First, we do have many people, or most of them. There will be a group of people waiting to get married, full moon for children, weekends, nothing, very prosperous. But not all of them are relatives, friends and colleagues, and quite a few people even know each other and join in the fun.
Second, the origin of accepting money and giving gifts, its real ancient times, due to the lack of materials, the lack of things at home to tide over the difficulties, so there will be relatives and friends, neighbors can make do with it, can do things with face, and now, if there are red and white things, it will be very grand and prosperous. According to the current economic situation, it is not necessary. This is the situation of the subject. Two things come and go. I have never been here before, and I don't want to go now.
Third, the situation is quietly changing. With the popularization of the only child and the acceleration of urbanization, people living together are strangers in a building or even in a unit. They just say hello to each other. Some people don't have to say hello. So, what should we do if there are weddings and funerals? There is no need to worry about this. Because we are now a market economy, as long as there is demand, someone will help us. For example, there are very few young people in rural areas now, and most of them are old people. What can we do if there are white jobs, such as carrying coffins? There are small special cranes, and grave digging is also mechanized. Just pay for it. There is also marriage. You don't have to worry about it. The wedding company has done this job, which is more comprehensive than you think. If people in this situation like the subject, it is really a red and white matter. Since they have never been busy with others before, and others will not come, then everything will be simple, the wedding will not be so grand, and relatives and friends will have dinner together.
Therefore, there is no need for the subject to have scruples. This is not a deformed family. This is normal. Live a good life and simplify the complicated life, and your life will be better and better!