Pay according to the number of tables in your house and the amount of alcohol you drink, and give the rest to those who got married before, but parents don't keep it.
All this money comes from red envelopes, and now hotels basically settle accounts first.
On our side, men and women do it every other day, so there is no question of which side you are talking about.
The money must be from my parents, because they want to receive gifts.
And most of them used to give gifts to people who received gifts at this time.