(1) Most men come to the woman's house to visit and get engaged. According to the actual needs, it is also possible for the woman's house to go to the man's house.

(2) When engaged, the man mainly needs to prepare engagement rings, gifts and meeting gifts. It is best for two new couples to communicate with their parents in advance according to the customs of two families. In the past, the bride price of 62 was emphasized, but now many newcomers omit this bride price and only give it.

(3) When engaged, the woman's family mainly prepares banquets and refreshments for the man's family, and generally does not need to prepare gifts for the man. If there is a local custom of returning gifts, you can also prepare them.

(4) In some places, the engagement needs to be changed, and both parents need to prepare the change fee.

(5) If there is a matchmaker, both parties should prepare a thank-you ceremony. Generally speaking, there are more men than women.

On the one hand, engagement means that both parents agree to the marriage, on the other hand, it is also an opportunity for both parties to further communicate how to arrange the marriage. Therefore, it is best for both parties to think about the wedding in advance (such as the wedding room, decoration, home appliances, hotel, wedding and other details) and communicate effectively face to face when they are engaged.