The day before the wedding, the man's representative will come to the woman's house to visit relatives, and there should be dates, peanuts, longan and lotus seeds, which means "having children early". The groom must go, but he can't see the bride. The man's representative must explain the road map to the woman's family (the route to and from cannot be repeated, that is, there can be no turning back)

On the wedding day, the man will go to the woman's house to marry the bride. The woman's house should have a coffin to hide the bride's red shoes in advance. It is also one of the ways for the man's family to call the door and the woman's family to ask the man's family for a red envelope. When the door is opened, the man will look for shoes. If he can't find them, he will bribe the bridesmaids with money. After the red shoes are found, the groom should make a true confession to the bride.

Then, give tea to the woman's parents, bow, and recognize relatives from the woman's family.

Go back to the door the next day.