The reporter interviewed a number of authentic Quzhou people, and the wedding etiquette was similar. Sweet couples who are ready to get married can know in advance ~
? Ancestor worship?
The day before the wedding, the bride and groom went home and waited for the wedding the next day.
On the wedding day, before the man goes out to marry the bride, he worships his ancestors at home and prays for a safe and smooth wedding process. ?
? Wedding car escort?
In Quzhou, the number of people and the number of people holding weddings are generally even, and most people like a group of eight cars, 10 cars.
12 and other auspicious or special vehicles are used as the wedding motorcade.
The first car is the lead car, and the photographer mainly sits in this car. The bride's car is usually arranged in the second car. The decoration of this car is generally decorated with flowers, and other vehicles are just simple decorative foil.
? Comb your hair?
"When you sort it out, you don't have to worry about wealth; Two combs to the end, no disease and no worry; Three combs to the end, many children live long; Comb it in the end, and then quote Qi Mei ... "On the wedding day, when the bride gets up and dresses up, the mother or the blessed elder will comb her hair and say some blessings.
? Wedding ceremony?
When the groom goes to marry the bride, he arrives at the front of the bride's house about 100 meters. It is necessary to salute as a notice. When the woman's family hears it, they will know that the groom is coming, and they will also point a salute to respond and prepare for the man's motorcade (firecrackers are forbidden in urban areas, and ribbons are used instead).
? Rushing to the door to please?
Generally speaking, the groom has to go through two doors to see the bride.
After arriving at the bride's house, some relatives and representatives of the bride's family will stop the groom's reception team at home to please. The groom usually rushes into the first door with cigarettes, candy, red envelopes and other gifts prepared in advance.
The second door is the bride's door. At this time, the bride's sister or close female friend will stop the groom, not only to please, but also to let the groom pass the test before opening the door to meet the bride.
Tea ceremony?
The bride and groom burn incense to worship their ancestors, and the newlyweds on both sides should offer tea to their parents and thank them for their kindness in raising them. At this time, the bride's parents will tell the couple how to get along after marriage.
? Bride boarding ceremony?
Generally, the bride's aunt, aunt and other female elders hold bamboo curtains above the bride's head to escort the bride on the bus. The bride is usually carried by her brother or groom at home. In this process, the bride's feet can't touch the ground.
? Return shooting ceremony?
The groom's motorcade is going to start with a salute, and the woman's family is also firing a salute to show good luck and avoid evil spirits. Departure and return will go in different directions, symbolizing no turning back.
It is not allowed to change the salute to ribbon in the same city.
? Step on the tiles and cross the brazier?
Tiles and braziers should be placed in front of the groom's door. The bride should remember to use her right foot when stepping on the tiles, and then cross the brazier after stepping on the tiles.
Passing the brazier means making the husband's family more and more prosperous.
? Husband and wife worship?
Then there is the traditional custom: one worships heaven and earth, the other worships Gaotang, and the husband and wife worship each other. After the ceremony, send the bride and groom back to their new houses.
According to the traditional custom, the groom lifts the bride's veil and the two drink a toast.
Nowadays, most people get married with sweet soup made of longan and lotus seeds, which symbolizes the early birth of your son.
After reading this article, newlyweds who are about to get married can also talk to their elders about the interesting things when they got married.
Then make a list of the etiquette and customs of your upcoming wedding, which are worthy of attention and reminder, and which can be omitted?
There is no doubt that marriage is the most important moment in life. On the wedding day, everyone will get God's blessing, so that sweetness, joy, happiness and happiness will accompany you all your life.
Zhou Xiaoli, reporter of Qubao Media Group? Editor in charge: Chen
This article is taken from interesting treasure media and edited again by angel night himself, such as invasion and deletion.