You are stupid enough, how can you talk about changing other people's things? Do you still expect her to tell me to send them to my house? But congratulations, after listening to what you said, she has feelings for you, which means you still have a chance! Women and men have different feelings. She has invested so much that it is not so easy to lose it all. But you should get rid of your past problems, especially gambling! This is the premise. If you really change, she will really accept you. You are in the same unit now, don't push her too hard. You don't just know the person you are talking to. You should behave well and work first, and you'd better let others tell her about your kindness. Go to her house to help on holidays, don't stay too long, leave after work, and let her family think that you have become better, then she can't run away from you! There is a message for you. Happiness is never too poor to love the rich, nor will it be vigorous. She only belongs to those who know how to cherish and lead a plain life!