As we all know, when men file for divorce, women often have a great reaction, showing impatience and impatience, and some even simply say they want a divorce. But when you file for divorce, this is the last thing you want: the relationship between the two sides has completely broken down. Therefore, you'd better not easily agree to his divorce request and do what hurts him the most; In addition, even if you want to save this marriage for him, don't agree easily. There is a saying that "people divide their bellies"! Sometimes, when a man agrees, it is better to think about the countermeasures first. And some women who don't do this may get themselves into more trouble on impulse.
Don't complain to others.
The most taboo between husband and wife is complaining, and hiding the anguish in their hearts is not conducive to the repair of their feelings. When you feel tired, it is normal to feel bored. You can write down all your troubles and tell others. Only in this way can you gain the understanding and sympathy of others.
3. Have objections to the distribution of property.
Property is an important guarantee during the existence of the relationship between husband and wife. Both pre-marital property and post-marital property are jointly enjoyed and managed by both husband and wife. However, the division of property often leads to contradictions, so as husband and wife, they should have their own views and opinions on the issue of property distribution. Article 32 of the Marriage Law stipulates that the income earned by the woman during the marriage relationship can be divided when calculating the joint property of husband and wife. After the creditor's rights and debts of both parties are paid off, the woman has the right to ask the other party to fulfill the obligation of paying off the debts of husband and wife. The income earned by the woman during the marriage relationship is the legal property formed after the husband and wife pay off their debts. The woman advocates the return of all quilts, but this does not mean that parents must raise their children unconditionally. Although the marriage law clearly stipulates that the custody of children is a right shared by both parents, many times parents can't decide who will raise their children because of their different responsibilities and concepts. If you want a divorce, you must apply to the man for custody of the children. If the man has no objection, he can also file a custody lawsuit. If the man thinks that his custody right has been violated and restricted, he can apply to declare his children as minors. When the case is tried, a judgment will be made on whether the child needs the support of both parents.