Husband and wife are most afraid of parting, and husband and wife are most unfortunate. My sister-in-law and brother are college alumni. After two years of getting along, they decided to fall in love before graduation. In the year of graduation, my brother took his sister-in-law back to his hometown in the countryside. At that time, I was still in high school. Looking at this sister-in-law who grew up in the city, I always feel that she and my brother are not suitable. Despise our rural people and will not get used to our rural environment and life.
This sister-in-law is very sensible and diligent. When I was a guest at home, I not only took the initiative to help my mother pick vegetables, but also cleaned up the dishes after dinner and rushed to wash the dishes with my mother. Although I can't cook a pot, I'm trying to learn from my brother. Watching the young couple talking and laughing made me fantasize about falling in love.
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My parents are satisfied with my future daughter-in-law. One year after graduation, my brother and sister-in-law are old enough to get married. Sister-in-law's parents work in the city and like her brother very much. There are no special requirements before marriage. I hope our family can buy a house in the city for my brother and sister-in-law after marriage.
Such a request is very common in today's marriage, and it is not too much to ask the wedding room to be signed by two brothers and sisters. Parents began to prepare for the down payment of buying a house, and the younger brother also promised his future parents-in-law to buy a wedding room before getting married. I didn't expect my kind and virtuous sister-in-law to have a big fight with her parents about this matter, saying that she shouldn't ask us for a house.
Our family is willing to buy a house for my brother, and also made a down payment. Even so, I didn't buy a house. Sister-in-law insisted on not buying a house and not letting her parents-in-law suffer. Because of this incident, my sister-in-law's parents complained a lot and always said that her daughter was too stupid.
Life after marriage is as sweet as honey, and parents and brothers are obedient to their sisters-in-law. I'm not married in this family, but I seem to be a real outsider. A year later, my lovely nephew was born, which filled the family with laughter.
If there hadn't been a car accident that day, I think our family would be very happy. My sister-in-law had a car accident when she was on a business trip. She left us with a young son because of injury. From the accident to leaving, my sister-in-law didn't say a word, nor did she open her eyes to see her children and family.
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The "new sister-in-law" is not as good as the previous sister-in-law. The cancellation of the wedding at my brother's wedding scene and the departure of my eldest sister-in-law have brought long and indelible pain to my family. My parents secretly cry every time they think about it. Brother and sister-in-law have the deepest feelings. My brother was depressed for a long time because of the departure of his eldest sister-in-law. Fortunately, having a child has restored his depressed mood.
Slowly, life is calm again, but the smile on my brother's face is much less. I put more energy into my parents and children. After graduating from college, I already have my own lover, and I am about to enter the stage of talking about marriage. Seeing my brother come out, I feel that I can safely leave this home.
At first, my brother didn't intend to get married again. He just wants to be filial to his parents and raise his children. Later, under the persuasion of family and friends, my brother also gave up the idea of not getting married again, saying that everything was fate! When I learned from my parents that my brother had a girlfriend, I was very happy and thought about my brother's future life.
At first, I was confused inside. My brother insisted on not getting married a year ago, and I can see that he is still thinking about his sister-in-law. How did you meet a new girlfriend so soon? When I met my "new sister-in-law", I immediately understood the reason.
This "new sister-in-law" looks a bit like the sister-in-law who left, with similar height and hairstyle. From the back, they are like sisters. After several contacts, I feel that although their backs are similar, their hearts are far apart. The new sister-in-law is a few years younger than my brother. Her hometown is in the countryside, but she has a spoiled problem.
The "new sister-in-law" is not enthusiastic about her parents and can't do housework. Even my nephew is friendly only when he is in love with her brother. When the relationship is established and the marriage is ready to talk, the attitude towards the nephew will change. Neither my nephew nor I like her, but my brother insists on getting married, and we can't help it.
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When you get married, you must buy a house in the city according to your parents' requirements and send your nephew to your sister-in-law's parents' house. I feel a little uncomfortable with these two requests, and I have more opinions about this sister-in-law. My brother thought that after the wedding, he would take the children back. But this "new nephew" is not going to do this. He wants his parents to raise his nephew. My brother knows nothing about this idea.
As my own sister, although I don't like the "new sister-in-law", I can only bring my family to congratulate me. The mood was very complicated that day. My mind is full of scenes of my brother and sister-in-law getting married in high school. I was very happy and lively that day. While I was immersed in memories, I heard someone calling my brother's name, looking for fame and finding that my nephew had brought his grandfather. The cry came from my nephew's grandfather.
The old man lost his daughter and became much older after a few years. Seeing my brother's lively wedding scene, my face was ugly. I questioned my brother about such a big thing as getting married, and I didn't discuss it with them. I also sent my children to their home and asked my brother what this meant.
When my brother saw his father-in-law's presence, he cried and knelt before him. His heart was full of guilt and sadness, and he didn't know how to explain it for a moment. My "new sister-in-law", seeing this scene, went straight to my nephew and grandfather and asked them who they were and whether they knew it was extremely immoral to ruin the wedding.
I also told my nephew and grandfather that if I didn't leave, I would call the police. At this point, there is no way to hold a wedding. The woman's face hung, and her brother and parents were full of guilt. The guests present were also full of curiosity, and everything was like a TV series moving to the scene of life.
Finally, my brother announced the cancellation of the wedding. This news also made the bride's family feel an unprecedented teasing, which completely cut off the contacts between the two families.
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Conclusion: Don't be confused, but it still needs careful consideration and comprehensive consideration. This matter has passed, but its influence has not been eliminated. My brother didn't do things well himself, so he offended both parents at the same time. The parents of the former sister-in-law thought that their daughter married the wrong person and refused to forgive her brother. On the new sister-in-law's side, because my brother canceled the wedding on the spot, the family was very embarrassed and hated my brother.
As a younger sister, I talked to my brother about these things before he got married. But my brother always thought that he had no face to communicate with his ex-sister-in-law's parents, which was an embarrassing scene on the wedding day. If my brother can visit his sister-in-law's parents more and listen to their opinions when he arrives in a new place, maybe this will not happen.
In our work and life, when we do things, we also need to think carefully. Don't be confused about big things and avoid putting yourself in a dilemma.