As parents, they all hope that their daughter will marry her husband's family, and will not be wronged and be respected by her husband's family. Marriage seems to be an extra piece of preparation for a girl's happiness. It seems that with this, the girl's marriage can be happier and happier.
Therefore, no matter whether the family condition is good or average, parents will give it within their ability, and there is no standard measure because the family situation is different.
Some parents get married for 50,000 yuan, but it's already the maximum capacity. Maybe there are so many at home, and some give 65438+ 10,000, and 200,000 may be very easy. As a daughter, you must be grateful and make it clear to your husband.
Marriage happiness has little to do with money, but mutual support and respect are the most important.
It also depends on local customs, that is, "what do people usually do?" Secondly, it depends on the strength of the bride's family. For example, if a gambling king in Macao marries his daughter, it will cost hundreds of millions to get married. It should be noted that the dowry in the traditional sense is the woman's personal property, and now it is called premarital property, and the husband's family has no right to dispose of it.
Generally speaking, if your family is not particularly short of money and parents don't want their daughters to get married to make money, they will add some money to the bride price as your dowry. As for how much money to add, we should give consideration to both face and risk. The so-called face is "don't let my in-laws look down on my daughter", so try to add as much as possible; The so-called risk is that divorce is allowed in modern society. If a girl lacks principles and risk awareness after marriage, the misappropriation of dowry by her husband's family may cause personal losses.
Therefore, how much money to get married is inconclusive, so don't take it too seriously. After marriage, you only need to remember two things: don't give up economic independence and rely on men to earn money to support your family; Don't treat children as private property, but encourage men to take care of them more. As long as these two points are achieved, nothing else is a problem.
The point is a happy marriage and a happy family.