I come from Ganyu. First of all, I want to advise you that your feelings have reached the point of talking about marriage, so don't be easily disturbed by external factors. Don't be like this ... Besides, customs in different regions will definitely be different. It is suggested that both parents meet, take a step back and take care of each other. You both advised your parents. You should also understand them. After all, getting married is a big expense for a rural family. Who doesn't want to spend less? Although our custom is different from what his family said, I think the most important thing is the relationship between two people. You two should also discuss it. Love can't be bought with money! Finally, I wish you a long life together ...