? There are several basic manners on this day. First, when the son-in-law meets her parents-in-law, she should change her name to "mom and dad". Second, the son-in-law eats the "dismounted creature". Third, the woman gave a banquet to entertain her new son-in-law and relatives and friends.
? Today I am dedicated to "Lower jiaozi".
? Let's talk about the meaning of "dismounting" first. The ancients got married. Men rode horses and women sat in sedan chairs. "Dismount" means that the son-in-law arrives at the door of his father-in-law's mother-in-law's house and dismounts and goes home. This traditional name has been handed down to this day. At present, the wedding is held in the hometown county. Wedding cars arranged by wedding companies include luxury cars such as BMW, Mercedes-Benz, Audi, etc. Most of the first cars that couples take choose white BMW, preferably a series with more than five seats, which means "pulling one hair and moving the whole body", "growing old together" and "dismounting" have a modern interpretation.
? As the saying goes, "jiaozi got on the boat and dismounted", which means going out to eat jiaozi. jiaozi looks like an ingot, hoping to go out smoothly and make a fortune; Receiving guests to eat noodles means that the noodles are as long as silk, which represents the sincerity of the host and allows the guests to stay for a few more days. It is a special custom to eat jiaozi instead of noodles when getting married.
? Cater to the new uncle's spoiled child and attach great importance to family. In advance, she wants to mix a special dumpling stuffing for her new uncle, such as pepper, salt and pepper. The content can be imagined infinitely, as long as it can be eaten, it is not bad. When the son-in-law takes a break, he will hold a ceremony to change his mouth. Of course, the big red envelope prepared by my father-in-law in advance is thicker. This is called "mouth change fee". I will write an article specially in the future. Cooked jiaozi is served in a small red bowl, and the bowl with special stuffing should be specially placed in front of the new son-in-law. Don't put it wrong, or it will make a joke. The new children certainly know about the "open plan". I heard that some children are quick-witted and diligent, and put their own changes in front of others. This cleverness will make everyone laugh. The sister and brother of the bride can tease her brother-in-law. Of course, we can't miss this rare opportunity to keep an eye on this bowl and ensure that the new uncle can enjoy it exclusively. I used to listen to my father's story about the countryside, but I was really accidentally hit and ate jiaozi, the new son-in-law.
? Brothers and sisters should use this bowl of jiaozi to warn the new grandfather: Sister is ours, and we must treat you well when we marry you as a bride. The elder kindly reminded the new uncle that life is like this bowl of jiaozi, with all kinds of flavors. Men should learn to be tolerant, husband and wife share joys and sorrows, and live a harmonious and beautiful family.
Zazie Hoko
? When my niece got married, my sister-in-law bought all kinds of colored flour in advance. The wrapped jiaozi was colorful, beautiful, festive and photogenic. She praised the comprehensive and advanced service consciousness of the merchants and praised the new people for enjoying the new era and life happily.
? Recorded on Thursday, 2020,165438+1October 26th.