I don't think it necessary to hold a party for the birthday party. I think it's just for the gift money. In some places, when the elderly reach the age of 70 or 80, their children will hold a banquet and invite the whole village to dinner. You only need your children and grandchildren to celebrate their birthdays, and there is no need to invite the whole village to dinner. There is also a school banquet, where friends and relatives are invited to dinner when they are admitted to the university, and the gift money given by the school banquet is relatively high. Just admitted to the university, there is no need to set 30 or 40 tables.
There is also a full moon for their children, and some people will also hold banquets. What is the purpose of their banquet? Is it to let everyone celebrate the child's full moon? I don't think so. It should also be a pure gift. How long has it been since I got married and held a banquet a year ago? Making a banquet for the child's full moon again? There are all kinds of banquets in the countryside, so some people will say that your watchdog will give a banquet even if he gives birth to a son of a bitch. This kind of remark is a satire on those who like to hold banquets.
There are also people who have moved to a new house for banquets. I don't think this kind of party is necessary at all. It's just a gift. Some banquets are necessary, for example, when the old man dies, everyone will send him the last journey. And get married, let everyone witness their happiest moment together.
Therefore, the practice of not hosting banquets is also advocated now. If you have anything good, just get together with your family and have a few drinks. There is no need to make such a big scene. Do you think what I said makes sense?