At the wedding reception, it is an essential process for the couple to toast, light cigarettes and peel sugar for the guests. Especially when there are many guests, every guest should have a drink with the couple, even if the groom is huge. No wonder many grooms have the impression that they were drunk on their wedding night. This is really not a perfect wedding night.
As for toasting, it is not the main content, but it is also part of the wedding ceremony. The so-called toast also has the word "respect", cigarettes can be dispensed with, and wine should be respected.
Many people who have experienced this situation have expressed their helplessness, and some people have come up with countermeasures and summarized them. It is really practical, and newcomers who are about to face this level can refer to it:
1. Before and after the toast, you must arrange a suspense content. When the toast is announced, there should be a response before and after, telling everyone what we will do after the toast. Please look forward to it, otherwise many people will want to have nothing to do after eating, and don't make any noise. But if you publicly announce that there are still suspense to be revealed and a lot of content to be carried out, then the people attending the wedding will not disturb your wedding process.
2. Let the camera follow the prison, set up the machine, take out the cavity, and then tell the guests that we all raise our glasses together, leaving this precious lens, so that our cameraman and photographer can record this moment when everyone cheers with the new couple, and invite the whole table to stand up on the grounds of the camera. People are generally embarrassed to refuse. If filming, please take a seat, and the couple will leave.
3. If two people are really hard to resist, they have to work hard on wine:
● Liquor
(1) water
First, most of the wine in the bottle is poured out, leaving the wine about 3 cm high. Remember not to leave it empty. If there is no smell of alcohol, it will be easy to wear. Then use clean water instead of tap water. Tap water will have small bubbles, which is not wine at first glance. It should be filled with boiled water or pure water, mineral water and the like.
Prepare two bottles of "white wine" in case there is not enough.
Don't let anyone touch those two special bottles of wine except the best man and the bridesmaid.
The most important thing is to pretend it tastes bad when drinking.
② Change to Sprite.
If you think white water is better to wear, because white water doesn't hang a cup. Another way is to deflate with Sprite, which must be released the night before.
● Red wine
Just buy black grape juice and pour it into an empty red wine bottle.
2. What does a wedding manager do?
The responsibilities of the wedding manager:
Arrive at the groom's house on the morning of the wedding 10:30.
10:30 is responsible for putting happy words in the car.
1 1:30 Pick up the bride with the groom.
/kloc-go back to the groom's house at 0/3: 00.
/kloc-Depart from the groom's house to the hotel at 0/4: 30. Pay attention to the following items: dresses, posters, computers, projectors, fruits, bowls, tea, paper cups, snacks, wedding room decorations, wedding candy, cigarettes, red wine, gifts, salutes, seats, CDs and pens.
/kloc-arrive at the hotel at 0/4: 45, open a wedding room (suite), and pay the deposit 1000 yuan.
All items are stored in the room first, and they are responsible for unified custody.
After others arrive, they will apply to the wedding director for wedding-related items.
Communicate with the hotel and plan the wedding.
Borrow the red carpet from the hotel and shop it from the wedding company.
Borrow a dining car and a red tablecloth from the hotel for the candlelight ceremony and place candle cups.
Urge the hotel to decorate the champagne tower
Urge the hotel to arrange three layers of cakes.
Supervise the wedding company and arrange the wedding venue.
Supervise the wedding company to be present on time to make arrangements.
After the wedding company arrives, first check whether the items you bring are complete, including: ring pillows, seat bows, various corsages, parents' flowers, candlesticks, candles, candle cups, three-layer cakes and so on.
Arrange the staff to distribute cigarettes, red wine and matches to each table. One bottle of red wine, two packs of cigarettes and two packs of matches per table.
Pay attention to the remaining alcohol and tobacco.
Check the microphone and coordinate the hotel to start playing background music.
15:00 Supervise the wedding company to arrange the wedding room.
Cooperate with relatives and friends to prepare wedding room supplies: red dates, longan, peanuts, melon seeds, fruit bowls and other items.
16:
Venue, wedding room, poster, sign-in desk, cake, champagne tower, master of ceremonies, carpet, arch, candlestick, gazebo, table seat, cards, cigarettes, wine, etc.
Give the balance to the wedding company (wedding car driver) and ask for a receipt.
Return the groom's ID card and room card after the wedding.
Note: Bring the wedding flow chart, personnel contact table, wedding manager's duty table, vehicle information table, driving route map and guest seating table on the same day.
Matters needing attention of wedding emcee:
1 Make sure that the desk cards, cigarettes and drinks have been put on the table. Make sure the candy is in place. 2 the wedding is carried out with a gun. (Generally, there are three men and three women. Shooters should not choose children, and their costumes should not be too fancy. Try to choose unmarried young men and women. The church should set off firecrackers to tell everyone where they are before the wedding. 3. When the newcomers enter the site, train the flower spreader (if any). 4. After the wedding, stand on the rostrum and pay attention to observation. If there is a child running and shouting to affect the wedding process, it must be stopped, and the method must be stopped. Don't make a hullabaloo about, it's best not to hurt your feelings. In the process of the wedding, if there are guests chatting and talking loudly below, which will affect the wedding process, the manager should intervene appropriately. Confirm and urge the hotel staff to turn off the lights at the wedding. General situation: turn off the lights before the first admission, and turn on the lights after the newcomers take the stage. Turn off the lights before the second candlelight ceremony, and turn on the lights after the couple make a wish. Confirm the wedding prizes and small gifts and give them to the master of ceremonies or supervisor after confirmation. Throughout the wedding process, the key links took the lead and applauded warmly. I hope to adopt it.
3. Marriage customs in northeast cities
Marriage customs in Northeast China
First, the preparation before departure
1, four bride price: divorced mother meat (2 ribs), 2 fish, 4 green onions and 4 vermicelli.
Cover the big well behind the new building with red paper.
3. The bride-to-be wears guest flowers, and the bride and groom corsage and wedding corsage are not worn for the time being.
4. The bride and groom should have even numbers (generally 8 people, 10, 12).
5. The total number of wedding motorcades (excluding video cars) should be doubled (generally 6,8, 10).
Second, to the bride's family.
1, knocking at the door: the groom knocks at the door to ask his mother to open the door and ask his father to open the door (the bride's family can embarrass the groom in the house, but it should not be too long).
2. Recognize relatives: the bride's parents stand at the door to meet the man's relatives, and the groom introduces them to his parents-in-law (starting from the elders). After shaking hands, the two sides entered the room and sat down. The bride's parents and her parents' relatives entertain the man's relatives to eat (commonly known as; Not empty talk or sweet talk).
3. Proposal: The groom kneels to propose to the bride and says a few romantic words that can impress the bride. The bride can embarrass the groom, but not for too long.
4. Wear corsage to each other: The bride and groom wear corsage to each other and take a group photo.
5. The groom changed his mind: the bride's parents sat down and the bride and groom stood facing their parents. The groom officially changed his name to Mom and Dad and made three bows. The groom gave his father a happy cigarette and a piece of candy, and his parents rewarded him with a small change (one for each parent, 100 1 yuan, representing a thousand good sons-in-law). Parents said a few words of exhortation, entrustment and blessing to the future life of the bride and groom.
6, eat noodles: a bowl of noodles and two eggs, the bride and groom eat each other.
7. Changing shoes: usually made by the bride's younger sister (if there is no younger sister, you can change to other E684E8a2ade799BEE5Bae6E97AEE7ad9431337613932 peers or younger relatives). The groom carried the bride into the car, laid a piece of red cloth under the new shoes, and the sister put on the shoes for the bride and put away the old shoes. bridegroom
8. Relatives of both parties get on the bus, parents get on the bus first, and relatives of the man get on the bus later. Empty cars are not allowed. Four bride price gifts brought back half of other items except meat from mother.
Third, the new house:
1. Family recognition: The groom's parents stand at the door to greet the guests of the bride's family, and the bride introduces her relatives to her parents-in-law. After shaking hands, the two sides sat down in the house, and the groom's parents and the man's relatives were responsible for entertaining the guests of the bride's house to eat.
2. The bride changes her mind: the groom's parents sit down, and the bride stands facing her parents. The bride formally changes her mind and asks her parents to bow three times. The bride gives her father a cigarette and her mother a piece of candy. The parents reward the bride for changing her mind (one for each parent, 100 1 yuan, representing a thousand good daughters-in-law). The parents say a few words of advice and advice to the bride and groom in their future lives.
3. Wall clock: generally done by the bride's younger brother (no younger brother is replaced by other peers or younger generations). After hanging the wall clock, the groom rewards his younger brother for hanging the clock, and the younger brother is responsible for taking the clock box back to his mother's house (the clock box cannot be empty, and red envelopes or cigarettes and candy can be put in it).
4. Packaging: It is usually done by the bride's brother (it can be replaced by other brothers of the same age or younger generation), and several coins of one yuan and fifty cents are prepared. How to package them is arranged by the owner.
5. Folding quilts: Generally, two sisters-in-law do it together (no sister-in-law can be replaced by other peers or elders). The man's mouth folds outward and the woman's mouth folds inward. After folding, two sisters-in-law shake hands and take a group photo.
6. Sit on the blessing pad: Prepare to sit on the blessing pad or a piece of red cloth and put it in the middle of the bed. The host will arrange how to sit on the praying platform.
7. Group photo: The bride and groom take a group photo with their relatives in the new house.
Fourth, the wedding ceremony:
1, the host's opening remarks, the wedding March, and the bride and groom entering the ceremony.
2 witness to see the marriage certificate (generally arranged by the introducer or unit leader).
3. Worship parents, guests and couples.
4, the man's wedding speech (the groom's father or mother).
5. make a glass of wine.
6. Speech by the VIP representative of the bride's family.
7. Exchange tokens.
8. Speech by guest representative (unit leader).
9. Speech by the representative of the bride and groom.
10, concluding remarks.
Verb (short for verb) Banquet:
1. The bride attends the banquet: the bride and groom first propose a toast to the guests of the bride's family, and the bride gives cigarettes to the relatives of the bride, and the groom gives cigarettes to the relatives of the bride. After the attendance, the bride's family will get a couple's attendance money as a reward, then the groom's parents will toast the bride's family guests, and the hotel will add dishes to the bride's family.
2. Light a cigarette and propose a toast to other relatives. The order depends on your own situation.
3. Farewell to relatives in the bride's family: The bride and groom took photos with all the VIPs in the bride's family in front of the hotel. Relatives and friends of both sides shake hands to say goodbye (usually the man prepares a car to send the VIPs at home).
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