Besides the gift of one millionth, there are three pieces of gold, gold necklace, gold ring, gold earrings or gold bracelet. Then there is a red envelope from the woman. Ask them how many people will send her, and wrap the red envelopes for them directly in advance. And the money for getting on and off the sedan chair. Discuss the specific amount with the other party. Not much. That's all. Then the banquet. If the woman doesn't have many people to give them. When friends get married, the woman has six tables. The man didn't ask the woman to pay. But this is negotiable, there are no specific rules. Nothing else. Keep asking questions if you have anything. good luck