After reading a certain work, I believe that everyone's vision must be broadened a lot. You can't just watch. Write a review. Is it impossible to write without a clue? The following is my careful reflection on life events, for reference only, hoping to help everyone.
Thinking about important events in life 1 Every time I meet a good movie, I feel honored. A movie is actually a vivid book that uses drama to interpret and supplement life. Life Events is a book that won't be boring.
I thought it was sad, but it wasn't. Xiaowen's life condensed the unexamined life of Mo Sanmei, the saddest character on the market. Because Xiaowen has more light, one is that her childhood is miserable, and the other is that she has a broken childhood. They are warming each other.
Also, aren't adults also making up for their incomplete childhood with lifelong pursuit? Third sister's love for Xiaowen is actually to make up for the lack of love when she was a child. The love that the previous generation either beat or scolded or never boasted, even if it was understood in life as an adult, could not be let go after all, because childhood could not be repeated.
China people have always attached importance to mourning and glory after death. Third sister gradually realized that what he did could bring comfort to the relatives of the deceased and gradually became a real star maker.
No one can predict what will happen to them, but without exception, they all hope that their relatives who stay in this world will not be too sad or too sad. Third Sister took his team of stars, walked through the streets, sent the stars to the sky, and sent them away. She couldn't tell how much she loved her old father.
The camera has been locked in a narrow alley, and the messy and conflicting environment seems to be the scene of our childhood life.
However, I am not sad, and I don't pretend to be sad. Probably because I am old, I gradually lost a lot of emotions. For sadness, there is actually no great sadness, and for joy, there is actually no great joy. Therefore, its warmth makes me feel that I will smile, and then I will sing to life.
The pink urn was covered with stars and flew to the funeral with fireworks. When you miss your loved ones, you will look up at the stars. Every star in the sky is someone who loves us. I would like to turn my thoughts into stars and accompany us warmly.
After watching the movie, I bought a big peach in a passing fruit shop. Then, like them, I took a big bite. It is crisp, sweet and noisy. It's really great.
I didn't read the story before I went to see the film. I didn't expect the story at the beginning to be set in the death of an old man. The topic is very heavy and may not be suitable for children. However, everyone will experience it eventually. It is best to let children know from an early age that people are born and die, establish a correct outlook on life, and be psychologically prepared for the long road of life.
Everyone's life is different, some are rich, some are ordinary and some are brilliant; Some people have successful careers, while others are considered mediocre. Even though some people have gone through detours and hardships when they were young, they have turned over a new leaf after awakening. The prodigal son's return is like a rebirth from the fire, raising the sails of life again, doing extraordinary things in ordinary life, shining with the excellent human light of kindness, friendship, respect and filial piety.
The movie said, "Everything is a trivial matter except life and death." Everyone's life has to face growth, frustration and maturity, inevitable misfortune, unpredictable life and death, and in this long and short life, we have to live a wonderful and meaningful life.
When I was a child, I couldn't understand the meaning of "death". Just like the little girl in the movie looking for her dead grandmother, I told her, "Grandma turned into smoke, floated into the sky and became a shining star." So many times, many people like to look up at the starry sky and pour out their worries on a quiet night.
There is a line in the movie: "Every star in the sky is someone who loves you." You may think of your grandparents and love them; You may think of parents who love us selflessly, or you may think of children who are sometimes irritating and sometimes cute in front of us.
When we face love, we will all be moved. From birth to death, love is everywhere. The film "Life Events" said: "Thank you for warming me up. There are joys and sorrows, and there are also difficulties and setbacks. The important thing in life is to live well, live hard and live kindly ... "
This is the year of 2022, and I went to the cinema for the first time. I saw Tik Tok, and the film was well rated, so! I was also particularly curious and walked into the cinema with some of my own ideas.
The biggest feeling of the whole movie is that life is nothing more than "life and death".
At first, the little girl woke up from her sleep, but she couldn't wake her grandmother. Maybe for the child, her grandmother fell asleep and didn't wake up, but she didn't know that her grandmother had left. In fact, this is very touching, but she didn't feel me, which may have a lot to do with her growth. I've never seen what her grandmother looks like in my life, and I don't even have a memory. I can't make myself sing.
In fact, I admire my third brother's father. Although strict with children, it is also a father's love for children. I admire the greatness of a father in the letter he left after his death, knowing that he will leave at any time. That kind of love for children makes his children guess which way he wants to leave this world. I am very moved.
Maybe I am too sober to live in this world, and sometimes I wonder what way I would choose if I were to leave that day! How many people will remember you and feel sorry for you! Who will cry for you!
This is the question I want to ask myself most after watching this movie. Maybe I think too early, but people will leave one day when they are alive! I just thought ahead of the problems I would encounter in the future.
Finally, talk about that little girl! Acting is bursting at such a young age. In fact, this reflects that it is very important to have a responsible parent and family. Adults can't leave their mistakes to a child. It is very important to give children a loving and healthy family.
Therefore, we are children in life and future parents. We should make our life more loving. May we all live in love in the future.
Life is long, have a good experience and let love fill your life.
The film "Life Events" starts from some clips in the video number and is attracted by the daily shooting of Zhu Yilong and Yang Enyou. After learning that the film is mainly about funerals, it aroused my interest again. It happened that I had time to make an appointment with my lover to see it in advance this week.
Some people say that people in China dare not talk about death. I don't think so. People in China just don't talk about death easily. They are not afraid of death, but they are more afraid of life. I don't know much about distant history, but our grandparents still have memories of wars and famines. At that time, many people died not happily, but more. They may have been forced or killed. Therefore, they will think that life is hard-won, not looking forward positively is a waste of life, and talking about death is a disrespect for life.
The film "Events in Life" tells the story that Mo Sanmei (Zhu Yilong), an undertaker, met an orphan Wu Xiaowen (Yang Enyou) at a funeral shortly after he was released from prison. Xiaowen's appearance unexpectedly changed his attitude towards his career and life.
The hero of the story, Third Brother, named Mo Sanmei (Zhu Yilong), is a released prisoner. His father and sister call him the third child.
His father doesn't like him. He felt that he didn't treat Paradise on Earth well. His neighbors think that he is unlucky in contact with the dead. His girlfriend also gave him a green hat ... he should also think he is too weak.
So he gave me the feeling that he was "insecure, worthless and confident", a little empty, as if he didn't know why he was alive. However, there are also some people who don't admit defeat at ordinary times and pretend to be fierce, like immature boys.
Just like his name, although people outside call him "third brother", he is still "Mo Sanmei" at heart. He needs the praise of his father, the support of his friends, and someone worthy of his efforts.
After meeting Xiaowen, the third brother's eyes slowly began to light up and he paid more attention to the funeral.
Two scenes that moved me in the movie:
The first one is Xiaowen drawing on the little girl's urn.
For the little girl's parents, the stars on the urn can bring some warmth to her daughter. It's hard to accept that their baby will be gone in a short time. They complain that they only care about their work and don't spend time with their daughters. This may also be a wake-up call for busy parents. It makes me feel that death is not the most painful thing, but the most painful thing is the stranger who can't let go.
Second, the third brother arranged Liu's body.
Lao Liu is the rival of the third brother, but he can't stand the pain of his ex-lover. Thanks to Xiaowen's courage, he agreed to ask the old man for help. After doing this, he saw that his family got some comfort. From here on, third brother really grew up.
This story reminds me of a story in a neighboring village when I was a child. A little girl died because she was run over by a car. At that time, people in the village said that the girl couldn't see what it looked like, and her mother had someone make her a beautiful doll before she was buried. When I was a child, I just thought her mother loved her very much. Now that I think about it, this matter is undoubtedly more meaningful to the living.
By the way, what impressed me the most was an old man's sentence:
Life is like a book, everyone will turn to the last page, and life is just death.
Finally, still alive, those are small things that can be solved.
I went to see the newly released movie "Life Events" on the weekend of May, which may be the reason for my fatigue. Although I was moved to tears several times when I watched the movie, I still felt that there was a fly in the ointment.
First of all, there are several unexpected plots in the play, such as the death of Mo's father, the participation of Xiaowen's mother, and the happy ending that everyone likes. I feel a little pity for this realistic and profound theme.
As Mu Xin said, China people have a complex called "reunion complex". If you don't get together, you will have it, and if you don't leave, you will be welcome, otherwise the audience will scold the author to death. After watching the tragedy, the Greeks felt heavy and purified. After watching the happy reunion, China people ate food taken late at night with a smile and got carried away for a while.
"Events in Life" chose a slightly heavy and realistic cruel topic, death, which has always been taboo and avoided by China people. The selection of films is very good, and the overall production is above the standard, but personally it is a pity.
Lying in bed tonight, I remembered the plot in the movie and suddenly realized that another clue in the movie turned out to be superficial.
At the beginning of the film, Zhu Yilong played Mo Sanmei, which gave people the impression that she was a mortician who had been out of prison for a long time and had no feelings. The neighbor played a joke on him and went back to the wicked man of the past in a serious way. Even to his old father, he was tit-for-tat and swearing.
He has no pity for his grandmother's "Xiaowen" and has a heart of stone, which scares the children in minutes.
But it is such a "villain" who will be in a hurry when he receives a text message from his girlfriend. After discovering the truth, I will only cry silently at the photo.
Seeing Xiaowen's poor treatment at his uncle's house, he wanted to take responsibility without thinking.
Is he a bad guy or a good guy? Zhu Yilong, with the aura of leading role, is of course a good man. What caused his seemingly contradictory behavior?
It was his childhood.
Father said that the funeral cause "can't be done without ability, but it can't be looked down upon." The Mo family has run this funeral shop called "Heaven" for generations. Mo Sanmei spent her childhood in a crematorium. At the age of five, she began to dress the deceased, but her strict father always beat and scolded him and never gave him an affirmation.
It was not until his father died that reconciliation was reached between father and son. He worked like a madman to realize his father's last wish.
Understand this layer, also understand that Mo Sanmei's coldness, ruthlessness, willfulness and free and easy are just his protective colors. He is just a kind boy who is afraid of getting hurt.
So when Xiaowen's mother came to take her away, even though he was so reluctant and vowed, he couldn't help but relent.
This is why he struggled to catch up with distant cars in the rain.
That's why he foolishly asked a child, "You won't forget me, will you?"
What is the great event in life?
Is it birth, illness and death? Or a wedding, to be the first?
This is a question left for us to think about in movies.
There is a saying that all our lives are actually trying to make up for the injuries we suffered when we were young.
Thank you for warming me up.
The movie story is set in the funeral industry, which naturally reminds me that maybe a funeral or how to leave with dignity is a major event in life. But as shown at the beginning of the film, death is a topic that everyone is afraid of but will eventually face, just like the funeral shop in the north of the hospital, but it looks cold.
The film mainly tells the story of a little girl who had to follow the protagonist in funeral work because she couldn't accept her grandmother's death, and finally accepted the facts and took care of each other. It sounds a little boring, but as the story goes on, I feel what the movie has conveyed to me that I never thought-although death should be taken seriously, it may really be just that.
For example, the funeral home is arranged in a small and lively alley, with a wedding dress shop and a barber shop on both sides (as if). At first glance, it is so out of place. Although there were occasional frictions between neighbors, they finally accepted and got along well, which made me feel less ugly. Although the funeral runs through the whole movie, the sad mood can't escape, but I can also feel that the form of each funeral and the heavy feeling it brings are different; There are other events, although dramatic, such as the mutual redemption of the two protagonists, the departure of girlfriends, the marriage of friends and so on.
All these make me feel that compared with the death we will face in the future, maybe the real event in life is now-instead of worrying about the future, we should live well, take care of ourselves and be responsible for ourselves.
Looking back at some movies that discussed death, such as "The Funeral Teacher", "Travel Notes of Dreams" and "The Phoenix Spread its Wings", etc., although this movie is somewhat different from them, I am more familiar with the background of the story. Now I find that what it expresses seems to arouse people's love for life-the funeral teacher tells the story of this profession, so that people can explore the value of work, and any work deserves to be respected and valued, and life. Dream-seeking travel notes are about a person's social death, that is, when no one remembers you in reality, you really die. They also told us to live well and be remembered by others.
After watching the movie, I thought, what is the great event in my life? Maybe the stages of life are different. So what do I care about now?
Life Events Review 7 "Life Events" is really good. When I was 20 years old, I especially liked to watch the macro story of the great hero country's hatred of the rich. At the age of 30, after having some life experience, I like to read little stories of little people, stories whose details and ordinary corners seem ordinary.
Third brother is a star. This is a warm film with a compact plot and distinctive characters. The lines are also very concise, and every line exists to enrich the emotion of the play.
What moved me the most was the voice in Grandma's WeChat, because I can't hear it anymore, which means leaving forever. Xiaowen shouted "three elder brothers, three elder brothers, dad, dad". Tears really shed, and the child's emotions broke out. She is no longer a child without parents, and some people in the world care about her.
People are born lonely, come lonely and go lonely. Getting married at birth is a comedy, and dying at the end of life is a tragedy. Therefore, putting the wedding company next to the heaven, including the wedding scene, is for the sake of dramatic conflict and showing the joys and sorrows of life. In fact, happiness is sadness. Live or die. When we get together, we break up. If you have feelings, you will lose them. But living itself is the meaning of life. There is nothing beyond life and death.
The story revolves around the love between father and daughter. On the one hand, there are orphans without father and mother, and the only grandmother to rely on has passed away. The first two scenes of the film depict grandma's illness and Xiaowen's Nezha-like character, namely a table of medicine and Nezha's New Year pictures hanging on the wall.
On the other hand, he went to prison for love, and was middle-aged by a young loser after he got out of prison. There are contradictions between his father and son, between men and women, and even with his neighbors. It seems that life can't be worse, but in the end it is a kind-hearted person who is "duplicitous". How can such a drama make people not move? In order to adopt a child who is not related by blood, he screwed up his so-called career and sorted out the remains of his rival for old love? The hardness of the surface and the softness of the heart touched the deepest part of every audience.
Everyone has a * * * nature, that is kindness and compassion. This movie is very healing, which reminds me of several similar movies, such as The Miracle of Cell No.7, Heidi and Grandpa, and The Little Girl's Uncle Monkey. There is true love in the world, which is worth it!
Reflections on Important Events in Life 8 "The Man of the Long Star" is a special title given to the funeral industry by this film. Every star in the sky is someone who has loved us. I used to sit in Shan Ye and look up at every star. If you instill more science, you will lose your sensibility. I have always imagined the living conditions of the stars in the universe, but I never thought that every star might be the most unforgettable person in someone's heart.
On the way to Jiang Yan on midsummer night, will Xiaowen and Third Brother often look up at the Milky Way and miss grandma and dad?
In my heart, Xiaowen is a little Nezha, free and naughty, but keeps in mind the person who should be in my heart. I grew up with my grandma, but one morning I woke up and grandma left in a hurry. Xiaowen, don't be sad. If you fall asleep, grandma will become a star and fall into your dream. Xiaowen, don't be sad. If you are sad, sit on the stone bench outside the "heaven", look at the stars in the sky and listen to grandma's voice. Grandma is with you.
After losing her grandmother, Xiaowen also gained a warm-hearted father, didn't she?
In just two hours, it covers the year of the transformation of the third brother. From the original selfish, directionless third brother to a good father who loves his daughter; From the initial objection to the funeral industry to the present, he has become a qualified "star breeder". Third brother may not understand why his father pushed him to the death heap. In fact, it's like the lyrics-"As long as you really believe, you are the happiest person; As long as you really believe, you are a long-star person. " Believe in this industry, believe in yourself, believe in every star in the sky, and death is not so terrible.
What moved me most was that Lao Mo turned into fireworks and disappeared on the Yangtze River. There is no full cry, no full white cloth, just put your ashes in the most common jar. Leave a letter from home and let the son choose the most special and decent way to leave. Third brother understands you. I don't know if you saw it in the sky. Under the sky where my second son died, mixing your ashes and fireworks became the most striking presence on Jiang Yan Road that night. Maybe you have become a star. Seeing your son's behavior, you may have to show off with other stars!
The concept conveyed by the events of life is that "there is no event in life except death". As Lao Mo finally said, "Life is like a book, it always turns to the last page. It's just that punctuation marks are different, some people are periods, and some people are ellipsis. " Nothing in the world is bigger than the stars in the universe, and nothing in life is bigger than death. As long as you are willing to believe, as long as you are willing to devote yourself to life, punctuation in this life book can also be the most beautiful star.
My home is in heaven, at No.73 Huai 'an Road, Yuhua District, Jiang Yan Road. I am a star, so can you.
When I was sitting downstairs smoking last night, I suddenly remembered that my friend recommended the latest movie to me, called Life Events. On second thought, I haven't been to the cinema of 10. 16 since last year, so I gladly bought a ticket and decided to see it tonight.
The title of the film is Life Events, which is also mentioned in the whole narrative process. The director may want to express an open-minded attitude towards life through the mouth of the characters, that is, everything is smoke except death. This is similar to "Life and death are the most important" in Preface to Lanting Collection, except that one emphasizes only the end and the other emphasizes the beginning.
In addition, I think the highlights are two fragments related to blood and emotion. So I joked that this movie should be called Love, Blood and Funeral instead of Life Events. Love needs no explanation. This film contains parents' love for children, children's love for parents and blood relationship. I will explain them below. Mourners are a man's profession.
Why is it related to blood? I think the problem of blood relationship is vaguely described in the film. At the end of the film, Xiaowen's biological mother came to see Xiaowen, and Sanmei sent Xiaowen back. Here I thought of a question, which is more important, birth or education. Why do biological mothers have to send their children out when they come to find them? Is it not worth asking for children's advice, or can a person who fails to fulfill his childcare responsibilities all day become a qualified mother?
Of course, there is no in-depth discussion on this issue in the film, but in the end, Xiaowen's biological mother joined the third sister's team and rounded up the contradiction between childbirth and upbringing. But this does not prevent me from discussing this question, that is, which is more important, blood parents or emotional parents.
Personally, I tend to raise more than life.
In fact, there are many descriptions of blood relationship in the film. For example, that man quarreled with his father like that. Finally, because of Xiaowen's drive and the relationship between them, my father finally began to agree with the man. Of course, I think this paragraph was handled very well, including my father's promise that he would help Xiaowen as long as he called him "Grandpa". This can reflect the importance that the elderly attach to blood relationship and inheritance.
Let's go back to the topic, life events. From the beginning of the film, it is a contradiction between the death of Xiaowen's grandmother and Xiaowen's cousin's going to Beijing for an exam. The death of the old man is a great event, and so is going to Beijing to take exams for opportunities. The focus of the contradiction is Xiaowen's uncle. Whether to stay at home with my mother's health or go to Beijing to accompany my children in the exam. Of course, the last choice is to accompany the children to the exam. This seems to show that in our hearts, the feelings for the next generation are always stronger than the previous generation.
I wrote a lot, as if to dissect the film with an analytical knife. But I think movies should be watched with heart and feel the emotional voice. This analysis is just a reflection after reading it. When I was in the cinema, I also devoted myself to the world of the characters, to feel their joys and sorrows, and to understand their joys and sorrows.
In the overall narrative process of the film, the two business deals received by the male host can actually be discussed. One is that the child at home died of heart failure, and the parents have been busy with their careers and didn't spend too much time with their children before they moved into the ward, and finally regretted it. The other is that the old man has been making trouble at home because he got the demolition money, so he decided to spend all the demolition money and hold a funeral for himself. Both of them show some contradictions at present. Also, after the kindergarten teacher adopted Xiaowen, he felt that parents didn't care about their children's education, saying that no matter how busy they were, they would come and spend time with their children.
The first two short stories will not be unfolded, and they are still very straightforward, but the last one who accompanied the children, I think it should be unfolded. Mainly because I have been to a kindergarten where many children of migrant workers are volunteers.
Of course, we admit that parents can play a very important and even decisive role in children's growth. But we must realize that parents may not have the ability, experience and time to accompany their children. This is really a complicated contradiction. Everyone wants to grow up with their children, but sometimes life is really cruel. Just like left-behind children, if they go out to work, their living conditions will not be guaranteed without company. These problems can't be solved by talking.
That's about it. This film is a good one and worth seeing. All the ideas are inspired by this film, and in the process of watching the film, we should also seek the voice of * * *, which is a respect for it.
After watching the movie "Life Events" in the morning, 10 felt something. Especially at the beginning, watching Xiaowen couldn't wake grandma, and suddenly I felt that it was a horror movie. From the little girl's point of view, it is a terrible thing that the closest grandmother can't wake up and is carried away and sent to burn.
Look at the third brother-Mo Sanmei. Third brother, engaged in the funeral industry, life is not easy. When dealing with Xiaowen's grandmother's funeral, he met Xiao Nezha-Xiaowen. The two told the judge about it and became family members, and then the father of the third brother died. Xiaowen's mother left with Xiaowen and experienced where you were going. The third brother regretted it and began to love his job, brought Xiaowen back and started a new life.
The story is not complicated, as long as it is touching enough. Like Xiaowen and Third Brother, they are strangers. After running in, they become dependent on each other. Like the old man and the third brother, on the surface, the relationship is mutual dislike, and finally the relationship between father and son is filial piety. The relationship between people can be good or bad at first, but after getting along for a long time, they have their own true feelings.
And the events of life. I used to see that "life is nothing but life and death", but in the movie, life was ruled out and became "life is nothing but death". What is the great event in life? Is it the continuation and death of the representatives of the wedding dress shop and funeral shop in the movie, or the joys and sorrows? I'm afraid neither. The important events in life are still what is happening now, big or small, better than bad. The past has passed, and the future has not happened. The important thing is to deal with the present.
It's easy to say, but it's still too difficult to talk about death. When I was a child, those old people who loved me never went there; In the future, I hope the living relatives can live for a long time. I am most afraid of the hospital, and I don't want to see the moment of parting.
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