It stands to reason that it is a very good thing for the elderly to have their own hobbies after retirement, and their children will also support them. However, for 57-year-old Aunt Wu, he likes singing. After retirement, he joined the community's elderly choir. Just as the choir held a group tour, they went out for a farmhouse tour. Unexpectedly, this trip frightened him and said that he would never go again.
What happened to Aunt Wu? Why did he send out such feelings? We continue to look down.
I have been idle at home since I retired at the age of 55. I always feel that I have nothing to do every day. I almost open my eyes in the morning and stay at home. Because my wife hasn't retired, I feel bored alone. My children are married, and I have my own family. I have nothing to do all day. I feel decadent, too. I always want to quarrel with my wife.
Later, my wife asked me to find something to kill time so that I wouldn't be bored at home. Later, a friend about my age suddenly told me that he invited me to join the old choir in the community. Because we are good friends and live in a community at the same time, I feel very good at her suggestion, because I like singing since I was a child, and because I didn't have the conditions when I was a child, I only sang a song at home occasionally.
When I was in the company, I attended various parties held by the company. And won many awards. A friend knows me very well. She knew I liked singing, but when she found me, I didn't agree at first. I think if I go out to sing when I am older, maybe others can sing better than me, and then I feel embarrassed. I didn't expect her to insist on letting me try. The most important thing is that my friend said that she can go with me, and everyone has something for each other.
I find it boring to stay at home every day. I might as well go to the choir with her. The choir is near the community and close to me. The most important thing is that I personally like singing, and I feel very happy with my peers, which gives me psychological comfort. When I discussed with my husband, he also agreed that I should find a hobby to enrich myself and have time to spend with me when he retires.
So I will go to the choir with my friends every day and practice my voice occasionally. Later, I was told that the choir in our community would hold various activities to enrich our daily life. Later, the choir said it would organize a farm trip. They told us that there is a tourist farmhouse nearby, which is very suitable for the elderly to go out to play, and the scenery there is beautiful, so they can go out to play.
When I first received this notice, I also wanted to take part in this activity. I haven't traveled for a long time, and it's good to travel around, so I prepared in advance and dressed up specially, which will make the photos look better.
As this is an activity organized by the choir, there are subsidies for the elderly. We don't need extra travel expenses or even travelling expenses, we just need to pay for the accommodation at night. At that time, there was no full-time driver to take our group, and a tour guide introduced us to the scenic spots along the way. I enjoyed the whole trip.
When I arrived at my destination, I found that the scenery was more beautiful than I expected, and it was green everywhere. Because I have been living in a big city, I am used to seeing high-rise buildings. I haven't seen this pastoral scenery for a long time. I feel very shocked and surprised. Our entourage also prepared a tent so that everyone can play on the lawn and rest in the tent when they are tired. I felt like a young man, full of vigor and vitality. We had a good time all day. I thought I would try again with my wife after she retired.
There is a fellow villager in our choir who likes taking pictures very much and has good photography skills. He took many beautiful photos for us for a long time and didn't come out to play. Thank you very much for the tour group providing us with such an opportunity.
At noon, we went to a farmhouse with the tour guide to eat Chinese food. They told me that all the ingredients here are natural and pollution-free, even the vegetables are grown by themselves, and there are many chickens and ducks in their backyard. They also showed us around their greenhouse. When we were eating, I felt that the food was really much more delicious than what we usually ate. This taste is instant, but the vegetables we usually buy in the market taste very different.
At that time, we planned to travel for two days and one night, so we stayed at the farmhouse that night, because there was a place to provide accommodation. A house could accommodate many people, but there were also separate rooms, but the cost was more expensive. As we are both old people, we discussed how many people can live in a house, which can save money.
My friend with me said that she had gone out early this afternoon. I didn't expect to call me when I was going to bed in the middle of the night and say that she is in some trouble now. I asked her where she was and she told me to go at once. When I heard her voice on the other end of the phone, I felt very scared. I don't know what happened to her. Because it was too late, I dared not go out alone and called the other two.
After I went, I found a man next to my friend. This man is a member of our tour group. He is lying in bed and can't move. I quickly asked what was going on. My friend told me that it might be too hot today. He suffered from heatstroke. He called me because I am a retired medical worker and can help them.
Judging from the man's symptoms, he didn't have heatstroke at all. Later, according to my experience, I gave him first aid and then called 120 to take him to the hospital. Fortunately, the rescue was timely, otherwise the consequences would be unimaginable.
Due to the negligence of the choir, this sudden situation of the players will really have some unbearable consequences if they are not rescued in time. After this incident, I told my husband about it when I went back. My husband told me not to go out to join the choir in the future. You might as well do something you like at home. People and things outside are too complicated now.
Old people are slow to respond, and some people are simple-minded. It is inevitable that you will encounter some things outside. Fortunately, things were discovered in time that day and people were saved. Otherwise, we dare not think about it. My husband also promised me that he would accompany me to travel when he retired, and I was not allowed to go out alone with others, also for my safety.
In fact, many kinds of elderly activities are mainly for the physical and mental health of the elderly. In fact, some people are just for the benefit. They cheat the old people through emotional communication. As an old man, they should also know how to distinguish. Don't be deceived, or the consequences will be unimaginable.