Sending the date, also known as seeing the date, communicating with the sun, sending well, talking, sending messages to the woman, asking questions, giving gifts, checking the date and sending wedding cards, was an invitation in ancient times. The date of invitation was originally only the date of the wedding chosen by the man and asked the woman to agree. In some places in Shandong, the bride price is also given at the same time.

Juancheng, ask for a companion

It is divided into three steps: good, optimistic and good, which is more representative. It is best to choose an auspicious day before marriage, such as February 2, April 8 and June 6. The matchmaker will go to the woman's house to ask for her zodiac sign. The woman's home is written on a red note? Kun Ming? Item? Month? Day? A stranger? Give it to the matchmaker and take it back to the man's house. According to the woman's birthday, the man asked someone to choose the wedding date in Yue Ji, which is considered promising. Optimism is mainly to find out the location of the wedding month, auspicious day and XiShen, and at the same time calculate the taboos of those who greet their relatives in the zodiac. There used to be many songs to sing along with, such as Calculation.

Wedding moon song

? Welcome chickens, rabbits, tigers, monkeys, snakes, pigs, dragons, dogs, cattle, sheep, rats and horses. ? What's the taboo song for seeing the bride off? Chen Zi applied to avoid snakes, chickens, cows, tigers, horses, dogs, pigs, rabbits and sheep in the afternoon, and Hai Mao avoided dragons, rats and monkeys. ? Generally, two auspicious days are chosen, one in the first half of the month and the other in the second half of the month, which are determined by the woman's family to avoid her menstrual period. I will write a marriage certificate and send it to my wife's house when I choose an auspicious day. This is a good pass.

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Second, what do you need to bring on the wedding day?

? Send? It is not only a good day to send a wedding, but also a dowry for the woman. Most of the bride price is red shirts, blue coats, rings, pendants, belts and so on. , wrapped in a red bag with cypress branches, taken? Longevity Meaning. Linqing called it? Inspection date? The man confirms the wedding date and formally informs the woman. Attached? Wedding invitation? (common name? Top post? ), write the bride's dress, dress, the direction and time of getting on and off the sedan chair. In Laiyang and Mu equally, the delivery day is also called Tongri, and the man's family also sends colored coins as the dowry of the woman's family. ? Tongri? Must be completed in the bimonthly forty days before the wedding. Since then, the woman has been staying at home, ready to get married.

When Laiyang is in Japan, the man will also make a big cake and send it to the woman's house, and the woman will return the big birthday peach. Rizhao asked questions and gave gifts. The man gave the bride a bride price. The woman's gift is simple, but the new son-in-law's shoes and hats are indispensable in the gift. Therefore, people call the hat worn by the new son-in-law "? Father's hat. Sunshine is also known as the ceremony that combines the opening ceremony with the next ceremony. A box? . Lubei area is called Xiapogang, which should be issued at the same time. Floor money? As a dowry for the woman. After the book was issued, it was convenient for the woman to arrange the dowry, the man had to clean up the new house, and relatives and friends began to send wedding gifts. The wedding gift for the man's family is usually in? Color? As a unit, a pair of chickens, a knife of meat, a pair of fish and two pounds of vermicelli can all be counted as gifts of one color. Of course, there are also gifts and wedding accounts (six-foot HongLing or red cloth and printed cloth). Marriage accounts are usually given to the man's parents. Write it on your head Your honor, your son's happiness? , account heart to write? A match made in heaven? 、? Husband and wife and Ming? 、? Lucky dragon and phoenix? A eulogy like this, a signature? Congratulations? . The number of happy accounts shows the quality of married families, and relatives and friends of rich families send happy accounts. What is it called to send a wedding present to the woman who is going to get married? Fill the box? , or do it? Add box? , also called what? Add pollen? Generally, we will give some things for women to use after marriage, such as clothes, bedding, cloth and so on. , and give money, what is this called? The money in the cupboard? But the most is to send fruit boxes. The fruit box is a square wooden box, which can hold half a catty to a catty of cakes, mostly sweets and persimmons. Good cakes and fruit boxes are put in the cupboard for the bride and groom to enjoy on their wedding night, while ordinary food is put in the box for the bride to kowtow to her elders after marriage. Wedding gifts should be recorded in the ledger, commonly known as? Hi, book? , in case of reciprocate in the future. No matter what kind of wedding gift, we should pay attention to auspiciousness, and we should not send articles with indecent tone, such as bells (tails), pears (leaves) and satin (broken). In some places, after the delivery date, it is customary to give gifts to women to be married. Top？ .

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Third, netizens share what to bring on the wedding day.

@4 1034**

Bring a pond and cigarettes, set off firecrackers at the door, have dinner with two families and give gifts.

@ha59 1**

We call it good news. . I seem to have invited my wife's relatives to have dinner with my relatives. My parents want to give red envelopes to the children of my wife's relatives.

@ Apple * *

My husband goes to my house for dinner. It seems that I didn't bring anything, saying that I would set off firecrackers, but my dad wouldn't let me ~ said I didn't pay attention ~ I found my house really careless when I looked upstairs. .

@ Anxin * *

Sometimes people don't want to pay attention, so grandparents leave these traditional rules. I don't want to focus on myself. There are too many people gossiping at the door. You'll say nothing will happen in the man's house, right? Usually you take four or six kinds to the woman's house to set off firecrackers.

Ugliness is * *

Hardware and gifts, right?

@ Vogue * *

Bring more nutrition. See if father likes drinking or smoking. How easy it is to be polite. Ha ha laugh