This also raises a question, is there really a pure friendship between boys and girls? Are they really just friends? The two sides have no other ideas? When many people see this problem, their first reaction is definitely no. There are few pure friendships between boys and girls. Even if they no longer like it, there will be no pure friendship between them.
After all, there is a saying: love keeps pace with the times. Even if two people don't like each other, they live together and stay together every day. After a long time, we will find each other's strengths and weaknesses, and finally we can only see each other's strengths, and they are finally together. There are too many such examples around us.
It is Wang Wen who shares this story today.
Female girlfriends have difficulties.
Wang Wen's husband Wu Bo has a very good female best friend named Xiao Li. They have known each other since college. At first, Wu Bo thought this girl was special and wanted to keep in touch with her for a long time. Later, I found that they were actually more suitable to be friends and gradually became good girlfriends.
Wu Bogang began to think that if he didn't meet the right person, he would have stayed with Xiao Li all the time. Until he met Wang Wen, they hit it off and got married soon. Life after marriage is not bad. Two people who like each other have a very interesting natural life.
It's just that Wu Bo's female best friend asked Wu Bo for help for three days. Wang Wen is not a narrow-minded person, and she also knows what the relationship between girlfriends is, so Wang Wen usually turns a blind eye. Until this day, when Wang Wen saw Wu Bo's mobile phone, she found that Wu Bo was having an affair with Xiao Li. Wang Wen decided to talk to Wu Bo.
When Wu Bo came home from work, Wang Wen said, "If you have time, let's talk about you and your best friend." Wu Bo felt something was wrong, and Wu Bo said, "What's the matter? Is she bothering you? " Wang Wen said, "Of course not. I just saw that the chat between you two was too embarrassing before, and I can't stand it. "
Wu Bo said, "Oh, look at you. You think too much. You said we've known each other for years. If there is anything between us, we will definitely not marry you. You are just joking with me. " Wang Wen said angrily, "You have gone too far. At least we are married. "
Wu Bo saw that Wang Wen was angry. Wu Bo said, "Okay, okay, I get it. I will pay more attention in the future. " Just after Xiao Li's phone call, Wang Wen looked at Wu Bo. Wu Bo showed a helpless expression and said, "She must have something, otherwise she wouldn't call me. Don't worry. "
Wang Wen motioned Wu Bo to put the phone on the speaker. Wu Bo picked up the receiver, turned on the speaker and said, "Xiao Li, what's the matter?" The other party said, "Come and save me. I think someone is following me. I dare not go home alone. " Wu Bo panicked when he heard it. Wu Bo said, "Then wait for me."
Wang Wen said, "Take me with you." Two people go to see their girlfriends home. When he left, Wang Wen said, "Xiao Li, I'll ask Wu Bo to introduce you to a boyfriend some other day. A girl is really unsafe. " Xiao Li didn't say anything either.
Arrange blind date
Wang Wen really did what he said. A few days later, Wang Wen called Xiao Li on Wu Bo's mobile phone. As soon as I got through to Xiao Li, he said, "I didn't expect you to call me on your own initiative? Why does your wife leave you alone now? " Wang Wen was a little angry when she heard this, but she couldn't help herself. After all, she is Wu Bo's best friend.
Wang Wen said, "It's Wang Wen, not Wu Bo. I want to ask you, are you free this weekend? We're going out to play. Are you coming? " Xiao Li thought for a moment and said, "Well, I happen to be alone. You can send it to me at the time and place you decide, and I will go by myself. "
Wang Wen said quickly, "No, there are many people. I'll arrange for a handsome boy to pick you up. How can you come by yourself? " Xiao Li understood what Wang Wen meant, but now there is no way to regret it. Xiao Li said, "Well, then give him my address."
At the weekend, Mr. Wang and Mrs. Wang, as well as Xiao Li and Wu Bo's good brothers, went for an outing together. Wang Wen estimated that Xiao Li would be arranged with Wu Bo's brother. Xiao Li also understood each other's meaning and amicably withdrew from their two-person world, but Wu Bo felt that he should take good care of his best friend, so he always went to see Xiao Li from time to time.
At first, Wang Wen said nothing. After a long time, Wang Wen couldn't stand it. Wang Wen drew him to Wu Bo and said, "Why are you always looking for someone else? Didn't you see a boy I arranged for her? That's your brother. It's more credible. You always pass by. What will she do in the future? I can't always ask you for anything. "
Wu Bo knew Xiao Li didn't want to, but there was nothing he could do. If he ignores his wife's arrangement now, when they both go home, it will definitely be another big fight. After so long, he knew who Wang Wen was with. Slowly, Wu Bo began to set them up.
In the evening, everyone was tired and went home. Wang Wen also specially arranged for boys to send Xiao Li home to ensure the safety of the other party before leaving. The other party was also very obedient and did it according to Wang Wen's arrangement. Who knows that Xiao Li married that boy the next day, which surprised Wang Wen a little, but it seemed to be for the good of her family, so she didn't think much.
Girlfriend divorce
But what she didn't expect was that Xiao Li divorced within a few months of her marriage. After the divorce, Xiao Li called Wu Bo. As a result, Wang Wen picked it up. The other party said, "Wu Bo, it's all because of you. I was married and divorced. I really can't stand it. Come and comfort me. "
Wang Wengang was about to say something when Wu Bo snatched the phone. Wu Bo asked, "Why did you take my mobile phone again? Last time you used my mobile phone to ask Xiao Li out, and then Xiao Li suddenly got married. What are you doing now? " Wang Wen said, "What am I doing? My mother, your best friend is divorced and wants you to comfort her. "
Wu Bo was about to leave when Wang Wen said, "Do you really want to comfort your best friend? Look at the time. It's midnight. What did you do there? Can't people handle their marriage well? You always comfort others. What will you do in the future? "
Wu Bo refused to listen and continued to prepare to go out. Wang Wen said, "If you leave, let's get a divorce. Don't go unless your best friend comes to comfort me. " Wu Bo stood there, not knowing what to do. On one side is his best friend and on the other side is his wife. Wang Wen looked at him and hesitated.
Wang Wen immediately picked up the phone and called Wu Bo's brother. Wu Bo said, grabbed Wang Wen's mobile phone and left Xiao Li to die. In this relationship, Wu Bo finally chose his wife.
In marriage, we can't meet such a person as Xiao Li. Most importantly, how do you deal with such people? We can never control what kind of people appear around us. What we can do is how to handle this relationship by ourselves, so as not to let the other party feel that they are a little too much.
Boudoir is really important to a person, but there are many kinds of boudoir. Some boudoir think your life is better than mine, so they will always break your life. Xiao Li destroyed the marriage between Wang Wen and Wu Bo again and again. Fundamentally speaking, she has crossed the bottom line of being a best friend.
Although friends are very important to a person, there are many kinds of friends. Sometimes you think that the other person will help you, but you don't expect that what the other person is doing is actually hurting you. Whether it's a boy or a girl, girlfriends are family members of their choice. If you are your best friend, what you should do is to protect her from harm, not to destroy her family.
Today's topic: What would you do if you were Wang Wen?
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