A person's eloquence depends not only on his proficiency in using oral expression skills, but also on his ideological level. In oral communication, any accurate and incisive oral expression must be backed by profound and organized thoughts. If you think well, you may not be able to speak well, but if you speak well, you must think well Because the novelty of oral expression comes from the creativity of thinking, the accuracy of oral expression comes from the clarity of thinking, and the quality of oral expression comes from the profundity of thinking.
Today's society is full of challenges and competition. As the saying goes: "Seven points of skill, three points of opportunity." In the competition, whoever grasps the opportunity will grasp the initiative of fate. Opportunities are fleeting, so it is important to seize them. The acquisition of opportunities is largely achieved through eloquence. We often fantasize that opportunities can fall from the sky. In fact, it is not impossible to let the opportunity come to you on its own initiative. Many celebrities rely on wisdom and hard work to create many seemingly mythical cases of "letting opportunities find themselves". We can draw inferences from others and draw nutrition for our own use.
After China's first manned space flight was successful, astronaut Yang Liwei became a celebrity. There are three main reasons why he became the first astronaut in space: first, he has good psychological quality, strong oral expression ability and well-organized and measured speech. Yang Liwei believes that aerospace is no small matter. No matter what you do, do your best, even after the training summary meeting and training summary. At the summary meeting, Yang Liwei made a carefully prepared and proactive speech with clear thinking, strict logic and calm. When the three candidates for the first flight are finally determined, they are excellent in all aspects and it is difficult to compete. Just considering that as the first astronaut in China, he had to face the eyes of the whole world, be interviewed by the news media and give a lecture tour, he finally decided Yang Liwei with good eloquence.
It can be seen that the mouth can determine a person's fate and is the capital to win opportunities. Imagine that if Yang Liwei didn't have a good eloquence, he might not be the first astronaut to go into space. In our daily life, we should try our best to train our oral expression ability and express ourselves in reports, speeches, speeches and other occasions, so as to attract the attention of leaders and attract more opportunities for success.
Xiaoyou ended her 10 years of study and stood at the crossroads of life again. It happened that a large-scale talent exchange meeting was being held in Beijing, so Xiaoyou stepped on the train a little tragically, joined the army of job seekers and realized his ideal.
After repeated failures, Xiaoyou stopped waiting in line for interviews at job fairs. Instead, I walked around the hall a few times to understand the recruitment situation of various companies and then make plans. At a job fair, she set a real estate company as her first goal.
After handing in her resume, a service girl asked her to fill in the registration form.
"Hey, are you from the countryside?"
"The children of farmers are simple, honest and hard-working, which is an advantage that urban youth do not have." Xiaoyou answered without hesitation.
After the service lady registered, she drew a big tick on her resume and said with a smile, "Go back and wait for the news." At this time, Xiaoyou was pleasantly surprised and came to a conclusion: when applying for a job, be careful of every information sender, and you will get unexpected results.
The next day, she received an interview notice from the company.
"What do you think of the layout of this room?"
Xiaoyou looked around and thought a little: "It can reflect the style of your company, but the fly in the ointment is a bit serious." If you can arrange two pots of flowers or put some music, you may be able to create a relaxed and harmonious communication environment. ""among so many applicants, you are one of the few who are novel and bold! "The interviewer was satisfied with her answer and praised her.
"You flatter me. In fact, many people are better than me, but their aesthetics are different. " Never belittle others while raising yourself. This is Xiaoyou's consistent style, otherwise it will leave an impression of unkindness.
A good beginning is half the battle. In the following conversation, she always grasped two points: on the one hand, she tried her best to sell herself, on the other hand, she was considerate of each other everywhere. The interviewer's eyes gradually showed appreciation.
"What would you think if you were not accepted by our company?"
Xiaoyou proudly said: "Talent exchange emphasizes two-way choice. When I lose this employment opportunity, it also means that your company has lost a rare talent! "
"If you are admitted, can you handle the relationship with your colleagues?" The interviewer then asked.
Xiaoyou felt that it was obviously unwise to answer this seemingly simple question directly, so he decided to make a detour: "It is our ultimate goal to concentrate on doing a good job and developing our career. As for the relationship with colleagues, I am easy-going and should be no problem! " The person in charge smiled with satisfaction. Three days later, Xiaoyou received a phone call and was admitted.
Good eloquence has won Xiaoyou a chance of success. If Xiaoyou is not eloquent, he may not have a chance to talk to the waitress for the first time. Facts have proved once again that nothing is impossible, as long as you are eloquent, nothing is impossible. So learn to use eloquence to win the chance of success for yourself.
A young man in Philadelphia, USA, wandered the streets of Philadelphia all day in order to get a job, always imagining that any rich man could find him and create a brilliant life. However, no matter how dramatic he made, there was still no result. One day, he suddenly remembered what O Henry said: "Add some talking raisins to the existing dough." So, he suddenly broke into the office of the famous rich man, Mr. Jaber Gibbs, demanding that Mr. Gibbs come to see him even at the expense of a minute and allow him to say a word or two. So Mr Gibbs made an exception and met him. At first, Gibbs just wanted to have a word with him, and then he sent him away. Later, I didn't expect that the more they talked, the more speculative they became, and they talked for an hour. Later, Gibbs quickly found a job for the poor young man.