The day before marriage
1. Help with the engagement car: The specifications and grades of the wedding car are decided by the groom or designated by the groom.
2. Decorate the new house: According to the specific situation, the goal is to celebrate. Ask the groom for specifications and grades, or ask the wedding company to decorate.
3. Buy wedding supplies: such as fireworks, firecrackers and wedding invitations (home appliances, windows).
4. Prepare an account book: record the wedding expenses and report the balance to the groom the next day after marriage.
Next, let's talk about the obligations of friends in chronological order.
1. Wedding Eve: Fuding usually has a seat to entertain the man's friends and relatives. What friends need to do is to know the elders of the groom, and the groom needs to drink with his buddies. You can't help the groom on the eve of the wedding. On the eve of the wedding, the groom must get his friends drunk. The measure is to see a friend happy.
After that, you take your drunken friends to have fun, grasp the scale (ask the groom before you get drunk, because it is the groom who reimburses the expenses), win the hearts of the people in the activity, and ask your friends to help create an atmosphere tomorrow. If you can't drink well, find a bartender among your friends.
2. On the wedding day (morning):
(1) Go to the groom's house at 8 o'clock and take the groom for a pose.
(2) At 8: 30, contact one or two cars to pick up the bride to go to the makeup shop to make up, and complete the pick-up task.
(3) Contact the wedding car at 8: 30 to arrange a float at the designated place (the main car is designated by the groom).
(4) Contact friends who arrived at 9: 00 and urge them to arrive on time (whether friends can be on time depends on your performance last night).
(5) Fuding brides basically have a time limit to enter the door. (Ask the man's parents) Calculate the time to pick up the bride.
Get ready when you pick up the bride: cross the bridge eggs, red umbrellas, (some need to kneel down)
After picking up the bride, give the driver of the wedding car a red envelope and two packs of cigarettes (sometimes given by the groom's parents or sister)
Get married at noon
(1) Send friends to the banquet place in turn (especially bridesmaids).
(2) Find a secluded place to collect money (pay attention to the record)
(3) Be kind to your uncle at the luncheon, and you will succeed at the luncheon.
During the dinner, the bride and groom toast at each table (you accompany them all the way, in case of revenge, you block! : 0 means you drink)
(4) After lunch, invite friends to find a room at the banquet place for activities (playing cards or mahjong).
(5) Around 2-3 o'clock, the bride goes to make up her makeup, accompanied by the hostess. You need to negotiate with the hostess about the seats for dinner.
Generally speaking, the dining tables are connected together, and men and women sit cross. It is easier to be active at night.
4. Wedding dinner
(1) Ask a friend to sit down as scheduled. If a friend is not satisfied with the seat, you can solve it.
(2) When having a meal, pay attention to shooting (for example, you can call the hotel to shoot before serving).
Sit at a table, you and your brother-in-law sit opposite the groom, and the rest are arranged by yourself.
At the beginning of dinner, you must punch the groom twice. . I'm so happy that the money has arrived.
(3) At the beginning of the meal, explain to the groom that he should take the time to eat, usually after three courses, and begin to bow (bow to the elder sister to order)
You need to choose a "golden couple" among your friends, holding flowers and candles (you must be unmarried and give them a red envelope after the ceremony, generally 68 yuan RMB).
(4) After the bowing ceremony, the friends table is an important part, and it is generally divided into two sides to drink. The time is up to you, usually around 10: 00.
If relatives come to propose a toast to the newlyweds during the dinner, you pay back. If you meet the speaker, start friends getting drunk, and then continue friends table activities. )
Dinner activities: Generally, couples are required to introduce their love history, and the bride fills each friend with a glass of wine for them to drink.
(5) make trouble in the bridal chamber after dinner (the size needs to be consulted by the groom, and the scale may be to marry children)
The general scheme (Fuding called conditions) is controlled before 12. If not, the couple will give each person a cigarette (2 cigarettes or a pack).
Fixed program: grinder (take two pomelos, some peanuts and red dates, put peanuts and red dates under the sheets, grinder terminology)
Milling machines are generally operated by a man and a woman, and the operator has a red envelope (given by the man's elder sister)
(6) After the grinder activity, set off fireworks and arrange friends to go home. You need to tidy up the ledger and talk to the groom the next day according to the balance of the ledger.