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What are the marriage customs in Ruzhou rural areas?
The night before Ruzhou's wedding, the class played and sang in front of the door, and two families in the bridal chamber sewed and made the bed for the bride. The two brides I am looking for are both people who have two children and are not jealous of the zodiac. When they made the bed, the suona class helped to play. They sprinkled several petals of seed cotton on the bed and covered it with two petals of straw with roots, in order to make the young couple pair up, love each other and have children early. Also pass the bean stalk, there is a champion; Sow grain to give birth to girls. At night, I have to find a child to sleep with the groom, which is called "pressing the bed" by the people. On the wedding day, the yard was arranged early in the morning. Stick wedding couplets and seal the land temple, waterway eye and bridal chamber window with red paper. There should be a table in the yard. There is a bucket full of grain on the table with a steelyard in it. A small piece of meat and a bronze mirror hung on the hook. The barrel surface is sealed with red paper. The procedure of marriage is ancestors first. The whole family lit candles, incense and burned gold in front of the ancestral hall (called the pillar of grandparents by the people) and bowed down three times to show that they did not forget their ancestors. Then lift the sedan chair. Before getting off the bus, the water conservancy food box goes first. The items in the box are the same as before, except that a knife should be made on the gift meat to show that it is the bride's parting meat. The box should also be filled with the bride's clothes, and a book should be put on it, which should write the direction of fresh mom getting on and off, as well as taboo animal signs. A hip flask with cypress branches was placed on the lid of the box. When the box is carried back, the wine is poured out at home and replaced with water, so it is called a water conservancy box. As soon as the water tank left, the family swept the sedan chair (car). Two helpers have cypress branches on their heads, cotton, oil, iron lamps and wooden plates in their hands, and brushes in their hands. They got into the sedan chair and cleaned it up. Then they sent the lighted iron lamp to the bridal chamber and put it in a cypress bucket in the corner, so that it could be used to ward off evil spirits. Now the sedan chair has been replaced by a float, and the iron lamp for sweeping the car has been replaced by a mirror. When you are in sedan chair, you have to fire a gun to play music, and the person in front is driving a felt. Carpet drivers should be selected from prestigious people. He rode the red carpet with his back to his back and his arms on his back. As he walked, he shot at the same time, and at any time he scattered signs of good luck. In case of temples, bridges and culverts, trees and buildings, even a big stone should be affixed with a red sticker that says "Cover it with red paper". When the sedan chair is moving, it is not allowed to touch the ground. The sedan chair bearer rests, and the carpet driver hastily lays the red carpet so that the bottom of the sedan chair can be placed on it. The suona class followed the carpet and blew in front of the sedan chair. Most of the songs played are festive and cheerful songs such as "Crossing the Road" or "A Hundred Birds at the Phoenix". The bride got into the sedan chair with the help of her family. Before, I forgot my face in advance. On my wedding day, I wore a rockhopper, a cloud shoulder, a colorful skirt around my waist and a pair of green shoes on my feet. Family members will be sent out of the door, and the bride will shed some tears to show her attachment to her family. Now the bride is going to the beauty salon to get her hair done and wear a wedding dress. If the groom comes to pick you up and presents flowers to the bride, he will carry her to the car. The car (car) doesn't go back on the return trip. The bride's family will send her uncle, brother, younger brother and close relatives to see her off, which is called "farewell" by the people. We need to find some relatives to carry the dowry, and the sedan chair (car) is blowing and jumping all the way under the guidance of the carpet. It's very lively. The sedan chair reached the door of the house and stopped in the direction indicated in the letter. The child who pressed the sedan chair with a sedan chair asked for money before she got off the sedan chair. The mother-in-law had to give the vase to her daughter-in-law and gave it to the bride 10 1 yuan, which means one hundred good daughters-in-law. With the help of her family, the bride ran into the house with her head covered. At this time, firecrackers exploded, and the straw handles with red cannons on both sides of the door rang, and the new wife was going to straddle the saddle (or the son on the loom) at the door. This is called "riding on a saddle". The groom wears a hat, a dress and a red cross to greet the bride. He worships heaven and earth at the table of heaven and earth, worships the high hall, and the husband and wife worship each other. After the ceremony, the groom went to the bridal chamber first, and as soon as the bride entered the room, she ran out of the bridal chamber and ran into the bride. This is called "bump marriage". Nowadays, new weddings have replaced the worship of heaven and earth. The bride should wash her face when she enters the bridal chamber. Girls used to have pigtails behind their heads and a sea on their foreheads. At the top, the braid is coiled in a bun at the back of the head, marking the entry into adulthood and becoming a wife. This day can't be done for nothing. Those who carry face wash water and combs should also invite seals. At noon, the host family held a wedding banquet to entertain relatives and friends. A gift table should be set at the door to receive gifts and entertain guests, and a middle table should be set in the hall to entertain guests. In the past, a skirt was tied to the middle table and a big gift was given under the auspices of the guests. Now it's just the host family toasting, watching the dishes, and the bride and groom toasting. During the dinner, the person who saw the guests off in the first chair took out a "look at the kitchen seal" and the host family was willing to serve the following dishes. After the banquet, the host family will meet the main people in Fujian, express their feelings and say some friendly words. In the evening, neighbors congratulated each other and made trouble in the bridal chamber for three days. Near midnight, the noisy man brought cups, chopsticks, wine and vegetables to the room with a tray. Send a room to the bride to perform programs, such as eating vegetables, putting chopsticks in a copper pot, riding a bench, smoking cigarettes across the bridge, etc. It makes people laugh and cry. After midnight, people dispersed, but they were still listening in the room. If no one listens, find a broom, put on a straw hat, put on a cloth shirt and lean against the windowsill. #3 00 reply