A man says he loves women. A woman says she loves men. However, they don't want to get married. We should not only ask, do they really love each other? Name of the man who doesn't want to get married: Zhang Lei Age: 29 Occupation: Why don't senior programmers in information companies get married? Marriage = serving a sentence. It seems that Zhang Lei is haggard. It turns out that in the past half month, he has been quarreling with his girlfriend because of marriage problems-he is an "escaped groom" and ran away on the way to the marriage registration office in Tianhe District, Guangzhou. Zhang Lei and his girlfriend have been dating for almost four years, and they have always had a good relationship. My girlfriend, like Zhang Lei, is a crazy person who loves to have fun. She often goes to bars, drinks and sings karaoke with Zhang Lei and his friends in the middle of the night. Sometimes she doesn't want to go out. At most, she told Zhang Lei, "Don't hook up with other beautiful women while I'm away! Because his girlfriend didn't interfere too much with Zhang Lei's freedom, Zhang Lei still enjoyed a happy single life even with a girlfriend. But since we started talking about marriage, things have changed. His girlfriend asked Zhang Lei to report his whereabouts to her from time to time. Sometimes he has a good time with his friends. His girlfriend called his friend to answer the phone to confirm his whereabouts. For this reason, friends often make fun of him. Gradually, single friends stopped calling him when they went out to the party. Occasionally, when they meet, they always ask, "How are the wedding preparations going?" What makes Zhang Lei even more depressed is that his girlfriend stipulates that he should make long-distance calls at least twice a week to greet his prospective parents-in-law. When she wants to go shopping, he must never refuse to accompany her. He should listen to her advice with a patient smile at any time ... He can't sleep late on weekends, and is often filled with his girlfriend's house-checking plan, or he is looking at furniture and wedding dresses, which is more tired than going to work. The night before getting the marriage certificate, Zhang Lei hesitated. Early the next morning, my girlfriend called me excitedly and told me, "Don't forget to bring your ID card, household registration book ... camera and camcorder ... and remember to inform Wang Li, Zhao Yan and Li to be friends and relatives at the registration office ..." Zhang Lei suddenly became very upset. On the way to the marriage registration office, several buddies called to congratulate him on "going into the besieged city and bidding farewell to freedom completely"! The more he thought about it, the more depressed he became. He decided not to go to the marriage registration office and said to the driver, "Please divert to the roaring bar on Jiang Yan Road ..." In the bar, Zhang Lei turned off his cell phone and drank alone all day. When I got home, my girlfriend naturally cried like a storm. The more she does this, the more Zhang Lei feels that her decision is not wrong. If marriage is like serving a sentence, is it necessary to serve it automatically? " Maybe, after overcoming this psychological obstacle, we will still get married. People will get married eventually ... but I won't think about getting married for at least a year or two. "Zhang lei whispered. Woman who doesn't want to get married Name: Zhu Xiaoyun (a pseudonym) Age: 28 Occupation: University lecturer Reasons for not getting married: When love becomes a habit, marriage becomes hesitant. "I am a person, not a person. "Zhu Xiaoyun told reporters. Zhu Xiaoyun and her boyfriend have been dating since college. Three years of graduate school and two years of work make seven years. She cooks for him after work. When it's cold, she puts her cold feet into his arms, crouches on the sofa, watches TV, listens to music and even corrects students' homework. When I first fell in love, my boyfriend often praised Zhu Xiaoyun's long eyelashes, like two shining brushes. Every time I kiss him, brushing his cheek will make him passionate! But now, he turns a blind eye to it. When I first fell in love, my boyfriend couldn't wait to ask Zhu Xiaoyun for a photo, put it in his wallet, and took it out when he was free to show it off for everyone. Now, she has changed several wallets for him, and the photos have been secretly changed by her, and he has no knowledge. When he first fell in love, he took a bath very hard and brushed his teeth seriously before every date. When dating, as long as Zhu Xiaoyun leaned in and frowned slightly, he grabbed the gum from his pocket and chewed it. Now, before going to bed, he has to "scold" and "beat" to take a lazy bath and stop brushing his teeth before going to bed. When Zhu Xiaoyun wakes up in the morning, he is often almost fainted by his heavy tone. If she protests this, he will smile and say, hey, you will get used to it after a long time! Zhu Xiaoyun sighed and said, "Some people say that if husband and wife stay together for a long time, they will become like brothers and sisters, and love will become a habit. But I'm not officially married, and this feeling is already so strong. It's hard to imagine what will happen after marriage ... "But if you want to break up, Zhu Xiaoyun will feel very sad-things have been emotional for a long time, let alone people? Moreover, he has good conditions, graduated from a prestigious school, is honest and reliable, has a gentle temperament, and more importantly, he loves her. So I just dragged it. Old people on both sides kept urging them to get married, so she found various reasons to urge them. The real reason was that she was still hesitating.

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