If a lover buys something for his wife and doesn't buy it for you, it means he doesn't love you enough. If I really love you, at least I will buy you anything for my wife. I really love someone and want to give her the best. Love you, he will always feel that he has not given you enough! This kind of man just eats a bowl and looks at the pot. Selfish! Love a person should have three elements. First, with enough time, everyone's time is precious. Will not be wasted on unnecessary people. Second, the emotional input, he will please you attentively, pay attention to you, love you, be true and sincere. Third, where a man spends his money, his heart is there. I am willing to spend money for you. I hope you live a happy life. These three conditions are indispensable. Without that, it is not true love. One more thing, that is, I promise to plan your future and make you feel practical and reliable. In fact, if you really want to find someone who can be responsible for you, don't find someone with a family. Don't be a third party! Find someone who can walk on the street with you aboveboard, be honest and open, and hold hands with you aboveboard! Don't waste your limited time, energy and feelings on someone who doesn't deserve your love. You deserve a sincere and sincere love. If you don't expect the result, let it go! That must not be a good relationship. Finally scarred, nothing! I have delayed my happiness and youth, and it's too late to regret it. A lover bought many things for his wife. A man doesn't want to spend money on a mistress. 1. Men are reluctant to spend money on mistresses: Do men really love you? A writer once said that men can only give women two things, one is time and the other is money. If he doesn't have a good job and money because he is with you, then he loves you. If he doesn't have time to accompany you in his normal work and doesn't give money, I'm sorry he doesn't love you. After all, talking about girlfriends is cheaper without spending money. 2. Men are reluctant to spend money on mistresses: Why men are reluctant to spend money on mistresses? First, because they have no money, and second, they feel it is unnecessary. When you get what you want, a man's love is the satisfaction that you conquer first. Men never give money to their mistresses. 3. Men don't want to spend money on San Xiao: Why do men want to spend money on San Xiao, but they don't want to spend money on their wives, but she doesn't want to spend money on their wives! You can't see where the money comes from. It was squeezed out of the tiger's teeth. 4. Men are unwilling to spend money on mistresses: Are men willing to spend money on mistresses? Often, people who ask for help come to consult with resentment towards their mistresses. They listed the various "evil deeds" of Xiao San and showed the endless tricks of Xiao San. I hope we can provide more coup to crack down on Xiao San. Is there really a trick to separate mistresses? "Teacher, I really didn't tell her anything. Please help me! " Looking at Xiaoya, a tearful helper, and browsing the information provided by Xiaoya, even Gu Fei, a well-informed teacher, had to admit that Xiaoya's husband cheated on a very smart mistress with high emotional intelligence. Why don't men feel bad about spending money on mistresses? First of all, Xiao San is very patient. Xiaoya's husband and San Xiao have known each other for several years, and they have been having an affair for four years. There are four or six calls every day. They often drive to remote places to chat and date. When they are on a business trip together, their husbands will also reserve a seat for San Xiao beside him. However, it is in this intimate relationship that San Xiao is not in a hurry to "force the palace", but let their feelings gradually warm up. Secondly, Xiao San is good at maintaining their feelings. San Xiao often posts love words like "I miss you" and "I love you" in the circle of friends, and sets them in a state that only husbands can see, thus creating a private space exclusively for them. Extramarital men are reluctant to spend money on mistresses. * *, mistress knows how to hold her husband's heart. Although they have been cheating for four years, they have nothing to say like lovers in love. On the other hand, Xiaoya basically doesn't reply to her husband's text messages. The husband even told Xiaoya directly that his heart was no longer with Xiaoya, and their marriage had long lost love, which made Xiaoya's heart suffer a great blow. During the affair, Xiaoya didn't try to break them up, but it made Xiaoya a problem in her husband's eyes. On the contrary, it deepened the affection between her husband and San Xiao and made Xiaoya desperate. Xiaoya, who has repeatedly failed, finally realized that she was no match for San Xiao on her own. Xiaoya, who had nothing to do, began to seek professional help. Teacher Gu Fei was found by Xiaoya after thousands of selections. Is it true love for mistress to spend money on her husband? Why are men reluctant to spend money on their wives? It's smart, but it's not inseparable. Xiaoya's failure has always been to pay too much attention to how to separate San Xiao, but the real way to separate San Xiao is not her husband or San Xiao, but Xiaoya himself. After careful analysis, Mr. Gu Fei concluded that Xiaoya's problem was that she gave up her independence as a woman after marriage and did not seek further development in her work and life. On the other hand, my husband has been working hard after marriage. After being promoted again and again, he found that his wife who stood still had no common topic at all. In order to relieve the pressure in my heart, my husband can only have a three-way joke with his colleagues in the same job. Over time, he cheated on me. Xiaoya always wanted to separate San Xiao, but she couldn't fill San Xiao's place in her husband's heart, which led to the embarrassing marriage situation of the two couples. After clarifying the crux of the problem, Mr. Gu Fei and the emotional team behind him made a series of plans for Xiaoya to help her grow up quickly and find her independence and charm as a woman. Xiaoya also learned in Gu Fei's emotional management class not to focus on her husband and mistress, but to think about how to improve herself, how to dress herself up and face her husband Xiaoya as a mature woman. She not only regained her charm and self-confidence as a woman, but also won the admiration of her colleagues. Accordingly, her husband's attitude towards Xiaoya not only increased their communication, but also her husband often praised Xiaoya's maturity and generosity. The relationship between them soon warmed up and got along well, and San Xiao naturally disappeared. Gemini men are willing to spend money on mistresses. The lover bought many things for his wife. 3 why don't you want to spend money on mistress? I take risks with my lover. He keeps saying that he loves me, but he is stingy with his money. There are also some single women who say that I don't want to ruin his marriage. I just want to be his lover quietly, but when he is in trouble with money, he is either perfunctory or crying. What's going on here? Every time I receive such a private letter, I am really speechless. A married woman cheated on her husband without remorse or shame. For those single women who are men's lovers, why can't they talk about a love? If you persist in such depravity, you will regret it in the future. And those men who engage in extramarital affairs, regardless of their wives' feelings, mercilessly trample on their dignity. In the long run, something will be caught one day, and it will be too late to regret it. How can an immoral relationship ask the other party to give you money? Look at what these three men have said, and you will naturally understand why they are unwilling to spend money on their lovers. Mr. Dong: I don't think any man who has an affair is willing to spend money on his lover. They are just companions when men are lonely and bored, and even if they like them, they are only temporary. I once had a lover who spent less than 8,000 yuan on a * * * for more than two years. I started following her when I asked her. After I got it, it cost almost nothing. Sometimes she even gives me money to buy clothes. Her purpose is obvious. Knowing that my income is high, I want to catch big fish in the long run. When I can't live without her, I will find a lion to cheat me of my money. She got the wrong person. I won't even give her small money, let alone big money. I am a very rational person. No matter how fragrant wild flowers are, they are not as practical as home flowers. Sooner or later, I will go back to my family. Being together for free is equivalent to making money. It is foolish to give her money. Mr. Lian: I had two lovers, both married women. I don't want to be single, for fear that one day I can't get away, ruin my family and get myself into trouble. Finding a married woman has two advantages. First, each of us has a family, and we have grasped each other's weaknesses, and no one dares to make a move. Second, each of us takes what we need and spends less. But this kind of woman will only get along for three years at most, and after a long time, she will show her fox's tail. They will measure whether their contribution is in direct proportion to their income. My first lover spent a year and a half with me and broke up with me on his own initiative. I didn't feel fresh at that time and didn't want to let go. She asked me for money at once. I think I'd better forget it. If I spend money, I might as well find a big girl. Who wants a semi-old Xu Niang like you? The second lover lived together for three years, and she separated from her husband, which was really what they needed. The first two years were pretty good. In the third year, I asked for gifts from time to time. I bought two gifts and spent less than 1000 yuan. Later, when I asked for money, I broke up directly. My money is only for my children and my wife, and my lover is just the spice of my life. I can't do it if I spend a lot of money on them. Mr. Huo: I have been with my lover for more than five years, and I spent about 10 thousand points. I told my lover that since you are a lover, it's no fun not to talk about money. The money I spent on her was not a direct gift, but a Valentine's Day gift, and it seems that I paid the phone bill twice. If a man spends a lot of money on his lover, this behavior is stupid. She can be your lover, which shows that she is not a pure woman. Why do you have to throw money into the water and listen to the noise? I am not stingy, but spend my money on the cutting edge. What can you get by investing money in your lover? You can't be with me forever, you must be afraid. What if you give me too much money to pester me? Don't get yourself into trouble. Therefore, don't play with their true feelings, but also grasp your own money bag, and you can still have a lover without spending a penny. That's skill. Conclusion: Men who have extramarital affairs are selfish. He loves neither anyone nor his wife. He only loves himself, and everything he does is considered from his own perspective. Lover is the spice of their boring life, to meet his physical and mental needs, his wife helps him prop up the rear camp, and he only enjoys that one. But those lovers naively think that as long as they give their true feelings and get along for a long time, they will be moved and will help them when they encounter difficulties. It's a pity that your every move has long been seen through by an extramarital man. The Monkey King is already in the hands of the Tathagata, but he has no idea. Men who have extramarital affairs and don't want to spend money on their lovers are generally these three kinds of psychology. 1. Do you want to buy the same product at a high price, or spend less or not? Of course, free is the first choice, followed by less money, and the big price must be worth the money. A man who has an affair needs a lover. If they can get a long-term lover relationship with little money, they are willing to pay false tenderness and love. They have never really loved their lover, and everything they say is false, but many women are possessed and can't get out. You know, where is a man's money, his heart is there, and he keeps saying that he loves you, but in fact, they only love themselves. 2. A man with unworthy extramarital affairs is rational, and his wife and lover can never be at the same level. Even if he doesn't love his wife and the relationship between husband and wife is not good, he won't put his lover in his heart. They regard their lovers as fashionable clothes and accessories to decorate their boring life. If they spend a lot of money to get it, they might as well buy gold and silver, which has room for appreciation. 3. Using Psychology Everyone knows that there is no free lunch in this world, and men who have extramarital affairs certainly know it, but what they grasp is that women like romantic and gentle psychology. As long as they work hard enough, even if they work hard, they can achieve their goals at no cost or even less. So most of the men who have extramarital affairs are married women, and they can get what they need without spending any money. At most, they occasionally buy a small gift of 180 yuan, and spend 3,200 yuan for dinner, and the woman gets it. No matter what a man's psychology is after an affair. It is wrong to betray your marriage. Your wife gives birth to your child, but you are selfish and the flag is flying outside. Can you live up to your wife? I was lucky enough to do whatever I wanted, and the scandal was exposed and it went away. Don't say that a good relationship with your lover will not destroy your family. Even if not, isn't there an airtight wall in this world? Those women who are men's lovers should wake up. If you are a married woman, think about your children. What will happen if he knows about you? Don't use your ignorance to challenge dangerous things. It is impossible to expect a man who has an affair to pay true love and money. They're not stupid. Those single women who are involved in other people's marriages, find a single man to talk about love, is it not good? If you insist on having an affair with a man, you will regret it one day. Immoral things will not be blessed, but will only attract people's spit, and be yourself honestly.