1 It's just a custom and etiquette to give a gift bag as a deposit to the relatives of the woman (these relatives will return it to the woman when they get married).
The bride's own bride price money is definitely essential.
The elders at home give them some gifts, and then give them another gift.
Don't worry, as long as the young couple have a good mouth, they can say anything! (This is the truth of the old man Longyou)
For example. . .
March 2008 1, a day that will be remembered in the next life, my husband and I got married in my husband's hometown, Longyou, Zhejiang. I was worried that it would be very cold in March 1 and wearing a wedding dress would freeze me to death, but Lao Nai took care of me. The sun is bright, and there was a strong wind the day before. In March 1, there was no wind at all, and the temperature was still very high. The maximum temperature during the day is at least 22 degrees. My mother said, "You two are so blessed. The weather is so good! " :)
The following photos were taken at the wedding in March 1 year. Some photos are not clear, so you can only look at them. For me, those unclear photos are also very meaningful and valuable.
In my husband's hometown, there is a custom that the bride cannot land directly on that day. Sissy, it's really hard for her husband. Fortunately, I am thin, otherwise he would be finished. ...
March 2008 1, a day that will be remembered in the next life, my husband and I got married in my husband's hometown, Longyou, Zhejiang. I was worried that it would be very cold in March 1 and wearing a wedding dress would freeze me to death, but Lao Nai took care of me. The sun is bright, and there was a strong wind the day before. In March 1, there was no wind at all, and the temperature was still very high. The maximum temperature during the day is at least 22 degrees. My mother said, "You two are so blessed. The weather is so good! " :)
The following photos were taken at the wedding in March 1 year. Some photos are not clear, so you can only look at them. For me, those unclear photos are also very meaningful and valuable.
In my husband's hometown, there is a custom that the bride cannot land directly on that day. Sissy, it's really hard for her husband. Fortunately, I am thin, otherwise he would be finished. ...
After being carried into the house, let me stand in a circular plaque with red paper and rice, and then pay homage to the church. My husband smiled happily. As for why I stood in a circular plaque with red paper and rice, I haven't figured it out yet. My sister and brother-in-law all said they didn't know, and said they wanted to check online. My husband doesn't know what this means. Ask your mother-in-law next time you go to Longyou. She should know.
Carry me upstairs and let me sit on the new bed. There are many people taking pictures at the door, and I feel like a star for the first time, hehe.
See that sister-in-law in the back? Did she stuff anything into the quilt? I asked my husband secretly, and he said it was pine, evergreen, some peanuts, dates, longan, candy and raw eggs. I think everyone can guess the implication.
In the evening, the banquet begins. Let's see what's in the middle of the table. The local Longyou has a column called "Steamed Bread" and a cake made by Longyou. Steamed bread is stuffed with a lot of stuffing, such as meat and dried bamboo shoots. It is delicious. My husband likes it very much. He can eat five for breakfast. Before longyou drinks and eats vegetables, let the guests eat snacks, that is, steamed bread and cakes mentioned above, and then drink after eating. I don't know where my husband went. I haven't seen him in the photo. Looking at the photos, I found that the roses on my head were not very nice. Later, my colleague said that I should not wear big red, but pink or champagne. Alas, it's all the makeup artist's fault. I don't quite understand myself. It's impossible to take pictures of myself on the wedding day. But overall, it's ok, red, festive:)
At the banquet, I want to propose a toast to my father, my own father. On this day, he is the oldest, so he should be the first to propose a toast. Look, my husband is laughing behind me. In our Jiaxing, the general toast is to clink glasses and drink the wine in your own cup. But in Longyou, you should respect your elders, who should drink the wine in our hands, not the wine in his own bowl. We young people respect our elders, so we don't have to drink it ourselves. Our elders drink the wine in our cups. At that time, my father didn't know this custom and almost drank the wine in the bowl. Mom, dad and big brother are leaving, so we have to drive back to Jiaxing by ourselves. It will take more than three hours on the road, so they must leave before the party is over. My mother doesn't know who to say hello to. I'll find her later. In fact, there is another program after the banquet, which is to make trouble in the bridal chamber. Unfortunately, everyone forgot to take pictures at that time: (