Shenxian is a big place with different customs. Generally speaking, you should buy some clothes for your wife before you get engaged. When you are engaged, you need the man to hold an engagement party to get the bride price. The bride price ranges from 5 thousand to 50 thousand. Nowadays, 17000 (homonym for wife) or 27000 is popular, both of which are auspicious numbers with seven. Then the woman replies seven, say seven hundred or even seven, and homophonic gives you a "wife". The engagement party mainly invites the woman's family and main relatives. After the engagement party, you should ask the woman if she wants to buy a bag for her relatives and uncles. How to buy should win the woman's opinion. Of course, these should be discussed with the woman in advance and prepared before the engagement party.

As for whether to take money again before marriage, this is not necessarily the case. Some are called getting on the bus. If you get a lot of betrothal gifts, you usually don't want them before you get married. If it's less, of course, take some. As for how much depends on the customs of the woman's place, this price is similar to the current price, but sometimes it is very cheap. Haha, the key is to have a big girl for you before marriage. We basically have all household appliances, such as sofas, wardrobes and other furniture, televisions, computers, air conditioners, refrigerators, washing machines and even solar energy, as well as motorcycles and electric cars. When one of my sisters got married a few days ago, she spent more than 50,000 yuan on household appliances, motorcycles and electric cars, and then the money she brought back was generally 20,000 yuan in our place. You can calculate how much, depending on the market situation, and then refer to the family conditions of both parties. The woman's parents want to pay attention to their daughter's marriage and earn enough face. Three gold medals for you, too. It's also calculated by the man. Don't count the bride price, be generous. Before marriage, send the woman's parents to be satisfied. You are generous and do whatever they say. There's nothing hard to do, and they won't give you much. They dare not give more to the man, and their daughter will still suffer indignities when she comes to your house.

Before engagement, let both parents meet, and find a peacemaker who can talk, happy, kind, generous, happy and happy.

When you get married, everything is arranged for the happy event, and many details will follow you there. Discuss with the woman what the man is going to prepare and how to arrange the time. There are several people who may not tell you that there are two bowls with double red lines on the door table when you pick them up. Remember to let the person who picks them "steal" them and see what it means. Bring the woman's rice bowl. It really belongs to your family. It is essential to shoot a gun and sprinkle sugar. These are small things.

When in Rome, do as the Romans do and respect local customs. Simple reply, I hope you are satisfied.