Seriously, it's really hard to welcome this child! If I knew it was not easy, I would definitely choose a private hospital to give birth to this baby! Giving birth to this baby made me go through the hardest 12 days. To sum up, there are three reasons:
The first point: 12 went to two hospitals to see a doctor to shirk responsibility. It's none of my business. The routine is full. Honest people are forced to tear them apart and see the ugliness in the world.
The second point: the hardware environment of admission is like a construction site, with 30 square meters of people living in 10. Because of the particularity of obstetrics, the baby cries and the mother groans every night, and basically has not slept well. Mental and physical torture.
The third point: the grievances that can be said are not grievances. Because snoring has become a high-risk maternity, you don't believe anyone's explanation, and you become a sister-in-law. The conclusion is that you will never wake up a doctor who shirks his responsibilities.
Let me review the whole production experience, dating back to February 2065438+2007 65438+28. As a 39-week-old woman, she was told on Thursday afternoon that the amniotic fluid was 7.5cm, which was too little. Although the doctor of prenatal examination is the expert director of maternity hospital, it costs 300 yuan more each time, but the whole prenatal examination is actually very pleasant. I digress: no matter what industry, people standing at the top of the tower always need high emotional intelligence and communication skills. This expert is really much taller than the doctor in the delivery room of their hospital. My comparison is an insult to the director. He said a word and I was in the hospital. Because my home is close to the hospital, I went straight home to pack my things. Remind the parturient to bring the birth certificate after 38 weeks, because you may be admitted to the hospital at any time.
I went straight to the hospital after the formalities, and then I was dumbfounded! Born 30 years ago, I grew up in the countryside, but I have never lived in such a harsh environment. I didn't expect an extra bed, a wooden camp bed. There is a 2 mm quilt under it. The nurse said there was no mattress, and the quilt was always used as a mattress. I can only make do for one night. In this ward of less than 30 square meters, there are five beds, including two temporary beds, two babies and about four accompanying family members. Under 30 square meters, there are 10 people living. Lying in a hard bed because of low back pain during pregnancy, I feel the living environment is unprecedented. This is the most professional maternity hospital in Beijing?
Because it was an extra bed, there was no socket beside the bed, and then I told the doctor if I could change my bed or give me a patch panel. I want to use the ventilator at night. Because I snore. It needs to be summarized here: after pregnancy, I began to snore because I got fat, so I went to the respiratory department of Chaoyang Hospital for sleep monitoring and was diagnosed as sleep apnea syndrome. It sounds terrible, but in fact, I can't breathe when I snore. Afraid of the child's lack of oxygen, he was given a ventilator.
Then several young doctors in this hospital became "crazy" and began to ask me, "Why didn't you tell Director Zhang about your serious illness?" "You are seriously concealing your illness!" I don't understand why these little girls can't talk well, but they want to scare me with such sweet words! I didn't say goodbye to them here. After filling out the admission instructions, I also signed a wonderful guarantee, two of which made people laugh and cry. Article 1 roughly means that if the hospital suddenly loses power and the ventilator loses power, they will not bear any responsibility for the accident. But they are specialized hospitals. They are not responsible for anything except my sleep apnea. It's really hehehe ... It hurts! Then he told me that my husband was going to sleep with him today, and he gave me a bunch of reasons. In fact, if you die, we will be irresponsible, and we will not take the blame. I just have less amniotic fluid and snore. How can I die suddenly! Hehe, there is no need to whitewash anything. How can the hospital lose power? You are a maternity hospital, but please check the sleep apnea. A woman who is about to give birth is so scared by you. ......
My attending doctor is a male doctor and looks more experienced. He told me my situation in terms acceptable to normal people, saying that they are specialized hospitals and childbirth is a complicated situation. They don't understand sleep apnea syndrome, and they can't control it if something happens. I knew it was useless for me to explain my sleep apnea to him, so I accepted his statement. He said that one of his classmates was in the respiratory department of the Civil Aviation Hospital. See if you can contact me to transfer to another hospital and let me stay. Okay, I'll stay and wait. But then this buddy either didn't show up or didn't deal with it, which exposed the carelessness and arrogance of the awesome doctors in the awesome hospital.
In addition to 10 people living in the 30-square-meter ward, the various environments in this hospital are also appalling. The meal is forced out, and the daily budget is 100, including kelp and pig hair, with pictures and truth.
There is no shower in the ward. The shower is public and the equipment is old enough to shoot sunny days. I don't want to say that a man and a woman share a toilet. There is also a toilet blocked. I lived for three days before and after, and no one passed through the blocked toilet. The sink is horribly dirty, and there are pictures and truth.
The cleaning aunt looks like a wooden head. She didn't move until I found her and said the pool was blocked. Please clean up. I hope this article can be seen by the leaders of maternity hospitals.
That night, my husband and I stayed as requested. Neither of us is thin. It is too difficult for two fat people to squeeze a camp bed. That night, a child was crying all the time, and his parents didn't breast-feed, just listening to the child cry. I really don't understand. Are you also a wooden head? Let the child cry all night. The parturient in labor pains began to feel pain at 2 o'clock in the evening and has been hurting for 2 hours. Can't blame them, because they are coming to have children. The baby in my belly keeps kicking me when it hears crying. This may be the worst night for her. My heart is pounding! My husband and I didn't sleep much. At 3 o'clock in the evening, the nurse came to listen to the fetal heart again. At about 5: 30, the nurse turned on the light again. I stayed up all night. Because of the unpredictability of the future, I was really angry and anxious.
Things turned a little better, and the amniotic fluid was measured the next day, which was not low at all. Wipe the sweat, but the maternity hospital said that they would definitely transfer me. They can't afford this responsibility. I understand, but all the next day, I gently urged them every two hours, but these doctors still didn't complete the transfer procedure. Said to let me stay for one night and watch it tomorrow. I don't quite understand why this is so inefficient. It wasn't until a few days later that I cried and scolded in the doctors and nurses' offices, and they completed the transfer formalities within an hour, that I deeply understood that China people's right to see a doctor was played by fart people. This sentence, in many cases, is not extreme at all.
Then I stayed for another night, and it will be New Year's Eve soon. That night, a mean little girl doctor named Yuanyuan was on duty that night. The whole person smells good to say. I told her that night: I can cooperate with you and even sign a statement of responsibility. Actually, I signed it, but two days later, you didn't come up with a plan. I hope the plan is that I live here, don't go out, don't fill in the trouble, and then you can transfer to another hospital, if not, I will give birth here. There are no other plans. I ask countless times every day, and no one tells me the guarantee plan. This is very insecure. She later assumed all kinds of possibilities, saying that if you have a baby suddenly, we will definitely transfer it to you, and we will transfer it to you if you 120 send it. I'm a little confused. I have been doing a prenatal examination in this hospital, but I was refused because of snoring. It doesn't matter if I am rejected. I can't arrange a hospital.
This little doctor came to me this morning and said that he could leave the hospital early. They were sure that I could be transferred to another hospital on October 2nd, 65438/KLOC-0. I just want to know one detail. 6543810.2 kept asking the doctor who to look for, but the doctor didn't say anything, saying that you just need to find the doctor on duty. The doctor on duty will tell you not to worry. And signed a discharge notice. Hehe, the discharge notice said that the transfer time was February 2, and my child was transferred to P Hospital around the full moon on February 2. I found that I was going to find Yuanyuan in the future, but as a result, she was not there, and one of her colleagues helped her get it done. The paper was shredded. Hehe, but I have already taken photos.
So my husband and I were discharged from the hospital, and we were so sad. My husband comforted me that if we suddenly gave birth, we would call 120. We don't even have the right to have children! It's tragic to say so, but hehe, this is the dilemma we are facing.
After spending three days safely at home, my husband and I came to the hospital at 9: 00 am on June 2, 65438+, and went through the transfer formalities. I first came to the nurse's station and asked who the doctor was on duty today. I came to see the doctor on duty to go through the transfer formalities. As a result, the doctor on duty looked frightened and said, I don't know what happened. I immediately went crazy, raised at least 20 decibels, and said, how could I not know! According to the discharge procedure, 65438+ was transferred to the civil aviation hospital on 10. And then these doctors were all around me, and it was a little out of control. I met the male interns and female interns who kept urging me the next day after I was hospitalized, and Yuanyuan who wrote the wrong date and spoke badly. Suddenly, they all became the most annoying onlookers in China culture, watching the excitement and grabbing white: "Isn't this patient discharged from the hospital? ? "Why did you come again? What happened? I thought you left. Who is in charge? Look at me like a monster. Then my husband didn't feel bored and advised me to calm down. I said: I can't calm down. These people tricked me into leaving the hospital, and now they leave me alone! What happened, and then I started to break down and cry.
In this process, I didn't say a word except watching the fun and pretending I didn't know. On the contrary, the innocent doctor on duty brought me a chair and told me to sit down. Don't worry. She went to check the duty record of 65438+February 30th, and knew Yuanyuan was on duty. She asked Yuanyuan and Yuanyuan told her the whole story. The whole situation, I recorded the sound, so irritating, so kind! Will it kill you to tell someone such a trifle? Pretend not to know, be sarcastic. At this point, my husband was annoyed and the original transfer was not done at all. Then my husband and I were anxious! At the nurse station, I had a quarrel with the person who contacted the transfer hospital. I was scared when I spilled it. I've been worried that my husband would be scared by me. Besides, it was wise of me to tear up Yuanyuan. Their doctor is discussing this matter internally. Yuan Yuan talked about what it was like to be robbed by one of the doctors: Do you know why you didn't say anything? I took this opportunity to shout another wave: "Are you qualified to be a doctor? Why do you know you don't know! " She said, "Can you point at me again? ! "I said," I mean you! Yuanyuan, I remember you. I'm not finished with you! "
After my husband and I quarreled, a senior doctor, striking three strikes and five subjects, quickly contacted the medical department, made a transfer order, and informed the directors of the respiratory department and obstetrics and gynecology department of the Civil Aviation Hospital. I really don't understand why a 40-week-old pregnant woman has to be coaxed and waited for three days for such a simple thing, but it still doesn't work, and she is immediately scolded. And whether these interns can use their brains more at work instead of being pedantic step by step.
I'm still shaking with anger after completing the formalities. My husband said, don't be angry. Our medical department will sue this Yuanyuan. Then we went to the medical department hand in hand, and made two mistakes, and the discharge procedure was at the wrong time. 2 working attitude, knowing clearly but not communicating and assisting, was forced to explain the situation until the doctor on duty found out. About three days later, I got a call from the medical department, saying that I had fined Yuan Yuan 200 yuan and asked the director of the medical department to criticize me. Although 200 is not much, it represents the attitude of the hospital. This time, they made the patient stand up. Of course, I didn't ask them for a paycheck or anything. I hope this little doctor has really been dealt with. Later, I also reflected on whether I was too bad to fuck someone else's doctor. However, compared with the feeling of serving in a civil aviation hospital after transfer, I think doctors like Yuanyuan are really a minority and should be cleaned up.
The hardware, software and service attitude of doctors in civil aviation hospitals are better than those in maternity hospitals. When doing fetal heart monitoring, chat with the nurses. The nurses were surprised at why I was transferred from maternity hospital. The subtext is that maternity hospitals are more professional and better than them. But personally, I think it is not difficult to have a baby without special diseases. Doctors care, encourage and guide not only surgical techniques, but also how well a doctor without medical ethics can do even after surgery. Besides, a mouse excrement spoiled a pot of soup. In the long run, the atmosphere will change and the problem will be big.
Later, in 6543810.5, he was admitted to the civil aviation hospital. Four days after induced labor, I suddenly had a fever and high blood pressure. I changed from induced labor to caesarean section and finally gave birth to a daughter. After giving birth to a child, I was really filled with emotion. Among them, I want to say to my female friends that we should earn more money and have the conditions to go to private hospitals for students. Although civil aviation is a good hospital, the obstetrics department is quite special. Children cry and women suffer from pain, so they have rounds in two hours. Four days after giving birth, I was driven crazy by insomnia. On the last day, I went into the delivery room from 2 am to 5: 30 am and stayed up. Listening to the great compassion mantra, I meditated, made a circle of friends that only I could see, and entered the delivery room tragically. Welcome my baby who hasn't come out for more than 4 1 week.
Realizing the cruelty of this world and then loving it more is the real love of life. I hope my baby will not experience everything I have experienced, but can embrace the sunshine.