Are wedding gifts the same as wedding candy?
Wedding gift: "Hand gift" is a gift from a companion. Usually, after the wedding, the newlyweds will send a gift to all the relatives and friends present. Candy-loving: Holiday candy is the witness of sweetness and happiness. Generally, after the wedding, the newlyweds will present wedding candy to the relatives and friends present.
1, select
As for gifts, there are many choices, from gold and silver jewelry to daily necessities, but there are also many choices. For example, at the recent wedding of Yinger and Fu Xinbo, according to news reports, their accompanying gifts were a brooch named "Window of Time" and a bottle of perfume, which was worth 5,999 yuan. Another example is the unpopular fleshy gift box, which shows that compared with a single candy, the choice of wedding gifts is great.
2. Legacy
In fact, the wedding hand-holding ceremony evolved from the hand-holding ceremony. It is said that the second day of the first month is the day when a married daughter returns to her family. Most married daughters should prepare some gifts according to the custom, commonly known as holding hands or waiting for the road, and they must prepare some red envelopes so that they can return to their parents' homes and give them to their elders, juniors or children. This is the first hand-holding ceremony, but with the discovery of society, the slow wedding hand-holding ceremony began to rise. At the same time, China people always regard the wedding night, the long drought and the reunion of old friends as the four great happy events. Among them, the wedding night is the greatest joy, and only in this joy will we tell others with sugar that we are happy together. Therefore, wedding candy has been circulating since ancient times, and it has also played a role in inheriting happiness and sweetness.
3. Emotion
For wedding gifts and wedding candy, there is not much difference in emotional expression, mainly because they convey different things. As mentioned above, joyful candy is like a carrier to convey happiness and love. Accompanying gifts are more about thanking relatives and friends for attending the wedding. Just like candy is the carrier of emotion, hand-holding ceremony is the bridge of emotion. In short, the two of them are a couple at the wedding, and they are also good wishes to all relatives and friends.
The difference between wedding gifts and wedding candy
1 has different meanings.
First of all, we can consider the meaning of wedding gifts and wedding candy. Let's talk about wedding gifts first. In fact, everyone should know about wedding gifts. Nowadays, many people like to travel abroad, and they will bring many gifts home when they travel. This is a gift for their friends and relatives. Wedding candy is different. Wedding candy is a kind of candy that will be given out when you get married. It has special meaning and exclusive meaning.
2. Different roles
Wedding gifts are usually given to guests who come to the wedding. Thanks for their coming can be regarded as a nostalgia for the wedding. Unlike wedding candy, wedding candy stands for invitation, inviting people to attend their own wedding.
3. Different people distribute it.
As we said above, wedding gifts are distributed to guests who come to the wedding, and only those who come can get them, but wedding candy is different. If you invite someone, whether he comes or not, you have to give it.
What's in the candy box?
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There are many kinds of sweets in the candy box, and it is difficult for a single candy to satisfy everyone's tastes. Rich candy has a wide audience, which can take care of all guests' preferences and is suitable for all ages. Usually, new people will choose several kinds of sweets from butterscotch, chocolate, hard candy and fruit candy to match together.
2. Other projects
In recent years, there are more and more kinds of items in candy boxes. Everyone is not limited to putting candy, but will put some snacks such as biscuits and dried fruits in the box. This combination can make the candy box fuller and richer in taste, and also reflect the intimacy of new people. Wedding candy is usually packed in several wedding candy boxes. The number of joyful candy is generally 6,8, 10, 12. The specific number of wedding candy depends on the size of the wedding candy box chosen by the couple. If the wedding candy box is small, it is better to put more candy. Don't make the candy box look empty, fill it, at least don't make the guests feel fresh. When choosing wedding candy, we should make sure the safety of ordering wedding candy according to the wedding date. Some couples may order wedding candy long before the wedding, so as not to forget too many things as the wedding day approaches. But in fact, it is best to order wedding candy one month before the wedding, because candy will have a shelf life.
What should I pay attention to when giving wedding gifts?
1, determine the returned object.
(1) Estimate the number of guests who will attend.
A, according to the number of invitations issued and the number of wedding tables, roughly estimate the number of people returning gifts.
B, on the wedding day, arrange family members to help count the number of guests present, then prepare a corresponding number of gifts, and finally distribute them.
(2) Make a list of replies.
A. When filling out the invitation, register the guest's name on the list to be returned.
B, according to their own memories to determine the relatives and friends who can't attend the wedding, in order to be afraid of omission, you can use the exclusion method, and then from distant relatives to close relatives, classmates, etc. Sort out the list of people to attend one by one and write their names on the list of gifts to be returned. It should be noted that, generally speaking, it is best to prepare about 20 more wedding gifts in the budget, so as to avoid the shortage of actual distribution.
2. Choose the gift method and time.
It's gift time.
A. If the bride and groom have already bought wedding gifts, they can choose to give them to all the guests present on the same day.
If the newlyweds don't buy wedding gifts, they can give them to the guests within one month after their marriage.
(2) Giving method
A, it can be distributed on the banquet according to the location of the banquet on the wedding day, or it can be given to the guests one by one when toasting.
B, within one month after marriage, those who live far away can deliver the wedding gift to each other's home by express delivery, and those who live near can send it directly to their home.