Statement: I am married, and I hosted a banquet in June 20 13, for both men and women. 1. For example, are the gifts collected separately or together? Parents of both sides said that they would give us the gift money when they received it, but they didn't want it. ) Let's split the gift money. There is not much relationship between the man and the woman, which can save a lot of unnecessary trouble. After all, in the past, the human feelings of both sides were paid by both sides, and now I know how much I have paid back. As for giving you a gift or something else, it depends on how you discuss it with your parents. 2. How should catering money, wedding and various expenses be appropriate? (My family has about 20 tables, and his family has about 15 tables. ) Can the banquet money be paid with the gift money received at this wedding reception? My suggestion is that the man is in charge of the man, the woman and the man share a part (for example, the man buys a banquet list for relatives), and the drinks are settled together. It's not awkward at all. This is not a lot of money, which can show that the man holds the wedding banquet and the wife has the sincerity to do this wedding well. Actually, that's what I did, and the effect was quite good. For example, the money for the wedding is paid by the man. After all, this is mainly for the man. His parents' attitude is to let us do whatever we want, but my father doesn't quite agree with us because they haven't met and are afraid of gossiping with relatives and friends. In fact, since his parents can do whatever they want, your father doesn't agree, because your father wants your baby daughter to get married, so beautiful. In fact, you have to understand the intention of being a parent, but you still have to do their ideological work. Just listen to your relatives and friends, it doesn't necessarily affect your consciousness of hosting a wedding reception. In fact, many times you have to explain to your parents or communicate with your husband. You got it? 4. What are the advantages and disadvantages of two families together or what should we pay attention to? How can we communicate with our parents better? The advantages are all visible: 1. The scene is big. You can spare time and energy. 3. Save unnecessary repetitive expenses. The disadvantage is actually talking about money. When both sides talk about money, they will hurt their feelings. Of course, you and your husband are the main body of this. Understand each other. After all, it is not easy for both parents to help you when you get married. It is impossible not to say a bad word. Try to be considerate and understand each other's feelings and moods. So I won't say so much, these are my feelings, and that's what I came to tell you. I hope it helps you!