"Life is like a gorgeous robe, full of lice." Nineteen-year-old Zhang Ailing wrote this sentence in her genius dream. Remember that perfection in life is unattainable, and reconcile with inevitable shortcomings.

In love, we pursue perfection and hope to find the dream lover, but the reality often fails. If choosing a spouse is an exam, it seems that no man in the world can reach the standard in his own examination room. Perhaps, this is my own pursuit of perfection.

Learn to lower your standards in love and reconcile with yourself and your lover, so that life will be gentle, let yourself go and give up some unnecessary demands. Think about what shortcomings you can accept. Try to look at the problem from the other person's point of view, and learn to appreciate the beauty of the other person, especially those parts that are ignored in daily life. When quarreling, think about these advantages of the other party, and your anger will be reduced by more than half.

In marriage, we should also learn to reconcile with the disappointments around us. Resolve conflicts with goodwill and warm people's hearts. Light up your day with love, we can't have such good luck all the time, but we have a sunny attitude and good feelings, and there is nothing we can't pass. On the contrary, we are more likely to get God's blessing and send us a good man to grow old together.

Hu Yue is a poor rural girl. She gritted her teeth from the ravine and was admitted to a famous school in Shanghai. Simplicity and willingness to endure hardships moved classmate Xiao Zhi, and they got married after graduation.

Xiao Zhi is in a foreign company and travels frequently. Couples may not see each other several times in a few months. Hu Yue usually stays with her mother-in-law after work.

Hu Yue's mother-in-law is a typical Shanghai woman. She looks down on mainlanders, not to mention the girl who ran out of the ravine. When Hu Yue first fell in love with his son, she was very opposed to their relationship. When two in-laws were talking about marriage, they also fought with Hu Yue's parents, and the relationship between the two families was very stiff.

At home, she suffered a lot from Hu Yue, with all kinds of sarcasm. Hu Yue worked hard, making irresponsible remarks and making out with thieves all day long. After the holiday, she cooked good food for the old lady in a different way and became popular for a long time. Gradually, the old lady's face softened, and the relationship between the two people was not so stiff.

It's a good idea to handle the relationship with your mother-in-law. If you are kind to others, others will feel it. As a junior, treat the elderly with a low profile and let them know that they came with goodwill and love, not to rob their sons.

It is a serious illness that completely changes the relationship between the two.

When the old lady was walking in the park, she suddenly had a cerebral infarction and fell down, and she was in a coma for several days in the hospital. During this period, Hu Yue wiped the excrement and urine, watched the drip and took medicine to run to the hospital department, and took pains to do the examination. With such a high intensity, the old lady woke up and went to treat the disease.

The old lady saw all this and finally understood that it was her silly son who found the treasure. After an illness, her attitude changed greatly. She treated Hu Yue like her own daughter.

The old lady learned to cook Hu Yue's hometown dishes, invited her to dinner, bought her clothes, went shopping together and walked with her.

Hu Yue also dares to coquetry her mother-in-law, who also spoil her. Slowly, people in the community praised her, saying that her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were enemies, but she got along like mother and daughter, which was really a blessing in previous lives.

A few months later, her husband Xiao Zhi came back. He rushed to blame Hu Yue and said that Hu Yue didn't take good care of the old man. If it weren't for her mother-in-law's protection, she might have done it.

Although this matter has passed, Hu Yue found that there was something wrong with their relationship. Her husband began to find fault with himself, complaining about his taste in clothes, saying that he had no pursuit, and he shut up and talked about daily necessities. The most important thing is that they haven't been married long.

Hu Yue know, this is her husband despises himself. He usually travels on business and meets excellent white-collar entrepreneurs. They talk about the international situation, literature, history and philosophy together. When he got home, facing Hu Yue who was walking around the stove, there was a gap in his heart.

Finally, one day, the husband filed for divorce.

Hu Yue is very calm. In fact, what she hates most in this family is not her husband, but her mother-in-law. Two people really get along and become mother and daughter.

During the divorce, the intimate mother-in-law raised the issue of the second marriage of her daughter-in-law, and collected good men everywhere to be guests. Although Hu Yue didn't think it was necessary, he didn't live up to the old man's kindness, and he barely satisfied him.

I didn't expect to meet a suitable one, and their three views and pursuits were particularly compatible. Hu Yue knows that she is a layman, and she doesn't like art and politics. She just wants to live honestly and sweetly, and this person is.

After the divorce, the two established a love relationship, and then their feelings quickly warmed up. Three months later, they decided to get married. An accident happened suddenly during this time. Ex-husband died in a plane crash abroad.

The old man cried and wiped his tears, almost crying to death. Hu Yue often takes time to see the elderly, but gradually she finds that her mother-in-law's attitude has changed 180 degrees. It was sad that Hu Yue got married, but now he advised Hu Yue not to get married, saying that this man is a liar.

Hu Yue didn't take it to heart, and the wedding went on as usual. On the wedding day, Hu Yue was sitting in the dressing room backstage making up. Suddenly, the assistant ran in with a flustered look and said to Hu Yue, "Your mother-in-law made a big scene."

Hu Yue hurried out and saw her mother-in-law standing on the stage with a microphone, complaining that her son had been murdered by Hu Yue. Hu Yue is at a loss down there.

Just when everything was in a mess, Hu Yue's husband suddenly rushed onto the stage and said to the old man, Mom, are you afraid that no one will give you a pension after Hu Yue gets married?

Just after that, the old lady's tears poured out.

That's what the old lady is worried about. The old man left early, and his son had an accident, leaving him alone and unable to live at all.

Hu Yue's husband said, we have agreed that we will take you to live together in the future. I grew up in an orphanage without parents. If you come, you are the only one.

We still treat you like a mother.

In fact, life may be such a scene, and love for a person will be inextricably linked. Hu Yue's ex-husband's mother doesn't love Hu Yue? Maybe not. This is because after losing her beloved son, the old lady is even more at a loss, fearing that she will die alone. She may love herself more than Hu Yue, and Hu Yue's second husband also showed us the meaning of "kindness".

As Zhang Ailing said, life is a gorgeous robe full of lice. This may be the essence of life. It's like a little tick biting you. But you have to believe that as long as we have good ideas and a sunny mind. Learn to reconcile, and these lice will be picked out by us one day.

At that time, when we dry this beautiful robe in the sun, our faces will smile. I face tomorrow warmly in my heart.