The existence of dowry is not the only criterion to measure the happiness of marriage. In marriage, husband and wife should respect, support and understand each other, run a family and establish a harmonious and stable family relationship. Therefore, whether dowry is needed or not should be decided by both husband and wife according to their actual situation and cultural traditions. If both sides recognize and respect the tradition of dowry, then the man should try his best to meet the demands of the woman, but if both sides disagree with this tradition, there is no need to ask too much.