For the woman, getting a certificate before the wedding means that the man's initial commitment may be variable. Because for the man, getting a certificate is my wife. Do you need to feed the fish when it is hooked? Nature can save money, even men who directly ignore the wedding. What can it be that the wedding expenses have been reduced again and again after obtaining the certificate?

In my opinion, there are only two situations in which men and women can achieve what each other expects.

First, the feelings are stable, they know each other well enough, and they get along with each other like husband and wife. The only difference is that they didn't get the certificate. In this case, there is actually no need to discuss this issue. Getting the license is really just going out for dinner and picking it up on the way.

Second, all the wedding matters have been basically determined. Confirmation means paying all the deposits that should be paid, and there won't be too many variables. The woman can get the certificate with the other party first.

In fact, the existence of this problem is because men and women now lack too much respect for marriage. When you treat marriage as a child's play, don't blame each other for their own small calculations.