In ancient times, there were ten miles of red makeup, and in modern times, there were sky-high gifts. Since ancient times, gift money has long been a necessary equipment before the wedding. This is both a custom and a rule. After all, the woman will entrust the rest of her life to a boy's family, and she will have children. The bride price is a token of gratitude and also gives girls a sense of security. Therefore, girls should take it for granted, and more or less can be agreed, but the man must give it.
According to the current consumption level, 30 thousand yuan is really nothing, compared with those gifts that cost hundreds of thousands or hundreds of thousands, it is really insignificant. A girl who used to go to college with me married to the countryside after graduation. In addition to buying a car and a house, the husband's family also gave 300,000 as a bride price. At that time, we really fooled our classmates, married a daughter-in-law and said nothing, and took out ten times more gifts than you.
In the face of the increasing gift money, the state has also taken care of it, requiring that the gift money should not exceed 30 thousand yuan at most, otherwise it will be illegal. Therefore, the woman wants 30,000 yuan, which is not only reasonable but also legal. You can't find evidence of her crime if you report it. If you don't want to give it, you can not get married. After all, marriage is free and there is no such thing as forced marriage.
If you think emotionally, if you really love her, you will feel that 30 thousand yuan is really reasonable. Although two people really love each other, marriage has always been unfavorable to girls. They left the familiar environment where they lived for more than 20 years, and came to a strange family for a man, and everything had to start all over again.
From getting married and having children, to doing housework, to serving in-laws and maintaining the relationship between relatives and friends, they have devoted their lives to this family, from a delicate little princess to a woman who has no worries about food and clothing. They should be compensated for sacrificing so much. At least, you should thank your mother-in-law for raising your daughter, and respect and welcome your woman to your home.