, and relatives and friends will queue up with bowls. Life has already been enriched, but the local habits for many years cannot be changed overnight.