Whether the bride price should be given to parents depends on the financial strength of their families. Parents need to invest a lot of money to give their children a beautiful wedding. So I think if the family's economic strength is average, we can consider giving the meeting gift to our parents to prepare.
Let me tell you something about the engagement.
First, the choice of meeting place.
1, home page
Generally speaking, it is a respect for the woman's family to ask the man to visit her home automatically. If the two sides pass by, there is no doubt that they will choose to meet at the man's house. Meeting at home will bring the two sides closer and make them more intimate. And there will be no interruptions when eating, more like a group of us enjoying the beautiful scenery together. Personally, I think it is most appropriate to organize meetings at home if conditions permit.
2. restaurants
Need to choose a restaurant to meet, need a separate private room. The address is chosen by the woman first, and then by the man if the woman is at will. When meeting outside, the man usually pays the bill, and there is also demand for the overall environment and dishes of the restaurant. The restaurant you choose is relatively quiet, the dishes are exquisite, and the taste of the dishes should be mainly women. The boy asked his girlfriend about her family's taboos and was polite and considerate.
3. Hotel
Choosing a hotel to meet and clarify the marriage of the couple has now been put on the agenda. Be able to choose a hotel to hold a wedding. After the meeting, parents of both sides can also visit the hotel on the spot and make a decision on the spot. You can also comment on some substantive issues and division of labor in the wedding.
4. Teahouses and cafes
Newcomers who choose cafes or tea rooms for their parents' parties are pursuing the quality of life, and they need a comfortable environment to communicate. Quiet environment, long music flowing like water, meeting in such an environment is a very pleasant job, and both parents will be very comfortable.
Second, the precautions when mom and dad meet
1, early foil
It is best for couples to meet and get together with their parents, and always insist on outstanding contact, so that it will be easier and smoother for both parents to meet.
Step 2 reach a tacit understanding
Before their parents meet, the couple will discuss with their parents first. If they find that the opinions of both sides are in a balanced state, they should be ventilated before their parents meet to achieve certain consistency and preparation, and they should have a certain tacit understanding before their parents meet for the first time. Let's talk about the love of both parents first, and then get to the point when we get to know each other. Don't go straight to the point at the beginning. In addition, some detailed figures are not convenient to mention, and some words can be quoted to express them, such as "I hope the wedding will be decent." Answer key questions clearly, don't be shy, and be down-to-earth.
3. Preventing conflicts
If both parents are lovers, or even have conflicts, both husband and wife should mediate in time, calm the atmosphere and seek solutions calmly. When parents meet, it is clear that this marriage has also attracted the attention of both parents, so we should work hard to complete it, treat our parents well and prevent conflicts.
Step 4 comment
It's already a meeting between parents to get married, and the wedding is of course the focus of comments. For example, the decoration of the house, which new houses are bought by men (women), the payment of bride price, the conclusion of the wedding date, the relatives attending the banquet, the local customs of men (women) and so on. A lot of trivia about wedding preparations is to be commented on. In fact, these work matters should be communicated between men and women and their parents, not decided by a meeting, but the intentions of both sides.
5. After-dinner entertainment
Although it is a family meeting between the two sides, we will comment on some substantive topics, but we must get to know each other and enhance our understanding before we can become in-laws. Newcomers can plan some entertainment activities after the meeting, let their parents participate together and end the meeting in a relaxed and happy atmosphere.
Third, the father and mother of both sides meet to give gifts.
1, the most traditional gift: alcohol, tobacco, ham, oil, fish and sugar ham has always been a good gift for guests, especially in our traditional dowry.
2, the smallest gift: excellent tea or coffee Some parents with petty bourgeoisie love to drink coffee and love tea, so it is most appropriate to choose some excellent tea or coffee.
3, the most affordable gift: supermarket lunch card is afraid that the bulk gift will not be liked by the other party, you can attach a supermarket lunch card, which is both affordable and not as direct as money.
4, the most beautiful gift: flowers Many parents looking for quality days like flowers, gorgeous colors and fresh fragrance can make them put it down and fall in love at first sight.
5, the most intimate gift: warm sweater songs in late winter and early spring, pay attention to keep warm, send a sweater or wool scarf to the older generation, so that they can always feel their intimacy is also a good choice.
6, the safest ceremony: health care products and fruits If you don't know the love of each other's parents, sending health care products and fruits is the simplest mistake, and the key is still in your mind.
7, the most worthy of preservation ceremony: jewelry to buy an elegant pearl collar or jade bracelet for the mother, not only the atmosphere, but also set off the noble temperament of the mother, is a treasure worth preserving.
8, the most beautiful gift: skin care products for each other's parents is one of the more affordable practices. Choosing pearl powder, suitable skin care products or cosmetics is a good way to please beautiful mothers.
Modern people are very open-minded, and the betrothal ceremony is only a reflection of one's thoughts. No matter what the purpose of the meeting ceremony is and who it is given to, it is a happy transmission. Please pay attention to the matters needing attention of the engagement party I introduced to you. I hope everyone can have their own satisfactory wedding!