Getting married was a good thing, but recently Lingling broke up with her boyfriend because of marriage. The reason is that Er Yuan's boyfriend doesn't want to give a bride price or hold a wedding, but this is unacceptable for Lingling who got married for the first time.

In fact, Lingling met her boyfriend on a blind date, so she also knew that he had been divorced once before. When we first met, she thought he was average-looking, but the way he spoke and did things was what she liked, so later, she didn't refuse his pursuit.

Over the past year, the two have been getting along well. Seeing that they are getting older and older, coupled with constant urging at home, the two decided to get engaged.

The second-married boyfriend doesn't want to give a bride price or hold a wedding. What's his mentality?

Lingling only knew that there were two houses under her boyfriend's name, one in the city where they worked and the other in the county town of her hometown. Therefore, when talking about marriage, Lingling didn't ask too much. She thinks that marriage should be done according to the local customs in her hometown. Because their hometown is in one place, there is not much difference.

However, to Lingling's surprise, the idea was rejected by her boyfriend. Boyfriend means getting married for the second time, not wanting luxury. Besides, he said he had no money and didn't want his parents to worry about it any more. In fact, after all, my boyfriend doesn't want to give a bride price or hold a wedding.

Lingling doesn't want to, so her boyfriend thinks she doesn't understand him and thinks she can. What he means is that he now has two suites under his name, which are hers after marriage, as long as he gets a marriage certificate.

But for Yu Lingling, this is unacceptable in any case. After all, it was his first marriage, and his parents waited for so many years and wanted to see him get married. If they get married like this, doesn't it mean hitting their faces? So Lingling refused.

In this way, the two were deadlocked. Later, a friend came to persuade her boyfriend to sell the house he couldn't live in, so that he didn't have to worry about his parents anymore. However, her boyfriend refused to sell the house. A friend suggested adding her name to his room book, but he chose silence …

The second boyfriend doesn't want to give a bride price or hold a wedding. What's his mentality?

Later, Lingling also wanted to talk to him calmly, but unexpectedly, they quarreled as soon as they sat together. She thinks he doesn't respect himself. He thinks she doesn't understand him and loves money. ...

Gradually, they lost contact and met less often, so that in the end, it ended naturally. Later, Lingling married a man who could give her enough respect. However, soon after Lingling got married, her boyfriend came to get back together, but she didn't want Lingling to have married another woman. ...

In fact, from Lingling's point of view, every girl is very much looking forward to her wedding, and her boyfriend's request undoubtedly makes Lingling's expectation empty. Moreover, for Lingling, it is really unfair for her boyfriend to ask for a license instead of a bride price or a wedding. Even if he has two houses, he never wants to do anything for Lingling, just asking Lingling to understand him. This man is undoubtedly very selfish.

The second boyfriend doesn't want to give a bride price or hold a wedding. What's his mentality?

But from another angle, from the boyfriend's point of view, maybe his first marriage gave her a huge bride price and held a grand wedding, but after a few years of marriage, they divorced and all the money went to Shui Piao. As the saying goes, "once bitten, twice shy." Perhaps understandably, he refused Lingling's request, bride price and wedding for fear of going back to the old ways. But he ignored Lingling's feelings and only asked Lingling to understand herself, which was unfair to Lingling.

Love is mutual and respect is mutual. Therefore, in feelings, if you are always timid and hesitant because of previous injuries, it will not reduce the previous injuries, but will affect the normal development of the next relationship and bring more injuries. So, you might as well jump out of the previous shadow and move forward bravely. Only when the girl who bravely loves you feels your love will she stay with you longer!