In recent years, the bride price in rural areas has become higher and higher. Some places have surpassed cities. Far beyond the tolerance of rural parents. Some families borrow usury and even get into debt in order to marry their daughters-in-law. Personal analysis is probably caused by these two reasons.

comparative psychology

Marriage in rural areas now is not that kind of marriage. Marry a chicken, marry a dog and follow a dog, and live with you all my life, no matter how rich or poor. People's living standards have improved, and rural people are no longer daily necessities, but who bought the car and whose daughter got hundreds of thousands of bride price. Slowly, everyone has the psychology of keeping up with the joneses, and it feels as if the more bride price someone takes, the more face they have.

Psychological concept change

Now young people in rural areas go out to work, and when they enter the city, they feel that everything in the city is better than that in the countryside. After a long time, my mind has changed, and I don't want to work hard like my parents all my life. I want to pay more bride price and save some money myself. You can struggle less for a few years. That's why there is a sky-high bride price.

The bride price is just a form of marriage, depending on the actual family situation. After all, it's not living with money. Don't let the bride price crush your parents' waist.

The above is the author's personal views on rural boys, please add some shortcomings. Welcome to express your opinion!