Watching emotional programs, the girl Xiaoman on the stage begged the boy Xiao Jian, but no critic or audience sympathized with her.

I'm a girl, too. I don't think she deserves sympathy.

Xiao Jian and Xiaoman have been classmates since high school. Xiao Jian has been secretly in love with Xiaoman. After the college entrance examination, Xiao Jian could have gone to a better university, but for Xiaoman, he chose the same university as Xiaoman.

In college, Xiao Jian summoned up the courage to confess to Xiaoman, but Xiaoman refused.

Xiao Jian is persistent, still quietly paying for Xiaoman, without asking for anything in return. Xiao Jian is a warm man with superb cooking skills, and regards Xiaoman as a treasure. Everything is trying to satisfy her. Finally, a year later, Xiaoman accepted him.

Xiaoman's stomach is not good. He likes porridge for breakfast, especially the eight-treasure porridge made by Xiao Jian. Xiao Jian gets up at 5 o'clock every morning to cook porridge, sends hot porridge to Xiaoman, and watches Xiaoman drink it mouthful by mouthful, with a happy smile on his face.

On one occasion, Xiao Jian worked odd jobs, working late and getting up late the next day, which delayed the time of cooking porridge. She went to several restaurants and bought porridge similar to hers, but Xiaoman found out. The little man threw it angrily and muttered, "It tastes so bad. Are you sending away the dog and kitten?"

Xiao Jian quickly apologized: "Sorry, it was too late to work part-time last night, and I was delayed today, so ..."

Say that finish, Xiao Jian went back to cook porridge for Xiao Man. Xiaoman was very moved and said to Xiao Jian with tears in her eyes, "I love you".

In Xiaoman, Xiao Jian is like a humble servant. As long as Xiaoman needs it, she will do anything. When Xiaoman was happy, he said it was all worth it.

In the past four years, students have seen Xiao Jian's contribution to Xiaoman. Xiao Jian is recognized as a "good boyfriend" in school, and many female students envy Xiaoman.

However, one day, Xiao Jian went to Xiaoman's rental house to deliver porridge, but the door was opened by a man wrapped in a bath towel. Xiao Jian was dumbfounded at once. Xiao Jian told the man that he was delivering a courier. Xiao Jian disappeared from a small world.

Later, Xiaoman was dumped by that man, only to know that Xiao Jian was the one who loved himself the most in the world, so he found Xiao Jian through TV and asked for his forgiveness. No matter how Xiao Man pleaded, Xiaojian was cold.

Finally, Xiao Jian said a passage to the little man: "I used to be a humble slave in front of you and spoiled you as a noble princess, because I thought you loved me too. When I know that you don't love me one day, I will lose me forever. " Say that finish, Xiao Jian left and never look back.

Yes! In front of people who hurt themselves and don't know how to cherish themselves, you should leave angrily, because no matter how much you love each other and how humble you are, you can't get love.

Love to the depths is humbleness, and another synonym for humbleness is "deep love", which means being cautious, highly caring and loving, and being afraid that the other party will be unhappy at some point.

Some people don't understand your deep love, think you are humble and contemptible, but they don't know how to cherish it. Don't go on when you meet such a person. The person who deserves our humble love must be under an important premise, that is, he loves you too!

02

One sunny day, Hu Lancheng was lying on a cane chair, basking in the sun, looking at the monthly magazine Heaven and Earth sent by Su Qing and turning to an article "Blockade". The author Zhang Ailing didn't read the first and second sections, but sat up straight and read them over and over again. She is addicted to heroin, but she doesn't feel satisfied enough and wants to smoke more.

So he asked Su Qing who Zhang Ailing was, and Su Qing only answered her "woman". From then on, whenever anything about Zhang ailing, even a word, he felt precious and full of expectations, just like the goddess who secretly loved her.

The second issue of Heaven and Earth Man has arrived, and there is another article by Zhang Ailing and a photo of herself. Hu Lancheng was ecstatic, and even wondered if what he saw with his eyes was an illusion.

Hu Lancheng went to Shanghai and asked Su Qing for Zhang Ailing's address. Su Qing told her, "Zhang Ailing doesn't see strangers." Hu Lancheng still took the address and found Zhang Ailing's residence. Zhang ailing didn't see the guests, so she handed a note through the door. Unexpectedly, Zhang ailing called him back the next day and said that she would go to see him.

The next day, Zhang Ailing really went.

Seeing Zhang Ailing herself, Hu Lancheng was amazed: she felt like a naive schoolgirl, even less mature than a schoolgirl, and totally unable to relate to her identity as a writer.

Zhang Ailing sat in the living room for five hours, listening carefully to Hu Lancheng's comments on the current popular works.

The next day, Hu Lancheng went to see Zhang Ailing again. Hu Lancheng seems unconvinced by Zhang Ailing's talent and wants to compete with Zhang Ailing on the sword. Hu Lancheng told her about theory and life. Finally, Hu Lancheng sighed with emotion: "I have used all my weapons, but I am still not as good as her."

Since then, Hu Lancheng went to see Zhang Ailing once every other day, three or four times. Zhang Ailing suddenly became very upset and sad. She wrote a note asking Hu Lancheng not to see her again. Hu Lancheng didn't feel anything wrong, so he went to see her. He was still very happy to see her. So Hu Lancheng went to see Zhang Ailing every day.

Because Hu Lancheng talked about the photo published in Heaven and Earth, Zhang Ailing showed it to Hu Lancheng the next day, and there was a word on the back: After seeing him, she became very low, as low as dust, but her heart was happy, and flowers appeared in the dust.

Hu Lancheng understood that Zhang Ailing loves herself, and two of a kind, two people are in the room together. The man gave up farming and the woman gave up weaving, and she didn't want to go out to play with Tao, so she didn't have time.

Zhang Ailing's love for Hu Lancheng is as deep as the sea and as low as dust, and she doesn't care about anything;

Hu Lancheng has a wife, and she doesn't care.

Another time, in a letter to Hu Lancheng, she said, "I thought you could come and go at will in the future."

Zhang Ailing was obedient to Hu Lancheng.

They lived with fellow initiates, shared the same fate and met each other for a long time.

Later, when they got married, they decided to write a marriage certificate and said:

Hu Lancheng Zhang Ailing signed a contract for life and became husband and wife, wishing to make the years quiet and the world stable.

The first two sentences were written by Aileen, and the last two sentences were written by Hu Lancheng, as evidenced by Yan Ying.

Zhang Ailing pinned her lifelong love on Hu Lancheng, but it was hard to predict that Hu Lancheng's infidelity and betrayal would follow.

Later, Hu Lancheng met Zhou Xiao, a nurse, while running a newspaper in Wuhan, and fled to Wenzhou to meet the rural landlady. They also have a physical relationship. And frankly mentioned them to Zhang Ailing.

Zhang Ailing and Hu Lancheng met before they fled to Wenzhou. Because of Hu and what happened before, Zhang Ailing painfully wanted to kill him. I came all the way to Wenzhou to see him, only to find that he was having an affair with his landlady.

Aileen told him that she was in pain, and Hu Lancheng responded with a smile: I wish you were in pain like this. Zhang Ailing asked Hu Lancheng to choose between her and Zhou Xiao. "He doesn't care about my life or death at all, only keeps what he has." These are the words of Zhang Ailing.

Zhang Ailing slowly saw through Hu Lancheng's promiscuous, cool thin and irresponsible nature, and wrote to Hu Lancheng: "I don't like you anymore, and you don't like me anymore. I thought about this resolution for a year and a half, long after. Don't come to me, even if you write, I won't read it. " From then on, Zhang Ailing never gave Hu Lancheng a chance to get back together. She is determined, determined!

As a woman, once your love is humble, then a man must lose interest in you because his desire to conquer is gone. Just like a hunter, you are already in his bag. How can hunters be interested in their prey?

He will only stare at the new prey that has not yet arrived in the distance, so the humble party will always be the injured party.

You usually say "take advantage of psychology": the more you love a person, the easier it is to lose him; And the less you care, the more anxious the other person is to find you-Zhao Geyu's "Be a woman with a strong heart"

Hu Lancheng is such a bitch mentality.

Love is humble to the depths, and it can be humble in love, even humble to the dust, but only if the other party loves you, cherishes you and understands the deep affection behind your humility.

In reality, there are often some people. You pay so little for him, but what you get is the contempt and indifference of the other party, and even trample on your feelings for him. At this time, no matter how much you love each other, you still have to leave decisively, because you can't touch someone who doesn't love you anymore, just like you can't wake a person who pretends to sleep!