The wedding ceremony can be simple, but it can't be without it. Only once in a lifetime (some people may have many times). Everyone pays attention to life and has a sense of ceremony, not to mention the wedding of two people. Although there are many people who do not advocate weddings, there are only a few who really don't hold them. I don't have it with me anyway.
For most ordinary people, the blank wedding is a sense of form and a declaration ceremony. The scene can be big or small, but both sides of this ceremony, especially the woman, must make it clear, otherwise it will look furtive. So, you should show some respect.
If your circle of friends advocates this, you can completely omit the wedding ceremony according to your own wishes, but everyone is vigorous and you can't keep a low profile if you want to.
Marriage is not only about two people, but also about two families. Getting married and starting a business represents the growth of a pair of young people, and it is also a reward for parents' years of parenting. They need their witness, and they should also have the witness and blessing of their relatives and friends.
If two people don't want to have a wedding, of course, others can't say anything, but whether the families of both sides are willing to accept your wishes.
There may be too many young people who don't want to have a wedding, but there are several reasons: I feel that the wedding is completely a form. On the one hand, it is for economic reasons, on the other hand, it is not like it in my heart; Now the divorce rate is so high, the more grand the wedding, the more embarrassing the divorce. Of course, this is only the idea of some people.
The most important thing about the wedding ceremony is that it costs too much, so many people refuse. The main reason is the man, so why not make the wedding lively and simple, and minimize waste, so that no one will say anything.
But the concept of young people in the new era is changing, and each generation has its own behavior. For marriage and wedding, we can never influence other people's thoughts with our own eyes, but we are influenced by the rules of this era. For the post-90s and post-00s, maybe in the near future, they will show their wedding in a better form.